a little lost.....

Hi I haven't been here in a while because I was happily in love with my taurus it is true what they say about them being loyal and very loving and caring. In abundance. Also I think it's true what they say abotu possesiveness. At least in my taurus case. Well anyway I won't get into the nitty-gritty of teh relationship suffice to say it's over. He held onto anger from an arguement and began to treat me badly, which he admited, but I had been too hurt and broke up with him, the relationship had always been pretty firey anyway several break ups mostly me but some him. Anyway after this last break up I moved out, he pleaded for anoher chance but I was very scared of things going badly again. We hurt each other alot accidently and sometimes on purpose. Anyway we were still in contact trying to work things out, him promising to be different , me trying my best to belive him. Then another big argument occured coming from my hurt feelings about his mistreatment of me in recent times. We went to our separate corners again. Then we speak two days later. He says he is still sure I am the one for him but thinks we have tried everything and nothing seems to work. He says maybe time apart will make us miss each other and hopes we can revisit the relationship after a period of time. Its been two weeks since that. I have been struggling with not contacting him but have respected his wishes. I think it's only fair. It's just now I'm wondering...he seems final about breaking up..which I would understand but then saying all that other stuff about knowing I am the one etc makes it feel not quite over. I don't really know...was he saying those things to protect my feelings from the harsher truth? Or is this actually some kind of game playing with me? I guess what I am asking is should I try to meet up to clarify or leave him alone? I feel it's hard for me to move on unless things are definite but I don't want to rush him either. This is the first time in two years we have gone no contact. Any advice is very welcome.

Hi I haven't been here in a while because I was happily in love with my taurus it is true what they say about them being loyal and very loving and caring. In abundance. Also I think it's true what they say abotu possesiveness. At least in my taurus case. Well anyway I won't get into the nitty-gritty of teh relationship suffice to say it's over. He held onto anger from an arguement and began to treat me badly, which he admited, but I had been too hurt and broke up with him, the relationship had always been pretty firey anyway several break ups mostly me but some him. Anyway after this last break up I moved out, he pleaded for anoher chance but I was very scared of things going badly again. We hurt each other alot accidently and sometimes on purpose. Anyway we were still in contact trying to work things out, him promising to be different , me trying my best to belive him. Then another big argument occured coming from my hurt feelings about his mistreatment of me in recent times. We went to our separate corners again. Then we speak two days later. He says he is still sure I am the one for him but thinks we have tried everything and nothing seems to work. He says maybe time apart will make us miss each other and hopes we can revisit the relationship after a period of time. Its been two weeks since that. I have been struggling with not contacting him but have respected his wishes. I think it's only fair. It's just now I'm wondering...he seems final about breaking up..which I would understand but then saying all that other stuff about knowing I am the one etc makes it feel not quite over. I don't really know...was he saying those things to protect my feelings from the harsher truth? Or is this actually some kind of game playing with me? I guess what I am asking is should I try to meet up to clarify or leave him alone? I feel it's hard for me to move on unless things are definite but I don't want to rush him either. This is the first time in two years we have gone no contact. Any advice is very welcome.

I hear ya on that....same happens to me with an ex Scorpio .....and sometimes space is needed to appreciate what u had......it's not easy no....but it's neccessary, it's been hard for me to, but us Taurus can be pretty stubborn.....explains the arguments and break ups......from your statement I know you love him, I feel it in the words your writing......you guys do need time to think, try your best to think about the pros and cons of the relationship, it might clear a few things up for u

It is difficult because of his stubbornness sometimes and inability to see past his own feelings about something!! I don't know u are both right I do love him very much and we have both acted immaturely. And the plot thickens. He unfriended me on Facebook when he took this time apart, last night he refriended me. Also I had asked a friend to contact him during the week to ask about when he would b able to return my dog. He responded to her saying the weekend. The weekend came and he text my friend to say he was too busy he would do it this morning so i had my mother wait to get the dog. He never turned up. He then text me to say he had dropped her in my garden. I think he may have wanted to avoid my mother. That's understandable however he said he didn't see why I didn't contact him directly about the arrangement? I responded saying that I was just trying to respect his wishes around us not contacting each other to which he replies that he didn't mean never contact him ever just not every day ( this was not the impression I had gotten from our conversation, he blatantly said we shouldn't speak) then he said guess it doesn't matter now anyway take care. I replied thanks for dropping the dog u take care too. I don't know what to make out of this I don't know is this a cry for attention to b persued because he was broken up with or does he want to move on! Mixed signals !! And I don't seem to be getting it right whatever I do if I had text him he would have said I wasn't respecting his decision. Because I didn't now be is being weird about that. This is starting to seem like he is playing games to me?!?! Or just doesn't know what he wants or feels?!? It's very confusing

Seems to me he needs space......give him time, Taurus males are that stubborn, don't chase him, Taurus males are very prideful.....but lovable .......if he was to see you with another man, he would flip....we hate seeing the person we use to be with ...with someone else, makes us think, even if it wasn't our fault,...what can we do to get that person back to us without making it seem we want them......he just needs time, he wants to chat with you, but he doesn't want to get close, I say be casual.....no emotions.....no asking questions, just a friendly hello.....keep it brief...we hate that....makes us want to talk to you more, be alittle busy if he calls....we hat that also...make him wonder about u, cause he already knows how u feel, make him feel the same way, like he is losing parts of you, like your not available....hate to say it, but play the game back, it he really has any feelings for you he'll be back, and want to chase u