Ssasy
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Back Again, Still Confused
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Disclaimer: I refer to the above as to how I am, it may vary with other tauruses.
Lol at disclaimer! You need it these days!
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Can I fix this?
Disclaimer: I refer to the above as to how I am, it may vary with other tauruses.
Could it be just what Im not doing? Or could there be someone else? When I ask her if it is someone else she says why does it have to be someone else.... -_-....
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Guess what, if you are not happy with the situation ... then move on.
The petty bickering is not good for any relationship (forgotten how long you have known her or been in a relationship with her?), and your relationship sounds as if it is full of resentment and bickering
It seems to me that the Taurus has emotionally checked out but will only kick you to the curb when she is ready so she keeps you hanging on. U in the meantime know there is something wrong and you have tried to address it but she remains tight lipped but her actions tell you she has checked out. Things are not right here.
A Taurus person has a "you scratch my back and I will scratch" mentality to all forms of relationships whether it is an intimate relationship or a platonic friendship. If a Taurus sees your actions and feels that you are doing very little to contribute to the relationship, they will not say anything but they will be keeping a score card in their heads and that is when they are counting down the time to end the relationship. They will be emotionally checking out . They will not say anything to you but you will feel it...
Your gut is telling you she has checked out but you are too lazy to follow your gut. You are not confused, you just don't want to take any decisive action and would rather the Taurus kicked you to the curb. Trust me she will, but it will be later rater than sooner. Do you want to hang around for EVER?
Wow, You may be right with my gut feeling, a friend of mine says that I am paranoid because of how I was treated in the recent relationship I just left. She really stayed by my side while I went through that and made all these promises... 😢.....
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by SsasyJeez, why would you want to "fix it"...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Can I fix this?
Disclaimer: I refer to the above as to how I am, it may vary with other tauruses.
Could it be just what Im not doing? Or could there be someone else? When I ask her if it is someone else she says why does it have to be someone else.... -_-....
U are not happy and she brings no "resolution".. The outcome.. leave! Dump her before she eventually gets bored of the situation and dumps you. Sooner or later, your true feelings of discontent will show, she will eventually put you out of your misery.. Better you go... U are not happy. She cannot fix this!click to expand
The reason why I ask about fixing it is because, when I call her out on what she's not doing, she reminded me that it was all good when she was doing the most. But my intentions are good I just get fearful about being completely open. So Im suggesting putting my pride aside and matching the things she did for me.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Jesus! OUCHPosted by SsasyThen what exactly do you want from this thread? U are not happy with her and yet you will fix YOURSELF to please her? Good luck.Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by SsasyJeez, why would you want to "fix it"...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Can I fix this?
Disclaimer: I refer to the above as to how I am, it may vary with other tauruses.
Could it be just what Im not doing? Or could there be someone else? When I ask her if it is someone else she says why does it have to be someone else.... -_-....
U are not happy and she brings no "resolution".. The outcome.. leave! Dump her before she eventually gets bored of the situation and dumps you. Sooner or later, your true feelings of discontent will show, she will eventually put you out of your misery.. Better you go... U are not happy. She cannot fix this!
The reason why I ask about fixing it is because, when I call her out on what she's not doing, she reminded me that it was all good when she was doing the most. But my intentions are good I just get fearful about being completely open. So Im suggesting putting my pride aside and matching the things she did for me.
Water signs, have no real backbone do they?click to expand
Posted by SsasyDo you respect her less because she's sticking by you despite your recent shitty behavior towards her?
She said she's very blunt why hasn't she told me kick rocks already?
Posted by LadyNeptuneNo, just even more paranoid by her actions. Because she said she was more blunt about things, expected her to do so....by now.Posted by SsasyDo you respect her less because she's sticking by you despite your recent shitty behavior towards her?
She said she's very blunt why hasn't she told me kick rocks already?click to expand
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