Hey fellow Taureans, how would you deal with this?

I don't know what it is. I'm in a 'thing' with an ex-colleague (Libra) who lives in another continent altogether. We both like each other but I really don't think it's that serious. We do have lovey dovey talks but hey, it doesn't really matter because we can never be together. When I disconnect the call after talking to him, no matter how great the conversation was, I'm always left with-what's the use? We can't talk as much either because we have almost opposite time zones and then he's studying and I'm working so we don't get much time either.

Then there are times when I want more and it just can't happen that way. I see its pointless to continue since all that we both get from it is some fun time in a day over the phone. So all that exists is just over the phone, virtual.

But inspite of knowing all this, I just can't end it. Maybe it's because atleast there's an hour of fun a day? I don't know. Have you guys ever been in a situation like this? What would you do?

Posted by Ilovemyaqua
I don't know what it is. I'm in a 'thing' with an ex-colleague (Libra) who lives in another continent altogether. We both like each other but I really don't think it's that serious. We do have lovey dovey talks but hey, it doesn't really matter because we can never be together. When I disconnect the call after talking to him, no matter how great the conversation was, I'm always left with-what's the use? We can't talk as much either because we have almost opposite time zones and then he's studying and I'm working so we don't get much time either.

Then there are times when I want more and it just can't happen that way. I see its pointless to continue since all that we both get from it is some fun time in a day over the phone. So all that exists is just over the phone, virtual.

But inspite of knowing all this, I just can't end it. Maybe it's because atleast there's an hour of fun a day? I don't know. Have you guys ever been in a situation like this? What would you do?

if they are a friend and you enjoy talking to them - you never know what will happen later in life but don't let it stop you from living your life

Sorry I'm not a Taurus but I had something similar with a Libra too. I thought exactly the same, what's the point, and most likely scenario is that person meets someone new, or you do, but you feel guilty somehow. It's a waste of time and energy, that you should be using on finding someone close. And don't run the risk of seeing photos of them on Facebook with someone else, cos that hurts, and that happened to me, protect yourself and don't waste time, you gut instinct is saying it's a waste of time, just be firm, break it off, and don't let it drift like I did. I felt exactly the same way you do now, don't let it drift.

im a libra female... who has had a lot of experience with taurus men. They're kind of my sweet spot. First you should know the one and only thing a libra REALLY cares the most about is finding that number one person they can team up with in life. above all else, that's truly it. i had a long distance boyfriend who lived a little under 5 hours away and we made it work and had plans for me to eventually move to where he lived. my first question to you is why you think you can't ever be together? distance is nothing when the love is real. which leads into my next point - our connection and love was 100% real. he was the only person i have ever truly loved, and that includes my ex husband. I never knew love like his and i probably never will again, but we keep distantly in-touch with each other. i know he'll never find the connection we had with anyone else. it's in my bones. he changed my entire life.

never count-out a relationship based on distance. because that whole dynamic can change very quickly, if it's what you both want.

Posted by ConsiderableMyth
im a libra female... who has had a lot of experience with taurus men. They're kind of my sweet spot. First you should know the one and only thing a libra REALLY cares the most about is finding that number one person they can team up with in life. above all else, that's truly it. i had a long distance boyfriend who lived a little under 5 hours away and we made it work and had plans for me to eventually move to where he lived. my first question to you is why you think you can't ever be together? distance is nothing when the love is real. which leads into my next point - our connection and love was 100% real. he was the only person i have ever truly loved, and that includes my ex husband. I never knew love like his and i probably never will again, but we keep distantly in-touch with each other. i know he'll never find the connection we had with anyone else. it's in my bones. he changed my entire life.

never count-out a relationship based on distance. because that whole dynamic can change very quickly, if it's what you both want.

I don't think there's any love really. We've had this conversation. I said it wasn't and so did he. We just know we like each other and can't really go without talking more than a day or two. But that's it.

Then I have times when I start hating him sometimes, like right now, when I'm not talking to him and that's mainly, mainly because I hate the whole idea of him having dated this girl in my office who does everything in her power to make my life hell. He was with her just because he wanted sex, basically that girl had been trying somehow to steer him away from me(he was pursuing me then, I wasn't interested) and eventually one day they slept together, out of the blue, even when that girl was living with her boyfriend. That's when his and that girl's fling started.

The whole idea of him dating a girl who's always talking shit about me for no reason, trying to get me into trouble all the time, who cheated her boyfriend with him, this girl, he dated just because he wanted to get laid? Like c'mon!! He fell for a girl just for sex and helped her in cheating on her boyfriend?! That makes me lose all respect for him. I always try to ignore her but she'll some or the other way try to screw up my work life and that's when this whole thing comes back and I prefer not talking to him.

Just enjoy it, have fun. But dont take it to seriously, And keep dating other people, till u now whats going on for real. enjoy the ride if u can do it. Dont take it seriouse. Till he tell u that he want more. If that moments come. Discusse the things your feeling, What u like and dont like about ure contact. But for now enjoy the ride, till u wake up. because ure hooked now.

I just read ure second message, ure right leave this guy alone. He is not seriouse. Ure only hurting ure self. Ure better without him. Our his friendship. He's a player.