Dump this Bull?

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SweetLibraConfused
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Here we go again! Hoping that this will be my last time venting out my frustrations. I am so close to dumping my Bull. All was well between us. We had an amazing night at his place 10 nights ago, talking, wining and dining. I stayed over like I always do. We had spoken about how our sparodic communication was bothering me, that I wanted more communication.And I told him I'm not in a hurry for commitment but I'm not looking for just casual hookups. I would like to get to know him first as a friend and as a man and see where this goes. He said he's not very good at communicating but he will try to be better. He did text me every day for the next 4 days and now he's back to playing Houdini! We played phone tag on Thursday because it was really busy day for both of us. Friday we WhatsApped. Saturday night I texted him and he still didn't even read it. I called him 2 days ago, he answered just to say he will call me back, he's at the construction site. I know that he's busy because he's opening a new club in another city in a week's time but I just find this really strange. I see him online of Facebook sometimes but it's radio silence for me. Doesn't make any sense to me. I'm really not the clingy type and I don't expect him to be texting me when he's busy but him not reading my text or dropping me a text in 6 days is a bigggg no no especially after we had our little chat.
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SweetLibraConfused
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Posted by Sofia87
Damn no text in 6 days? Active on FB? How long have u been talking to him? What’s your status?
We have been talking for almost 3 months now. He's the sweetest man in person and he calms me down but also excites me. We are in that between stage of getting to know each other after having sex a little too soon. He's made plans to take me for a holiday next month. But now I am not sure what I should do.
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mini_asian
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Give it some time, Taurus aren't the best with mulitasking they're usually one-tracked minded people they'll stay on that task until it's done. Don't worry about it too much, you already addressed your concerns and Taurus appreciate straightforwardness. They're really simple people, they like consistency and crave security.

They require a lot of time for themselves, and don't see it as an issue when they retreat. They usually comeback, bulls are loyal and love spending time with their SO.
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I mean. this is a typical taurus.

it sounds just like me and him and it sounds like some of my many vent posts on the page.

honestly , they are men of few word,

they are one track minded so when they are focused on other things thats what has there attention regardless of the "importance." there phone and being reachable is not really what they are thinking about. they will text you in there down time.

I always take it negative, like "he's over me" or "he's putting space between us, WHY?" or "he's avoiding me" or "is he talking to someone else" but those are always things I make up in my mind and I always disregard how wonderful he is to me, and how much attention he gives me when I do have his attention. and he affirms his feels for me. and I always make it worse and end up feeling stupid because I play "the game I think he's playing" which is not texting him when I wanna say "hey babe" or not sending him a kiss emoji's when I wanna blow him a kiss or tell him I'm thinking about him. EVERYONE LIKES TO SEE THOSE TEXTS. But not trusting the situation when he has never given me a reason to not trust him is just so unhealthy.

Bulls are so wonderful. And they can appreciate sincerity and a direct or assertive women.

so don't be afraid to say "hey, I know your busy but there are people that want to communicate with you, like me. because I care. So at the very least you can tell me your busy and will text me later" instead of not replying and forgetting about me which is how it makes me feel when you don't respond" - Verbatim I texted that to mine.

But understand the phone is not a focus to them. and if you really need to talk to them call. and don't have to take it to a negative place. If you are missing them let them know. and they will replay back when they can.

good luck .
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SagittariusXO
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also if your telling him " And I told him I'm not in a hurry for commitment but I'm not looking for just casual hookups. I would like to get to know him first as a friend and as a man and see where this goes."

then what are you talking about dump him?

Is he even yours? this is the most confusing thing I have ever heard. I bet he thinks your just trying to make him you BOYTOY with comments like that.
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Posted by sagittariusxo
I mean. this is a typical taurus.

it sounds just like me and him and it sounds like some of my many vent posts on the page.

honestly , they are men of few word,

they are one track minded so when they are focused on other things thats what has there attention regardless of the "importance." there phone and being reachable is not really what they are thinking about. they will text you in there down time.

I always take it negative, like "he's over me" or "he's putting space between us, WHY?" or "he's avoiding me" or "is he talking to someone else" but those are always things I make up in my mind and I always disregard how wonderful he is to me, and how much attention he gives me when I do have his attention. and he affirms his feels for me. and I always make it worse and end up feeling stupid because I play "the game I think he's playing" which is not texting him when I wanna say "hey babe" or not sending him a kiss emoji's when I wanna blow him a kiss or tell him I'm thinking about him. EVERYONE LIKES TO SEE THOSE TEXTS. But not trusting the situation when he has never given me a reason to not trust him is just so unhealthy.

Bulls are so wonderful. And they can appreciate sincerity and a direct or assertive women.

so don't be afraid to say "hey, I know your busy but there are people that want to communicate with you, like me. because I care. So at the very least you can tell me your busy and will text me later" instead of not replying and forgetting about me which is how it makes me feel when you don't respond" - Verbatim I texted that to mine.

But understand the phone is not a focus to them. and if you really need to talk to them call. and don't have to take it to a negative place. If you are missing them let them know. and they will replay back when they can.

good luck .


