Gemini male compatibility w/Taurus female?

Does this pairing stand a chance? Curious to know... I dont know his placements yet, but he's coming on really strong, very charming...

Anyone familiar?

Yes.

They come on very strong in the beginning and are very charming but it's superficial.

They aren't afraid of getting involved at the start but there is no substance to it.

Both times they got cold feet.

Very quick to make you their gf but doesnt mean anything.

Posted by AmaraP
Yes.

They come on very strong in the beginning and are very charming but it's superficial.

They aren't afraid of getting involved at the start but there is no substance to it.

Both times they got cold feet.

Very quick to make you their gf but doesnt mean anything.

^^ Agree!!They get bored real quick
You give in n they're gone!

Posted by Nevermore
Gemini are the only sun sign I'm attracted to it.. yet they don't attract me.. 😱

if you are very intelligent, which i can see that you are, plus their venus and moon will show who/they're attracted to.


anyway, i dont know any gemini sun males, but i was surprised, and honestly also NOT surprised to find out that one of my husband's childhood friends, that he sees once in a while, is a gemini sun, near the cusp of taurus.

and omg, he is AMBITIOUS. meaning ambitious in finding a woman who is POWERFUL and AMBiTIOUS. She is a doctor, and has written books, and dissertations and has a PHD, and has 2 big houses. They are both well- off and she has more money than him, and just OMG. that gemini sun old buddy of his is AMBITIOUS.

he got himself a goldmine type of woman.

he is the type that doesn't settle for LESS, if you want a woman who is powerful and ambitious.

In my experience gemini is too indecisive and wishy washy to be a good match in the long run. Starts out great but once they start their indecisive BS thinga fade fast.

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Posted by Nevermore
Gemini are the only sun sign I'm attracted to it.. yet they don't attract me.. 😱

if you are very intelligent, which i can see that you are, plus their venus and moon will show who/they're attracted to.


anyway, i dont know any gemini sun males, but i was surprised, and honestly also NOT surprised to find out that one of my husband's childhood friends, that he sees once in a while, is a gemini sun, near the cusp of taurus.

and omg, he is AMBITIOUS. meaning ambitious in finding a woman who is POWERFUL and AMBiTIOUS. She is a doctor, and has written books, and dissertations and has a PHD, and has 2 big houses. They are both well- off and she has more money than him, and just OMG. that gemini sun old buddy of his is AMBITIOUS.

he got himself a goldmine type of woman.

I wish I was intelligent, cause in reality I have struggle with vocabulary and knowledge.. Especially that I'm very emotional person that they'll run away from me..
Not only that, I have 4 fixed signs (Sun Taurus, Jupiter Leo, Saturn Aqua, Pluto Scorpio) that both opposites are the strongest (not grand square though)..

And they feared my Aries moon & mercury too.. after reading from other topic about feeling intimated from Aries suns.

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i see. they need to match your intensity.

pffft humble. @Nevermore, i have seen you post topics and go into in depth analysis on some astro stuff. You have a good handle on it.

@hemispheres, are you talking about yourself?? cause last i read you said you were gemini moon and mars?? i forget now. lol

Posted by Hemispheres
In my experience gemini is too indecisive and wishy washy to be a good match in the long run. Starts out great but once they start their indecisive BS thinga fade fast.

i've seen quite a handful of gemini moon men (who are water suns) end up with air suns. (Dylan McDermott for one.)

so far, in research only taurus sun/cancer moon and aries venus Pierce Brosnan ended up with a libra sun.

but he's cancer moon. i thought he was gemini moon!!!

but saw his Gemini MARS.

also, that gemini venus Enrique Iglesias has been with Gemini sun tennis player for YEARS.

Gemini moon & merc and taurus gemini cusp. Gems are still too restless and indecisive for me.

