Anyone Heard THIS before??

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Posted by BellatheBull
normally,I would say it's just classic bullshit.However,we ARE pretty famous for riding a dead horse 'til rigmo sets in...so,I can't be sure. *shrugs*




Rigmo— Are you serious? this is the first I have heard of this.....is this a deep dark Taur secret or have I just had my own woolly locks draped over my eyes and couldn't see?

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Posted by shortii
Me: "You are living together. It looks and sounds pretty serious."
Him: "It kinda is, but it isn't. I could never settle down with her. She's not wife material. I'm not going to settle for someone like her."

Is this a classic bullish speak of until something better comes along? LOL

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do they ever figure out what the hell they want??

One I know dumped me and went back to a g/f 2 times(they lived together for 7 yrs before she left him) and then decides he feels nothing for her. Yet, I see him in a bar and she's sitting next to him like his g/f. Then text me, I'm sitting across the room,and says, "i stopped in awhile ago and she showed up." Why do i care— I have a bf. LOL

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Posted by BellatheBull
normally,I would say it's just classic bullshit.However,we ARE pretty famous for riding a dead horse 'til rigmo sets in...so,I can't be sure. *shrugs*



Posted by taurusgoddess
ughhhhh, reminds me of my situation! We're closing doors now, but it took many years. Problem is I knew from day one he wasn't forever, nor did he fit into my family/life.

Bulls can be stupid I guess, they waste their own time and others. BAD US! STOP US! plzzzzzzzzzzzz Enough of this grazing around.
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Yes and yes.

Looking back at my past relationships, I can pick out what to look for..

red flags: speaking of the future together.. even hinting.. will either make us bulls go quiet, go with it but change the
subject quickly, make it a joke, beating around the bush, vagueness, or even make plans but for a future
without a date, excuses, postponing, possibly sending us into hiding. Also, will never be brought up.

Maybe the bull has done some math and thinks.. "hey this person is cool, attractive, i like being with him/her, we're good together, eventually it'll happen." but it never does! We're not sure whether we really want it or not! As time goes
by it becomes more and more clear we won't settle WITH that person.. but maybe..

Maybe is NO! And if you're not sure.. it SHOULD be NO.. because a maybe turned YES.. is a mistake you'll regret!

But >this< bull found love! 😄 And I can tell you there's no maybe's or if's or doubts... it's all GO-TIME!
It's all moving forward.. and being open and sincere. Sure, there can always be hesitation and fear but it
doesn't have a permanent home. You now understand why anyone might kiss with their eyes open.. because you
want to see their face! You don't feel stupid about talking openly of the future. The bull actually thinks
of someone else for once and takes joy into doing something for that someone.

Mon Luv is a Leo btw lol Pure bliss 🙂

Don't be that dead horse and never stick around with a half-assed Taurus. Do him/her and
yourself a favor and bury the damn horse! lol
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Posted by taurusgoddess
ughhhhh, reminds me of my situation! We're closing doors now, but it took many years. Problem is I knew from day one he wasn't forever, nor did he fit into my family/life.

Bulls can be stupid I guess, they waste their own time and others. BAD US! STOP US! plzzzzzzzzzzzz Enough of this grazing around.



Oh wow, you knew since day one?

I know what you mean by being able to tell that a person isn't forever, but I don't understand continuing on with that person once you realize it.

Like I've said before, my old Taurus co-worker had just started dating a woman but yet proceeded to tell me what his ideal-woman looked like, which was totally opposite of his current woman. You think if he ran across her he wouldn't pursue?

It all boils down to settling for someone until you can get who you want, if that ever even happens. That is not good. I can see if it's an upfront thing where it's known that nothing serious is likely to come out of the situation, but going along with the flow, making plans, having someone think there's a future when there really is not is wrong on so many levels.
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Posted by firewaterearth
Taurus men invented the string-a-long method of dating. They also have a replacement woman waiting in the wings.



I know lol. My friend believes in having a plan B for everything, including women.

I feel bad for my sister who just broke it off with her Taurus friend. He's strung her along for two years now, and she's partly the blame for letting it happen, but I really think she felt he was taking it slow and believed his excuses of waiting until he found a better job etc.

I think he is getting a little more serious with someone else and decided to get snappy with her all of a sudden, which was the final straw. She reealllyyy liked him, but oh well. He'll get what he deserves, which is strung along and played by the girl he "wants."