A bad Taurus

Alright I decided to turn to you Taurus' to help me gain some clairty on a situation which has arisen. I am a capricorn, my boyfriend is a sagittarius, and his new found BFF is a girl Taurus. Now I am good friends with a few girl Taurus' I always seem to get along well with other Taurus' just in general. However, this girl seems to be different. I have never met/talked to her before. She knows who I am, I know who she is. She mainly knows me through my bestfriend, because she slept with her old boyfriend, who was her current BF at the time. After she slept with him she actually wrote my friend online and told her how much her boyfriend really loved her. I have also had another person tell me she is a stuck up bi**h. I tried to add her myspace profile to mine, but she denied me. She was not the only person I added I added a lot of my boyfriends friends to my account so that we can all sort of get to know each other, not just to lerk their accounts. Well I got pissed off about it, and called my BF and was like look why did she deny me— I was like she likes you, shes jealous of me, she has a history of screwing up relationships, I dont like you being friends with her. He freaked out on me saying that she was sweetest person he ever met and she would never ruin a relationship blah blah. She also apparently told him he deserves someone better than me, who will not cheat on him. (I guess he failed to mention that when I slept with someone else me and him were not even dating!!!! and when we were dating he slept with at least 5 other girls or more) The reason I mentioned that, is because it seems like she wants to date him. Well apparently they talked about me and he came back saying that, "She is not going to add you so you can lerk her page, she said if you want to be friends with her you have to write her and get to know her." I was like wtf are you freakin kidding me, its fn myspace kiss my a $ *. I am NOT going to write her like its a privledge to be friends with a wh0re.... So tell me is this a Taurus gone bad or what? Im dealing with an unfaithful Sagg and a bull who needs to be yanked at the horns. What should I do?? Write her, befriend her— Or find a sneaky way of nicking the friendship in the bud?? I mean I guess if my BF loved me, I wouldn't have to deal with this, but I love him so I need a way to deal with this....

There are a couple of friends of friends and "friends" that I wouldnt add to my myspace among other people because just like he said she said, I dont know them. I keep a really low number of people on all of my friend lists because I dont see the need to add people that I dont know or people that I dont really have anything to say to, even if we went to the same school, grew up in the same neighborhood, and hung out in the same place. Online networks are social not personal, why add you if ya'll dont socialize?

I dont know the whole situation, but maybe your boyfriend asked her how she felt about him being with you and her reply was a reply to his one sided convo about you cheating on him, maybe he failed to mention that ya'll werent together or that you was also with other people. And maybe she told the ex-girlfriend of the other guy that he really loved her because that chic was still on the ex and she was trying to let her know she needed to just let him go. There are 2 sides to every story and folks can only reply to the side they get, I would say get to know her before you jump to any conclusions or try to cook a plan to kink the relationship (which could end up with you looking a mess) and then after you've gotten to know her if you still think shes a rotten cookiemonster tell her where to go and where to shove it.

or that he was with other people*, i messed that sentence up lol

Yeah hes a Sag moon Pisces. I am a Cap moon Leo. and she is Taurus moon b**th lol jk i dont know what her moon sign is...maybe Cancer I never have gotten along with a cancer, or Gemini since she lies about how many people she sleeps with and tries to keep a "good" girl image, even though she is anything but a good girl. The reason i was adding her is because eventually her and I will meet, and why would I want my BF, who is possibly going to be my husband one day, be friends with a girl that I couldnt be friends with ya know— And its true she is totally going with the one sidedness of the story... Doesnt make me like her any more/less... I dont trust her.

And Taurus' seem to be pretty promiscuous.... I havent met one that was a virgin thats for sure. She tried to tell my boyfriend she only slept with one person! Even though I knew that was BS and I told him it was BS and he stuck up for her, then he found out she did screw my friends BF and now says its only 2 guys... Rightttt..... Im dealing with my BF's inability to admit to me that he knows what i know that she is going to cause problems with us.

wait, back it up tauruses ARENT promiscuous, at least Im not. And you're right Merc, are you sure she's a Taurus or is that just what her MySpace says? I cant stand Sags

How old are yall? And you seem to know a LOT about geminis lol you were dead on with like 5 words

all of us are in our twenties.... i feel like im 16 dealing with this sh!t though.... and really you dont think your a little promiscuous?? Im not saying that to be mean, just making a personal observation from how all my taurus friends are, loyal in relationships a little wild when not in one... and ill find out for sure if she is taurus or not, it is what her myspace said, but your right who knows!? As for the Gemini thing I mean't she has a very two sided personality... reminds me of my gemini aunt... doing bad things, but playing the innocent card. its annoying, really it is.

