Why Do Taurus Men Leave.....Then Come Back?

female
Thanks Heather
female
I completely understand where you're coming from, and I have all faith in you that you are continuing to experience and enjoy life while letting the Taurus get himself together. I hope he figures it out soon; you deserve with your loyalty and tenacity to have the same returned to you when he is ready. Especially if something deep down is telling you that he is the one. Again, luck to you!!

Love,
Heather
female
Thank you Heather. That was very sincere. You have it right. I do go out and do other things with male friends of mine, but I still find myself playing the "waiting game" eventhough I KNOW it's not healthy. I've posted different times regarding this situation with my Taurus friend. The last convo I had with him he stated that he wanted to get his self together in order to give me 100% of him because he's going through a lot of problems in his life. I know how Tauruses (including myself) will go in seclusion when things in our lives are not right so I understand where he's coming from. By all means I'm not a HERMIT sitting around and waiting, but I do know deep in my soul that he is meant for me?! (well I said that about my Cancer ex-boyfriend too, but things didn't work out we are still good friend til this day though).
female
Scorpio female here.

I have to say that I haven't had much experience with Taurus men "leaving" and then "coming back". I am usually the one telling them to leave, and then they come back. lol. I would have to say that if he is the one leaving, I would question his sincerity. For your own sake. You are worth more than that kind of inconsistency. And you need to be gently blunt with him and tell him so. You have to decide not to silently allow him to keep you guessing like this and just make it crystal clear to him that you will not wither away waiting for a decisive move from him. Well, you might say it gentler than that, I have a problem with the bluntness being a scorp and all ; )
I am not saying that you're not making the most of your life without him during this confusing period--I'm sure you are although I don't know for sure. I just hate to think that you might be stuck waiting for so long that you miss the right man (if indeed this Taurus isn't) who comes along and passes by because you're STILL waiting and emotionally preoccupied with this guy. All the luck in the world to you and be strong!

Heather
female
Taurus Male here:

My God, another person that thinks we are so good at cheating....

Do me a favor....Honesty is a challenge for everyone, some just do it better than others. So if you happen to experience one who has cheated you, please do not assume, we all do. (in any sign, for that matter)

Yup, I gotta admit that there are some dishonest Taureans out there. So, whatevcr you buy into out there "buyer beware" (another "risk" of love, I suppose).

Taurus Male
female
I didn't read everything re: this topic but I will say - hey - has anyone ever thought that there is someone ELSE!!

Good lord - what is wrong with you people!? Taurus are quite the cheats - in a very subtle way.

Investigate it guys! and don't put too much of your energy into it all OK.

female
Thank you. That was very kind of you.

female
I say this because you seem to have so many characteristics of a Taurus. You and Taurus Male are great conversationalist.
female
Yes, I'm sure I am Aries

female
Hey Aries Female,

Are you sure you're not a Taurus?!
female
Well said Taurus Male -- about the giving. The only thing I can think of about some Taurus' leaving and coming back (when it involves an already established relationship) is that when they are experiencing difficulties in their lives, they need time alone to work things out and wish not to speak to anyone -- just kind of dissapear for awhile, but not intentionally. And I don't think they love the people in their lives any less because of it.

I have a very good Taurus female friend and one time she was experiencing job difficulties, I did not hear from her much. And right now, my Taurus male friend is having some personal difficulties and we haven't been in touch. I could be wrong but it's just a thought.

And in general, sometimes I will retreat if things are not going well for me, after all, I don't want to burden my friends -- or a new relationship perhaps -- with my problems until I work things out in my for myself.

Aries female
female
Taurus Male here:

Kindof strange about the dumping and then going back. Some sort of emotional game playing or something. Don't think it is a standard thing with us. Whatever it is, it doesn't sound like true love working behind it...

Also, may I Please clarify this "give and give" thing I mentioned....I did not mean that you are to give and keep on giving, no no. What I was trying to convey is that if you are all giving to your partner and your partner is all giving to you....then you won't have to find yourself having to worry about receiving, because your partner will already be giving you what you need as you are to him/her. That is what I mean by a give - give relationship.

Let us face the fact that TRUE GIVING does not have a price tag on it. That is why it is truely rare in this world.

Taurus Male
female
I must say "AMEN!" to this message board's comments. Both my sister and my ex-boyfriend are Tauruses and the BOTH leave the people they love then go back as if nothing had ever happened. My ex left me for another person, then came crawling back to me begging for forgiveness saying "he didn't know why he ever left". So we got back together then he left to go back to another one of his ex-girlfriend that he had left months earlier! My sister is also notorious for ditching someone than going right back to them months later. Why is this? Any comments from you Tauruses out there?
female
Thanks, good to get some positive feedback. These message boards often seem to turn into slagging matches.
female
If the guy is not giving "enough" then let him know what "enough" is, and if he does not practice what "enough" is in your view, then by all means get "enough" with someone else who realises what "enough" is.

Just my two cents worth, I guess...
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