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Posted by Nevermore
Gemini are the only sun sign I'm attracted to it.. yet they don't attract me.. 😱

if you are very intelligent, which i can see that you are, plus their venus and moon will show who/they're attracted to.


anyway, i dont know any gemini sun males, but i was surprised, and honestly also NOT surprised to find out that one of my husband's childhood friends, that he sees once in a while, is a gemini sun, near the cusp of taurus.

and omg, he is AMBITIOUS. meaning ambitious in finding a woman who is POWERFUL and AMBiTIOUS. She is a doctor, and has written books, and dissertations and has a PHD, and has 2 big houses. They are both well- off and she has more money than him, and just OMG. that gemini sun old buddy of his is AMBITIOUS.

he got himself a goldmine type of woman.

I wish I was intelligent, cause in reality I have struggle with vocabulary and knowledge.. Especially that I'm very emotional person that they'll run away from me..
Not only that, I have 4 fixed signs (Sun Taurus, Jupiter Leo, Saturn Aqua, Pluto Scorpio) that both opposites are the strongest (not grand square though)..

And they feared my Aries moon & mercury too.. after reading from other topic about feeling intimated from Aries suns.

i see. they need to match your intensity.

And capable of my intensity.. Because I'm intense as fuck. 😐

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lol i can see why airy dominants would RUN!!! GAAAHHH!! intensity overload. 😆

Posted by Hemispheres
Gemini moon & merc and taurus gemini cusp. Gems are still too restless and indecisive for me.

really??

so you dont feel you are "restless" yourself? ALyssa sharpe says they have messy lives, messy rooms so many things going on. i find that is true with mutable, just having lots of stuff.

i have no gemini, but i have 3rd house. i notice i am clean but messy. My desk is messy with lots of stuff on there: pens, paper, pads, calculators rulers iPhone, erasers, cup of coffee, water glass, ect.

Posted by 9waterlion9
You can't say based on just sun sign. If you know what year he's born you can find out, just google, moon sign table, mars sign table, and venus sign table

He was either born in 70 or 71... I will find out for sure later today if I talk to him. He's definitely different that what I'm used to, so weird.

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Posted by iPootMagic
Does this pairing stand a chance? Curious to know... I dont know his placements yet, but he's coming on really strong, very charming...

Anyone familiar?

Gemini is a double-bodied / bi-corporeal sign along with Pisces,Virgo and Sagittarius or known as mutable. They stand between the cardinal and fixed signs and share qualities that are common to both groups so they can easily shift and bridge these extremes.

He will probably choose the steady approach with you and avoid changeability because you're a fixed sign (based only on your Sun sign here) but that's not all of him. Gemini men are charming by nature,from my experience they will try to find out what you like and give you exactly that. The more compromising and understanding he'll be,the more he'll have power over you because in the long run you'll feel as if you gave nothing and he was nothing but patient with you. You'll turn to be the compromising one then,that steady pace will change at some point.
So be careful not to push him to that side and communicate with him,be honest,he's clever and knows how to enter in people minds. Also despite their easy,go with the flow vibe they actually need time to trust you in a relationship,it may seem like they believe everything you say but don't be fooled. They master the words so they will look at what you do,they only have a superficial exterior,that's their mask but they are sensitive people among other things.
At least that's my experience with them,it can work.

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Good to know!

He's unusually patient with me, and I've been telling him I'm in no rush for a relationship cause I just got out of something a few months back. But he insists that I am going to be "his". I just laugh him off most times and give him the "side eye" in my head...but he seems serious, and that's what makes me laugh. I like him though, but I'm in no rush.

Posted by blackphase
Speaking as a Gemini, I can say that we are not all wishy washy and flakey. I have always been in long term, committed relationships. I am not indecisive about someone that I love unless they start to treat me poorly, and even then I stick it through, but it creates a lot of distress in my head. The Sun sign alone will not tell you such things. I have a Gemini male friend who has been on my ass for years. Very sweet and sincere, but not pushy. He respects the fact that we are just friends and that I am in a relationship, but has never been indecisive or flakey. Even after years of me being in a relationship he still will msg me out of the blue to let me know that he is thinking of me and to see how I am doing. Some Gems can hang on for the long haul and stay fixated once we have set our sights. Don't allow all the talk of getting bored and moving on scare you, It's not always the case.

Thanks for this. He's always talking about long term and even though that could be a good thing...it's like we JUST met dude. I like the eagerness, but I just want to figure out if its the superficial thing people talk about or if its really real. Seems like a really good guy though.

