The most UNTRUSTING sign..

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by al7isra on Sunday, July 9, 2006 and has 21 replies.

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@al7isra
20 Years

Isn't it suppose to be scorpio? They dont trust no one much huh? Well. I am very untrusting. I got issues, lol. Well anybody know why? My chart is in profile, don't know what to do about myself. Seems like I think everyone is gonna screw me over and betray me. It's complicated.. lol

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@piscesgrl
20 Years

Well how much do you think the contributing factors could be due to your life experiences so far? No matter what's in the stars for us all, I really believe that your external environment is a big personality shaper. We're not born to be untrusting, it's a learned trait.

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Yeah,scorps are supposed to be the most untrusting sign.

"Seems like I think everyone is gonna screw me over and betray me. It's complicated.."

^^Thats classic astrologers mumbo jumbo about how scorps supposedly feel,in reality I just don't give a poop about being social only for the sake of being social and basically "needing" people around me 24/7.

And yes,a psychiatrist...you've got issues😉

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@al7isra
20 Years

BUT I AM GEMINI not scorpio thats the deal. I think it has more to do with my NUMEROLOGy 7... is VERY untrusting number.

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

I knew that already,al7isra when I responded to the post lol.Its probably got something to do with the pisces moon and cancer mars BUT again its evironment related so conseling is still a good idear.It'll fuck with your relationships big time.

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@capvirgo
20 YearsCapricorn

I know my Scorpio friend was a player but only cause he was dating another Scorpio - my past two bosses were Sagittarians and they were supposibly players to their significant others as well (the one was with a Leo though he was more of one than the one w/ a Cancer) but I guess it all depends on the type of sign I guess that person is with compared to the type of sign that person is naturally 😛)

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@al7isra
20 Years

But you know, I feel like crap, I know sb and AprilBaby it's a theory, but when I treat people well and they screw me over, how am I suppose to react?? I dont trust anyone now...

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@sexysyrian
20 Years

no thats not always true because im a scorpio and sometimes i cant keep my mouth closed about my secrets LOL i just talk to much! i think its because my moon sign is gemini

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@eliza0012
21 Years5,000+ PostsAquarius

'....those who have a problem with trust are untrustworthy themselves...'

NO, not necessarily.....i wouldnt say they are untrustworthy..i'd say they are WISE... in todays world you CANT trust people... i know soooo many people who've been harmed sooo much coz of their blind trust in other... (in some cases people paid a huge prize for trusting their spouse but you gotta trust your man.... dang!! why is it hard 😢😢😢 ).....

i would never hurt or betway someone who trusts me but i know people do it.... they use and abuse others and so itz wisdom not to trust....

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@Storm
21 Years

I dunno, I guess it depends on the person. For me there are some people that I trust completely from the get go, and then there are others that I wouldn't trust even if you paid me, well!! Different strokes for different folks I guess. I guess it would probably be due to the scorp all or nothing nature. I have friends out there that I would go to the ends of the earth for, and I know they would do the same for me. Because of that, yes I am picky on who gets the label of friend for me. I equate friends with family, and I love my family, so naturally, I love my friends. For new people that come into my life, I can tell from the beginning if they are someone I can identify with or not. If so, they have my trust unless they break it in one way or another. And there are certain things that I'll trust some with, yet not others. Perfect example, I watched as one of my friends was in financial dire straits, at the time I had a bit of money saved up. I decided to give her some money to help her out, not loan it to her, give, $ 180 worth.... Some time had passed, and the friend made a store run for me on the way to my house. Right as soon as said friend came into my house, she indicated to me exactly how much I owed her for the stop 8 $ . I handed her the money, and vowed never to 'give' her jack again.... Again love her dearly, but I will never give her any financial assistance again. That's not to say she's not trusted with anything else, just that...