If it was well within 9 months or more I'd say go for it but given his break up is fresh well you'd risk heartache because typically within 3 months exes are still communicating, working through things despite the break up.
It's really up to you in regards to risking possibly heartache/disappointment or playing it safe.
Tell me... how long were they together ? Also... what were YOU doing during this time ? Were you still talking throughout the duration ? Do you work together ? When did he first re-connect with you ? That's all for the moment. 😉
You have also said that he is a Taurus... but tell me what you are so I have a baseline to go by.
Hmmm... I don't know. I am sure that he has spent the last 3 months healing alone... but I guess it depends on the kind of ride he went on with this girl during those 11 months. Sounds like he got choked up when he spoke about it with you... so I would say he is not quite ready for some serious. When he can speak about the girl with you... without seeming touched by it... you will have another window to make your move. Until then... keep your distance... let him go out and date if that is what he wants to do... I think 2 more months ought to do it... you just dealt with 11 so I think you can do it a little longer.
You will be in the picture in one way or another I think... do it now and you could very likely be his rebound... wait and he might realize that he made a bad choice... and that YOU are the one he should have held on to !
I wish you well !
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If it was well within 9 months or more I'd say go for it but given his break up is fresh well you'd risk heartache because typically within 3 months exes are still communicating, working through things despite the break up.
It's really up to you in regards to risking possibly heartache/disappointment or playing it safe.