Posted by ShadowAbsorber
Tell u what tho.. don't come 'round a taurus who has venus in taurus if you have mercury or venus in gemini (regardless of sun sign) unless u wanna get stabbed. Real talk

LOL! I have Venus in Gemini... I already know about myself though. But I'm aware of it, and I think that's a good thing. But if HE does, I don't think I'd try.

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Posted by ShadowAbsorber
Tell u what tho.. don't come 'round a taurus who has venus in taurus if you have mercury or venus in gemini (regardless of sun sign) unless u wanna get stabbed. Real talk

LOL! I have Venus in Gemini... I already know about myself though. But I'm aware of it, and I think that's a good thing. But if HE does, I don't think I'd try.

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What is the joke about venus in gemini? I have it....what is meant by real talk?

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Posted by blackphase
Speaking as a Gemini, I can say that we are not all wishy washy and flakey. I have always been in long term, committed relationships. I am not indecisive about someone that I love unless they start to treat me poorly, and even then I stick it through, but it creates a lot of distress in my head. The Sun sign alone will not tell you such things. I have a Gemini male friend who has been on my ass for years. Very sweet and sincere, but not pushy. He respects the fact that we are just friends and that I am in a relationship, but has never been indecisive or flakey. Even after years of me being in a relationship he still will msg me out of the blue to let me know that he is thinking of me and to see how I am doing. Some Gems can hang on for the long haul and stay fixated once we have set our sights. Don't allow all the talk of getting bored and moving on scare you, It's not always the case.

Thanks for this. He's always talking about long term and even though that could be a good thing...it's like we JUST met dude. I like the eagerness, but I just want to figure out if its the superficial thing people talk about or if its really real. Seems like a really good guy though.

Depending on his other placements, he could be prone to falling fast. I know that I am, and it is not superficial. I can tell very early on just how deep my feelings run for someone, it's all about the connection and the intensity. But as I've said, other placements will shed more light onto this 🙂

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Yea he says he feels a connection and we have chemistry...which we do, but I'm just no into rushing, esp from what I just got out of.
I need to find his placements!

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Posted by AmaraP
Yes.

They come on very strong in the beginning and are very charming but it's superficial.

They aren't afraid of getting involved at the start but there is no substance to it.

Both times they got cold feet.

Very quick to make you their gf but doesnt mean anything.

This is wrong!!

If you are interesting in nature and sociable and knowledgeable and like to travel, visit museums, learn, are a different race, cultural, speak languages, into the theatre and art etc you will keep him on your until YOU decide to dump him!!

Lots of gems have heavy cancer placements!! My ex had four... He got so dependent and clingy after four years ie. He lost his independent nature... I had to dump his ass!! I got bored and he was unambitious, lazy and full of ideas in his head but too lazy and idle to bring them to fruition and taurus likes to SEE results!!!

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Well this is interesting.

I love to travel, have been all over Europe and Middle East. I have memberships to many museums and art galleries, have a learned profession, i love theatre, classical music, opera, ballet, and our first date I took us to an art gallery I have membership of. He LOVED it. He said I had opened his heart and mind and eyes to what is out there.

He was closed minded, never visited a museum since school, couldnt recognise the most famous pieces of classical music of all time, had never been to any of the art galleries I took him too and he had lived in the same city as me all his life. he just didnt bother. He was also racist, anti semitic and fascist that I could tell. he never got far with those comments because as soon as he began to hint at negative comments at another race, I would give a look that would melt iron and he knew I found it unacceptable.

He later threw it all in my fae, that he didnt like my tastes and interests and we werent right for each other. He dumped me for someone else an then I saw on facebook him taking her everywhere I took him when we dated.

He was an ignorant, closed minded, using POS.

Oh and I took him on nature trips sometimes and gave up as he refused to do most of the hiking. Nature loving ....bullshit.

Posted by busyeyes88
Taurus people need to be pushed out of their "comfort zone" in order to grow and the Mutables like gem will help you with this is you are willing to grow and learn and be spontaneous.. To give in to this side of your nature.. Some tauruses here are too fixed and too staid!! Get lively!! Lol

This!!!!

