apologies

Viewed as strength or weakness?

Agreed Kitty. Now if some apologizes to a bull, is it viewed as a strength or weakness?

Depends on the delivery. An honest, from the heart apology is fine. One grudgingly given or someone stumbling over themself to lick your arse is a 'no thanks.' It comes off as completely disengenuous.

what if a taurus man apologizes through text...

he hurt me in so many ways and i am tired of feeling used, or hurt, so i decided to stop contacting him. I do love him but i know he doesnt in return sooo i didnt respond because i didnt feel like he really meant it.. this is what the text said

Ok i wont bother you ________ (spelt my name wrong)
I'm sorry for what ever i have done to you its not easy not talking to you..
but it is what it is I'm sorry..

so not only he spelt my name wrong he said it is what it is..
which means to me f it or i dont care
so i didnt respond. i was hurt again and insulted.

i just feel like he was trying to make himself feel better by apologizing, which he doesnt even realize whats wrong. i feel like he doesnt listen if i want to tell him..so i dont bother anymore. I know taurus men dont apologize very often, but doesnt this sound like a cop out?
if i am wrong please tell me.

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Posted by shortii
Viewed as strength or weakness?

If you're in the wrong but swallowed your pride so you can own up to your mistake, then that may take a lot of strength.

But if you're apologising purely to save face and not stir the boat even if you truely believe otherwise, then that's a bitch move.

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Nope. I apologized bc I was wrong. He did as well for his part in the misunderstanding. Life went on..

Thank you for the help & clarification.