Scorps communication

& how do you expect people to communicate with you?

I would *like* people to cut to the chase and say whatever needs to be said. I can *expect* people to beat around the bush and take forever to get to the point.

TG, when I don't communicate, I don't want to hurt someone's feelings, and I am thinking about a more cordial way to say something, either how I feel, what I am feeling, etc., I am very blunt and sometimes the things I say may hurt someones feelings.

yea you are right jackdoniel, but sometimes that is to much for people, and we tend to scare people with our physical words, and expresssions, you might say. I was once told by a leo that I was to intense, and that was an insult to me and I left his azz LOL

I don't communicate well with the object of my affections..If they phone me, great I will chat for hours..but don't expect me to call you or anything..unless I want something.

Actions do speak louder than words..but what constitutes an action?..action of what kind? thats always bothered me...

OK, scorps ex told me "Ya he's probally cheating on you on there"

so i get drunk & ask him & now he freaked that i don't trust him AND cuz i talked to his ex after he said i shouldn't talk to her cuz "she's a slut"

so fffffffffffffffffffffffff, he said to call him tonite, OMG, trial with my scorp this is gonna get UGLY!!!

Do u guys forgive? I don't believe he would cheat on me, all his other friends imply that he he loyal & is madly inlove, so ffffffffffff why did I doubt I feel like this is a nightmare!!! 😢 😢 😢

You should listen to your own head/heart..don't listen to others especially not a bitter ex, it always ends in trouble.

Just be calm and talk it through with him, i am sure he'll understand why you would come to that assumption. But he will get his 2 cents worth in..**I told u so**..be prepared for it.

generally, in the beginning, i'm a lot more "mysterious" and self-assuring with people, and then when they get on my nerves i just go all out with brutal honensty, which many people consider malicious but people should be grateful for it.

in relationships, tho, to answer your question, i'm always the one who starts the conversations about where things are headed, and i'm always the one who is honest to a fault.

branh, sounds like you've had your heart broken by a scorpio. =].

No scorps just attack to turn the attention away from them.

Most of the Scorpios i have met had no problem communicating.....i think i may have met ONE who was a textbook Scorpio.....she didn't say much.....

branh I would not say it was evasive, I would say that we are doing what you virgo's do that is why we annoy you.

Lol @ jack..everybody I attack deserves the attack, no innocent victims.
Aint that the truth

Well I don't think accusing your boyfriend of cheating for no really good reason is in the good books, JD. I would be hurt if he didn't trust me...come to think of it, he doesn't want me hanging around that ex but still, that's understandable - she is a trouble-maker. We all used to get along, she has a bf, but still some girls like drama.

Almost seems like I do already, dammit! lol

Do I deserve an attack though, no. I deserve a little communication which I better get 2nite! Hence why I brought up this thread.

in relationships my communication is usually direct. what i like in return - directness as well. no games.....however if i'm unsure, i'll just be quiet until i'm sure of what i want to say before saying it.

forgive? of course, if i feel the apology's sincere i let it blow over coz i don't like holding grudges, that takes too much energy. but forgetting about it is a little diff...it's not like i'll be thinking about it all the time, just the next time if it happens again i'll remember and likely not be as forgiving. probably not as forgiving. def. not as forgiving, lol...

open & honest communication always makes me feel better, and confirms whatever gut feelings i have (oh, and staying well away from ex's is good also, hehe...oh, and being sober :p)

good luck on your talk tonight, i'm sure it won't be as bad as you think 🙂

We talked, I cried, I learnt lesson, he was like "I gotta get over this!" I explained my insecurities (not fun for this bull). He listened.

Next day he called me at work with a formal apology of freaking out. I was in shock, me & him definately wanna be together - we make it work.

THREAD CASE CLOSED. 🙂

20 mins!..is that all....

Oh fffffff I WISH!!!! I month to go, I'm gonna hurt! lol 😛

LOL! Those fingers look damn gross! haha