So true. I feel like he'll push me, and that's what I want. But not pushed as in forced, but I need the patience thing. Especially with what I have going on career/professional wise, I tend to start things, but wont finish, lo, in relationships tool. He's super successful and its almost intimidating, but I want that. I've been stubborn and at a stand still my whole life, the Cancer guy moved (stirred) something in me, and now I'm more open and ready for whatever than I've ever been.

This could be good then 🙂 But I dont like the fact you say it could have an expiration date, lol!

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Posted by 9waterlion9
You can't say based on just sun sign. If you know what year he's born you can find out, just google, moon sign table, mars sign table, and venus sign table

He was either born in 70 or 71... I will find out for sure later today if I talk to him. He's definitely different that what I'm used to, so weird.

He's mature then?

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Yea, I'm 35 and he's 44. He's been married before, and he and his ex seem to have a great parenting relationship. Seem like good friends or something. Idk, I guess I'm just waiting for some shit to hit the fan somewhere, cause it almost seems too good to be true. I know that's not a good attitude to have, but when you're used to there being some sort of "catch" to everything, you tend to look for that.

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Posted by blackphase
Speaking as a Gemini, I can say that we are not all wishy washy and flakey. I have always been in long term, committed relationships. I am not indecisive about someone that I love unless they start to treat me poorly, and even then I stick it through, but it creates a lot of distress in my head. The Sun sign alone will not tell you such things. I have a Gemini male friend who has been on my ass for years. Very sweet and sincere, but not pushy. He respects the fact that we are just friends and that I am in a relationship, but has never been indecisive or flakey. Even after years of me being in a relationship he still will msg me out of the blue to let me know that he is thinking of me and to see how I am doing. Some Gems can hang on for the long haul and stay fixated once we have set our sights. Don't allow all the talk of getting bored and moving on scare you, It's not always the case.

Thanks for this. He's always talking about long term and even though that could be a good thing...it's like we JUST met dude. I like the eagerness, but I just want to figure out if its the superficial thing people talk about or if its really real. Seems like a really good guy though.

Depending on his other placements, he could be prone to falling fast. I know that I am, and it is not superficial. I can tell very early on just how deep my feelings run for someone, it's all about the connection and the intensity. But as I've said, other placements will shed more light onto this 🙂

Yea he says he feels a connection and we have chemistry...which we do, but I'm just no into rushing, esp from what I just got out of.
I need to find his placements!

And I am sure he will be totally respectful if you want to take it slow! Just be open and honest with him 🙂

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I will. 🙂

I told him I'm a slow poke with things, and his response was "good. slow leads to long term". Geez. 🙂

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Posted by busyeyes88
Taurus people need to be pushed out of their "comfort zone" in order to grow and the Mutables like gem will help you with this is you are willing to grow and learn and be spontaneous.. To give in to this side of your nature.. Some tauruses here are too fixed and too staid!! Get lively!! Lol

This!!!!

So true. I feel like he'll push me, and that's what I want. But not pushed as in forced, but I need the patience thing. Especially with what I have going on career/professional wise, I tend to start things, but wont finish, lo, in relationships tool. He's super successful and its almost intimidating, but I want that. I've been stubborn and at a stand still my whole life, the Cancer guy moved (stirred) something in me, and now I'm more open and ready for whatever than I've ever been.

This could be good then 🙂 But I dont like the fact you say it could have an expiration date, lol!

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I was the one who took my Gemini out of his comfort zone.

All he did was go to work and hang around with his parents. he did nothing with himself. He was too scared to travel aside from USA as he was so closed minded aout other cultures.

I dont agree that Taurus is always the stick in the mud.

I have dated 2 Gemini men, fell in love with 2 more. I think I've had enough of that fire&ice to say it could work. But you have to be ready to acknowledge their 2faced nature and flightiness. I loved that, though.... The one of them I'm still into clicked with me intellectually. I think it's most important with them -smart mode and independent life.
Despite I think I have a lot of Gemini traits.