I want answers, thus

going to be brief and to the point.

Why in the hell would a Scorpio not return
my call in TWENTY SIX days now?

Last call was pleasant enough. I called 2 more
times and left a message each time a week after
each time.

NOTHING, NADA, ZIP

And no she is not dead, I woulda heard about that.

Do you Scorps do the silent treatment wanting to
simply piss people off and get a reaction?
Or do you really want us to just go away?
If ya just wanted us to go away, why say "call
ya later"

Bastages, the lot of ya!!!! :}

ps, I am hurting hella bad

sorry for the double post, hit enter instead of tab.
New here, how do I get rid of the first topic? ty

do you really want us to just go away?



Ding ding ding-The winning answer!!!!!

What did wellhellooo win, Pat?

So then, Scorps are just chicken shit and won't come out
and say, "Hey, this isn't working, have a nice life?"

No instead you lead people on? Why?

Come on, I am not totally wet behind the ears. I pretty
much got the hint after a week. But at the same time, silly
me, was "concerned" as if you talk to someone several times
a week for a few months, then get this weird treatment you
wonder? Hey they ok? Are they making a cry for help? Are
they on the floor and can't get up? lol

Really, that is just the shits. Nothing at all in the last
conversation led me to believe she would just drop off the face
of the earth.

Yeah, if we had only been together a few days or a few weeks,
it would be no biggy. But it was a few months and SHE was the
one talking about marriage. Then, just turned.

Sounds like you pissed her off! Did you flirt with another in front of her? Did you talk to the opposite sex with to much eye contact?

Not to piss you off, but you asked for advice. You could have made her mad without even realizing it and you might never know. It's a defense response I have. It's not right. But that's what I do to avoid being hurt further.

Either that or she found someone else!

"Not to piss you off, but you asked for advice. You could have made her mad without even realizing it and you might never know. It's a defense response I have. It's not right. But that's what I do to avoid being hurt further."

In my heart, I know this is what is going on. Nothing else makes sense!
Thus have been thinking and thinking and talking and anything to understand
this. She won't call me back, so how on earth do I communicate with her?
Can't as I feel like even if I finally understand what I said wrong so we can
talk about it?

This is what I think happened: I casually mentioned over coffee in the a.m.
about a certain subject. Noted that a gal I know said so and so about it, ya
know, gave advice. The Scorp said nothing and just stared at me for a while.
Then said "Well, that is not true, blah blah blah is true." Christ , it was
about technical advice!

Anyhoo, it was a innocent thing, but I can't forget the look she gave me during
the silence after I said that. And shit hit the fan several hours later. But
then we had great makeup sex. Then we talked on a Sunday for like a half an hour
and nothing made me think she would never call me again.

*cries*

wellhell-

what did YOU do to freak her out into giving you the cold shoulder?

I knew it...there HAD to be SOMETHING...

*gives wellhell a nice slap in the face*

there

no tell me what the convo was about

I'm sorry but I can't give advice unless I know the WHOLE story

well

hellloooooooo?

are you still wallowing? or are you ready to talk?

how on earth do I communicate with her?

You don't! She'll get into contact with you when and if she's ready. It's a stupid game, I know! If you really, really think she is worth it, just wait it out. That's all you can do!

I agree with kennyg also. Hey, the guy plays a great sax. Might as well listen to the advice. But seriously, stop calling. Even one phone call when she is not ready to talk to you is one phone call to many. And don't whine if you leave a message. We really f**king hate whiners. (Which I doubt you are)

Just give her time to lick her wounds. If she really loves ya, she'll be back in a few months. 🙂

lol, I just left a first message saying hey, how are you? Gimme a call,
hope to hear from you soon.

Week of silence.

Call again, Hi, hope you are well just thinking about you. Hope to hear
from you soon.

Now almost 3 weeks of silence.

Clueless as I look at the naked pics she gave me. Clueless
as I walk to my car across the grass (we burned it pretty good)
to my car. Clueless as I look at my broken bed frame. Clueless.

She asked me if I said "I love you" when we were kinda fighting.
Well, hell she asked me that after she dumped me. I said "no,
I did not say that." Cuz I didn't say that. But I do. Grrr.

Sick puppy I am.

I knew you played sack!!!

Yes WH don't call-don't call-don't call!!! Can't stress it enough!!!

*raises hand*Are we supposed to take this topic seriously or no?lol

Take it as it comes at ya Tia. 🙂

ok

Well am I ruined now for any hope because I did call?

Aries, female, dyke, etc be me

Not ruined. Tarnished maybe. 🙂

Just give her time, like I said. She'll be back.

So, are you a Scorp? This one is both sun and rising, not getting
around it she be a Scorp.

I was told by a friend of hers to expect to wait 6 months for her
to come around.

So, wth? Is that true? You would torture for 6 months? Ouch.....
heh

Geez DB! You are such a Scorp!!!! LOL

"You would torture for 6 months?"

It's been 4 months since I've last talked to my "friend". Yes, he pissed me off! And it's not torture. I'm just thinking about what I want to say to him.

While reading these post I thought back, and realize that on Sunday I made a decision not to call the Taurus guy I was seeing, not because I was mad at him, I am not calling for a few reasons

1. Thinking about do I still want to pursue the friendship
2. Calming myself down because if he is moody one more time while on the phone I will lay into him about it and won't be his friend no more anyway, (chance I will probably take)
3. Sex sucks actually how do I tell him without hurting his ego and making him feel even more insecure about his manhood
4. Should I just cut the sex, and keep it platonic.
5. Can't go see him no more because of it.

So until I find the right words to say I can't talk to him, I do care and know he cares a lot about me and I just can't hurt his feelings.

Maybe I'll just walk away and never look back. So immatures, I am women enough to tell him, how is the question.