Needed this soooo much today. Thank you thank you. I’m gonna read it 20 times if I need to.
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SagittariusXO
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Posted by MichelleT
Posted by sagittariusxo
I mean. this is a typical taurus.

it sounds just like me and him and it sounds like some of my many vent posts on the page.

honestly , they are men of few word,

they are one track minded so when they are focused on other things thats what has there attention regardless of the "importance." there phone and being reachable is not really what they are thinking about. they will text you in there down time.

I always take it negative, like "he's over me" or "he's putting space between us, WHY?" or "he's avoiding me" or "is he talking to someone else" but those are always things I make up in my mind and I always disregard how wonderful he is to me, and how much attention he gives me when I do have his attention. and he affirms his feels for me. and I always make it worse and end up feeling stupid because I play "the game I think he's playing" which is not texting him when I wanna say "hey babe" or not sending him a kiss emoji's when I wanna blow him a kiss or tell him I'm thinking about him. EVERYONE LIKES TO SEE THOSE TEXTS. But not trusting the situation when he has never given me a reason to not trust him is just so unhealthy.

Bulls are so wonderful. And they can appreciate sincerity and a direct or assertive women.

so don't be afraid to say "hey, I know your busy but there are people that want to communicate with you, like me. because I care. So at the very least you can tell me your busy and will text me later" instead of not replying and forgetting about me which is how it makes me feel when you don't respond" - Verbatim I texted that to mine.

But understand the phone is not a focus to them. and if you really need to talk to them call. and don't have to take it to a negative place. If you are missing them let them know. and they will replay back when they can.

good luck .


Needed this soooo much today. Thank you thank you. I’m gonna read it 20 times if I need to.
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so how did it go 🙂

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Posted by sagittariusxo
Posted by MichelleT
Posted by sagittariusxo
I mean. this is a typical taurus.

it sounds just like me and him and it sounds like some of my many vent posts on the page.

honestly , they are men of few word,

they are one track minded so when they are focused on other things thats what has there attention regardless of the "importance." there phone and being reachable is not really what they are thinking about. they will text you in there down time.

I always take it negative, like "he's over me" or "he's putting space between us, WHY?" or "he's avoiding me" or "is he talking to someone else" but those are always things I make up in my mind and I always disregard how wonderful he is to me, and how much attention he gives me when I do have his attention. and he affirms his feels for me. and I always make it worse and end up feeling stupid because I play "the game I think he's playing" which is not texting him when I wanna say "hey babe" or not sending him a kiss emoji's when I wanna blow him a kiss or tell him I'm thinking about him. EVERYONE LIKES TO SEE THOSE TEXTS. But not trusting the situation when he has never given me a reason to not trust him is just so unhealthy.

Bulls are so wonderful. And they can appreciate sincerity and a direct or assertive women.

so don't be afraid to say "hey, I know your busy but there are people that want to communicate with you, like me. because I care. So at the very least you can tell me your busy and will text me later" instead of not replying and forgetting about me which is how it makes me feel when you don't respond" - Verbatim I texted that to mine.

But understand the phone is not a focus to them. and if you really need to talk to them call. and don't have to take it to a negative place. If you are missing them let them know. and they will replay back when they can.

good luck .


Needed this soooo much today. Thank you thank you. I’m gonna read it 20 times if I need to.


so how did it go 🙂

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Posted by sagittariusxo
also if your telling him " And I told him I'm not in a hurry for commitment but I'm not looking for just casual hookups. I would like to get to know him first as a friend and as a man and see where this goes."

then what are you talking about dump him?

Is he even yours? this is the most confusing thing I have ever heard. I bet he thinks your just trying to make him you BOYTOY with comments like that.





When I said dump him, I meant never sleep with him again, block his number and Facebook. Well doesn't really matter now. He's vanished but i might have an idea why. There are 3 possible scenarios which has come to light and I'm trying to confirm. If it's the 1st one then good riddance, if it's the 2nd then I do have my own little sweet revenge planned and if it's the 3rd then I owe him an explanation. Btw his Mars conjuncts my Pluto so maybe this is for the best . I read some scary stuff about this combination.
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Posted by SweetLibraConfused
Posted by sagittariusxo
also if your telling him " And I told him I'm not in a hurry for commitment but I'm not looking for just casual hookups. I would like to get to know him first as a friend and as a man and see where this goes."

then what are you talking about dump him?

Is he even yours? this is the most confusing thing I have ever heard. I bet he thinks your just trying to make him you BOYTOY with comments like that.





When I said dump him, I meant never sleep with him again, block his number and Facebook. Well doesn't really matter now. He's vanished but i might have an idea why. There are 3 possible scenarios which has come to light and I'm trying to confirm. If it's the 1st one then good riddance, if it's the 2nd then I do have my own little sweet revenge planned and if it's the 3rd then I owe him an explanation. Btw his Mars conjuncts my Pluto so maybe this is for the best . I read some scary stuff about this combination.
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I think you have a right to ask a guy after a couple weeks of no contact for some closure.

plain and simple. "hey, he haven't talked in a while and id like some closure as to why that happened."

plenty of amazing bulls out there. you might be too much for him?

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Posted by sagittariusxo
I don't think revenge is ever worth the effort.... especially with a bull.

they don't play games they just disappear so good luck with that.
I wouldn't even get why she would even think revenge. This man owes her nothing. This is one scary world.
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right, people really need to reflect on there emotions.

I personally would never waste my time. forward motion.