will scorpio guy take me back?

hmmm. wow. you've def. got a sticky situation, there. i can't offer much (because i'm in kind of a similar situation, and i know how confusing everything is) but lemme say this: sex, especially so soon, always complicates things. i mean, it really, really complicates things, because then it's easy to confuse an intense physical connection with the emotional connection, if there is one.

it's hard to say what his motivations are. he could just be scared of how well you guys go together, or he could be stringing you along for his own amusement. there are both types of guys around just like there are both types of girls - sounds to me your problem is less astrological and more communicative.

if i were you, i'd just be honest - tell him you were scared that he wasn't interested and you did something stupid becasue of it, and you're really sorry. you really like him and hope to spend more time with him, get to know him better, because i'm sure as a scorp (as you and i both are) he'll appreciate the gesture toward something stable, as opposed to all the fighting you two have been doing.

like i said before, i can't say much on this because i'm going thru something simil;r at the moment, so a lot of my advice is kind of guess-and-check (the last thing you or anyone needs, i know =])but i really hope things work out for you guys.

i've learned that if all else fails, just be honest; with yourself and with everybody around you. if people can't handle your obvious honesty, then they're got their own issues to deal with that have nothing to do with you. good luck, and update us!!!

OFF WITH HIS HEAD! cheer up sweets =) you can do better and everything db said =)

Scorpios may be the ones that are slow moving in relationships...always cautious, etc...but our imagination is ridiculus.

DB that is funny and yet true.

This is going to sound harsh but you seem to be on a mission to find yourself a guy like yesterday!..whats the hurry?, its not the end of the world, your only 33..How long have you known this guy number 1? barely two minutes and you can't live without him already? please...get a grip woman!..I think he read you like a book. Desperation can be smelt a million miles off..Get over him, he wasn't worth it in the first place. He got what he wanted it seems and now its adios..

Patience is a virtue..

"so far you're pretty much your own enemy."

Totally agree!
Chill OrientScorp! What's the rush?! So you're 33? and are out to get a guy...You have to learn to be happy with yourself first and everything else will follow from there. I think those experiences with these guys show one thing: you need to change your attitude about life and not put your happiness on whether you're married or not. I understand the pressure that we and society put on us women, but you won't get anywhere by letting these pressures rule your actions.
take time to know a guy as a person, thus giving him the chance to know you...and who knows what might happen from there...

Scorpio or nor scorpio, orientscorp, most Arab men have double standards and would not consider a serious relationship if they sleep with you so soon. So you have to be careful with Arab men if you're looking for a serious relationship.

I also agree with most people, why are you in such a hurry.

I never understand why people communicate via text.

Anyway, here's my evaluation:

Anytime sex is introduced early on, it's a hit or miss as to how you will be perceived afterwards. You had only known this guy for a cumultative of less than 24 hours. If there was intensity there, I can't say. But what you should have done was listen to him when he said he was going to be busy doing inventory for three days and left him alone. What you did instead by texting him the next 3 days only made yourself to be clingy or already in love with the guy, which let's be honest, you aren't.

In regard to him not responding to those texts and phone calls: he only answered the call from the new # because he didn't recognize it to be yours. Once you texted him from the new #, he began avoiding you, didn't you?

Listen to us, he's not interested. He got what he wanted and you just need to chalk this up to a lesson learned.

You mentioned that you ended it on text. What did you end? You were not committed to one another - you'd only known him for a very very very very very very short time.

As for guy #2, well...I agree with MissMorals. You seem to be in a hurry to be in a relationship. If you put out so early, you won't exactly have the "relationship" or "marriage" material reputation, but rather the girl who puts out...if that's what you want, then I'm sure you'll have the boys texting you in no time.

I say try to make friends there, forget about both of these guys, and move on with your life. Oh and as far as this friend who set you up to begin, I would question what his motive is as well, but that's another story.