How to get a Scorpio interested again

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by irena on Monday, July 31, 2017 and has 19 replies.

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@irena
9 Years

I fuked up with this geezer quite a bit and now I think I ignored him for too long because he's not that interested in talking anymore lmao

texted him after almost 2 weeks of not calling, messaging, nothing and he was real cold about it

I expected it, i kinda had a feeling he had lost interest during these two weeks so I was already prepared for this

now what to do to get the lad back on my track, show him attention once again or just let him be

Do you think once he goes cold there's no point of turning back?

He's scorpio sun/moon i'm scorpio sun/mars so you can see we're pretty fuked already

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@irena
9 Years

it's hard mostly because we're not in the same country rn, if i were there i know i could get him back after actually meeting up with him but atm that's not possible so

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@Aquarius3189
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Sorry but you wont,scorp sun already have trust issues and you flaking up on him will result in him losing interest as well as trust,put that scorp moon and you got yourself a lot of work to do before he even trust you again,im a scorp moon myself and once a person starts acting weird or flake on me i question everything.

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@PhoenixRising
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by irena
Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by irena
just let him be

This.

i really don't feel like doing that though, i just don't know how should i act in this situation, i feel like he's getting back at me, which i can see why so i just want to reassure him again

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Right, so then why bother ask us whether or not you should leave him alone? You've clearly made up your mind.

With that stated, if someone ignored you for weeks what would make you consider responding to them again? I'd start there if you're serious about engaging him and don't have plans to flake out again. If you're not serious, refer to my first reply.

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@PhoenixRising
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I'm curious, after disappearing what did you say when you initiate convo with him again?

Did you come at him with some half hearted bs, or acknowledge you were acting flaky and apologize? Why did you choose text vs a phone call?

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@Bottabing
10 Years

Posted by irena
I fuked up with this geezer quite a bit and now I think I ignored him for too long because he's not that interested in talking anymore lmao

texted him after almost 2 weeks of not calling, messaging, nothing and he was real cold about it

I expected it, i kinda had a feeling he had lost interest during these two weeks so I was already prepared for this

now what to do to get the lad back on my track, show him attention once again or just let him be

Do you think once he goes cold there's no point of turning back?

He's scorpio sun/moon i'm scorpio sun/mars so you can see we're pretty fuked already

Why do folks play games with Scorpios... SMH... I wouldn't take no messages from you... A Scorpio deserves better ... Sick of seeing people toy with Scorpio people emotions... You will get stung...

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@irena
9 Years

Posted by Bottabing
Posted by irena
I fuked up with this geezer quite a bit and now I think I ignored him for too long because he's not that interested in talking anymore lmao

texted him after almost 2 weeks of not calling, messaging, nothing and he was real cold about it

I expected it, i kinda had a feeling he had lost interest during these two weeks so I was already prepared for this

now what to do to get the lad back on my track, show him attention once again or just let him be

Do you think once he goes cold there's no point of turning back?

He's scorpio sun/moon i'm scorpio sun/mars so you can see we're pretty fuked already

Why do folks play games with Scorpios... SMH... I wouldn't take no messages from you... A Scorpio deserves better ... Sick of seeing people toy with Scorpio people emotions... You will get stung...

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the lad does the same thing back, i'm also a scorp, i deserve better as well smh smh

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@irena
9 Years

Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by irena
Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by irena
just let him be

This.

i really don't feel like doing that though, i just don't know how should i act in this situation, i feel like he's getting back at me, which i can see why so i just want to reassure him again

Right, so then why bother ask us whether or not you should leave him alone? You've clearly made up your mind.

With that stated, if someone ignored you for weeks what would make you consider responding to them again? I'd start there if you're serious about engaging him and don't have plans to flake out again. If you're not serious, refer to my first reply.

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i've actually asked how to lure him back in, but i can see your point, this comes off as childish which it is to certain point