TAURUS FEMALE = POSSESSIVE.
MOTTO = I HAVE

she will try to make him hers.

Im not promiscuous at all. Im not a prude or a virgin, but I'm by NO means promiscuous. Im sensual, sometimes a little vulgar, and naughty but promiscuous....ummm nah.

and LLT is right, you notice she's a new found best friend forever...we move fast to get in for a lifetime. She'll want him to come to her for advice and whatnot. She might not try to make him her man but she definitely wont complain if some type of codependency arises.

we're control freaks - i think that's the problem.

yah, but its not a good way when its possessive and loyal to another woman's man, thas when it gets Ugly.

cuz liek i said, we rarely back down. and i stress the word "rarely".

My ex was a Taurus the motto deff was "Taurus = I have" we used to make jokes about it, but it really wasnt that funny... It eventually ended us lol...

Thanks for the advice... I think Im going to listen to you guys!

Taurus men are faithful? hummm I think not. I did some research about this sign because my boyfriend is taurus. and all the sites talk a lot about taurus men's stability and loyalty. Unfortunately, I just recently had some problems with my boyfriend. I found out something about him that proved he's not as loyal as i thought he was. One thing i don't understand is that they all say taurus sometimes is faithful to an extreme. But I don't see this trait in my bf...now we're basically "on a break". I want to give each other a break and i wish him to find out what he really wants, like to be with me or to mess around with other girls! 😢

I'm not at all a control freak. When I'm in control, I don't freak out in the least. 😉

I'm also not promiscuous. Then again, I guess it depends on how you look at things. A lot of people think that promiscuous means sleeping with a lot of people. Who cares if someone's a virgin? (Well, I do, because in my experience being with a virgin really sorta sucks, though it is fun to be a teacher every now and again.)

No, being promiscuous is more about being willing to have sex with anyone. Think low, or no, standards.

I must admit, I know of two Taurus women who are very permiscuous and deceptive. They destroyed marriages by sleeping with their (friends at the time) husbands. So, yeah... True.

She is definitely bad news. They are probably screwing. I have known a couple to be very deceptive with men.

IMO, Taurus men are way more faithful than some Taurus women.

Faithful? I most certainly am faithful. Now, (and this may be the Sag rising in me that I just discovered the other day to explain this) I may *want* to wander from time to time, and I might get the "grass is greener" syndrome, I'd never actually follow through with it.

***I may *want* to wander from time to time, and I might get the "grass is greener" syndrome***

Who isn't curious about this—

For me, it's more than just thinking about it or wondering about it. I get a strong, almost persistent need to seek greener pastures, even if where I am now is quite green enough. It's sometimes overwhelming, and I've come quite close to succumbing to it.

"IMO, Taurus men are way more faithful than some Taurus women."

QS, we need to talk. LOL
Let me shed the light on these Don Juan's of the zodiac.

HP, I am sure there are definitely some exceptions... In my experience, the ones I have known seem to be great partners to their significant other.

you must not know many taurus women...... you really have to put us through hell before we give up on you....

XF, I wasn't talking about Taurus women giving someone up, but deceiving and sleeping with someone elses husbands...

right and these husbands were completely innocent...it must be our magical Taurus powers that made them do it...maybe its their (the husband's) sign...I mean really...with only knowing 2 women that have done this I hardly think it can be considered a trait. I would NEVER intrude on someone else's relationship much less marriage.

you mentioned loyalty - that implies your saying they cheat on THEIR husbands/boyfriends - and second I would NEVER do that. and I don't think that sweetest fatale, or houston peach would either.

lol beat you Angel, but you're right.

once again you and I think exactly alike

lol Imma just stop posting on this and let you speak for both of us, its kinda redundant with both of us saying the same thing

nah - just reinforces it :0)

and you know how I am with astrology - I have to know EVERYONE'S sign - so I know when I meet a taurus and I've only ever known two taurus cheaters - one guy and one girl and BOTH cheated with a scorp....those scorps are dangerous for us....