Any of you Taurus Guys Have Luck with Sagi Girls?

Just curious, I know they say that typically it's not a good match (Taurus is too predictable and boring for Sagi and the Sagi is too freedom oriented for the Taurus).

But I've known this girl for a couple years now. I'm not the most sociable guy out there and she put in a lot of time to get to know me and get me to slowly open up.

At times things were going great and then something would go wrong and I'd close up and avoid her and she'd continue to try and contact me and eventually we'd talk again but as friends or whatever.

She dates other guys and they usually end up hurting her and she knows how I feel about her. She'll say that she's not looking for a relationship but then will tell me how she wants to find someone to settle down with but has her guard up as well cause she's been hurt so many times before.

I know she probably only sees me as a friend and always will, but I also get hints at times that she is interested in me in some way and I feel like she wants me to make a lot more effort to win her over but I'm really reserved and find it hard to be affectionate and show her I care out of fear of rejection and that I'm inexperienced in relationships.

Also kind of a problem is that I'm a full-time college student with a ways to go (made mistakes after high school) and she works full-time to support her 6 year old son and the father isn't in the picture at all so I'm sure she needs someone with a career and is more stable and ready to commit which I gladly would if I were in a position to do so.

She even talks about how she wants to get married and have another kid or two by the time she's 29 or 30 which is around when I'll be done with my bachelor's. Maybe I'm just reading too much into that lol.

She's a little older though (I'm May 6th, 1983 and she's December 9th, 1982).

I'm Taurus with Leo Rising and Pisces Moon. Not really sure about her rising or moon sign since I don't know her time of birth.

Sorry for the long-winded post. Just hoping some of you fellow Taurus can shed some light on your experiences with Sagittarius women. Am I just being stupid and being strung along to boost her ego when she gets hurt cause Sagi's don't like to settle? I've heard that once they've been through some things and been hurt they tend to look for stability and want to settle down instead of running around forever.

Thanks for the answer. I know some people would say screw it, it's just astrology, if it works it works. But it's been very obvious the differences between Sagi's and Taurus have shown themselves throughout the time we've known each other.

I've thought much more than twice to be honest lol. I've had plenty of time to considering the situation between her and I and a lot of the hot/cold we go through. It's like the timing is always off for whatever reason.

I knew from the start before we were talking that she had a kid. I used to play with her son when he was a little baby that couldn't walk but we were more just acquaintences then (friends of mutual friends).

The kid is great, I don't mind him at all. I actually love kids and do want to settle down with a woman someday and have a family (the stability stuff) and can see myself doing so with her.

I'm just kinda stuck in a weird spot. It's like, do I give up and cut her off completely and try to get my head back into school? I'm worried that in the back of my mind I'll kick myself for giving up.

But at the same time, if I just continue to talk to her and be her friend and have to hear about how these other guys hurt her in some way then it saddens me and makes me lose focus and my drive to get the things I need to get done.

i am a female taurus i had luck wit a sag girl lol my best friend is also a sag they have they issues but they are great & fun we can be a bore but if you let them go they come back just let them be themselves give them lots of attention but not to to much if that whats they are use to i make her chase me when i was interested in her even though it was mutual she was taggin me along so i flipped it drove her alil crazy too because that tagg along she did kinda turned me off i stayed cus i was comfortable but we ended very bad and are not friends i still have love for her just not liek that but she doesnt even want to talk to me lol i think its cute

I have but I have a lot of fire in my chart centering around a Sag Ascendant. They tend to be more boring than I.