methinks a libra.
How do I get a Taurus guy to call me?
I am falling in love with you myself. 😄
Posted by BG2very quiet ones. that we secretly believe this stuff but won't mention in front of others for fear of being disliked.Posted by jeaneHa! I thought libras didn't have egos.Posted by busyeyes88methinks a libra.
You are very very vain I'll give you that much!!
What sun sign are you?
Are you a Leo?click to expand
it's a hot mess.
Posted by BG2it's better to make it about others than for it to be about us. we like being likable.Posted by jeaneNah. Show me your ego. Show me the good, bad, ugly, nasty, wonderful, unique...Posted by BG2very quiet ones. that we secretly believe this stuff but won't mention in front of others for fear of being disliked.Posted by jeaneHa! I thought libras didn't have egos.Posted by busyeyes88methinks a libra.
You are very very vain I'll give you that much!!
What sun sign are you?
Are you a Leo?
it's a hot mess.
Wouldn't you rather be liked for all that you are?click to expand
Posted by BG2nah, it's ok! another libra trait is that we don't really take things personally! 😛
See, that's a libra trait I don't like. That's why it comes off as fake.
Where's the real you underneath the likable factor?
...I may like the face you put on, but if it's not YOU, don't bother showing it to me.
I can also put on likable front, but it's a lotta work, with no real upside and I'm too lazy for that.
I hope you get I don't mean you specifically - I don't know you 😛
it's not really fake. we genuinely like being liked (by people we like) so we adapt. if you like cars, then i'll talk about cars. if you like technology, then i'll try to engage you in that. there is nothing fake about it. we try to find a common ground and use your interests to lead the way. if, on the other hand, we don't like you, oh honey, you won't even get my time.
there is no front, we're a mirror. we reflect what you want to see. is that fake? it's not like we don't mean what we say, we just have many sides.
you'll see the darker side when we really take you in but if you are just an associate or a colleague, keep it light, keep it fun, life is too short...unless you want a heart to heart then we we'll be down for that too. 🙂
Posted by BG2i'll talk about anything. it's not so much the topic it's more i want to have an engaging conversation. i want to talk about you, about what interests you, what makes you tick, how you see the world. i learn something then. you add to me through my getting to know you. you getting to know me is not really important to me. i can see how that would be frustrating for someone else but on the whole, people like to talk about themselves, they like to be listened to, they want to tell people about their life. leebs are happy to accommodate. like you said earlier, you don't see an upside trying hard to be liked. for librans, that banter with a wide range of people fuels us.
But what do YOU want? Forget the other for a second. What is it that YOU want to talk about? What are your interests without others' influence?
Pretty much, who are you when you're alone?
case in point, my taurus bf told me about a woman he cannot stand. loathes her and everything about her. i like her! without question, she's a despicable human being but i find her fascinating. she could entertain me for days. to understand how she is, converse with her, have her tell me her stories in her way would be a delight. the difference is i don't take her seriously. i take her for what she is.
when i am alone, i am just like everyone else.
Posted by busyeyes88ah, well consider me surprised!Posted by jeaneShe is a virgo she made another thread!! LolPosted by busyeyes88methinks a libra.
You are very very vain I'll give you that much!!
What sun sign are you?
Are you a Leo?click to expand
Posted by BG2it really is about the chat. be it dogs to buttons to the space station, if we can have an interesting conversation then i'm delighted.Posted by jeaneThat answers my question.Posted by BG2i'll talk about anything. it's not so much the topic it's more i want to have an engaging conversation. i want to talk about you, about what interests you, what makes you tick, how you see the world. i learn something then. you add to me through my getting to know you. you getting to know me is not really important to me. i can see how that would be frustrating for someone else but on the whole, people like to talk about themselves, they like to be listened to, they want to tell people about their life. leebs are happy to accommodate. like you said earlier, you don't see an upside trying hard to be liked. for librans, that banter with a wide range of people fuels us.
But what do YOU want? Forget the other for a second. What is it that YOU want to talk about? What are your interests without others' influence?
Pretty much, who are you when you're alone?
case in point, my taurus bf told me about a woman he cannot stand. loathes her and everything about her. i like her! without question, she's a despicable human being but i find her fascinating. she could entertain me for days. to understand how she is, converse with her, have her tell me her stories in her way would be a delight. the difference is i don't take her seriously. i take her for what she is.
when i am alone, i am just like everyone else.
Thank you.click to expand
is that fake? an honest answer is ok. it's welcomed!
Posted by AriesLady8Yeah I agree with this. Most taurus men like mysterious hard to get kinda girls. They want to spoil you
Just chill out. Let him come to you but be receptive when he does but not too extra. Try to control your excitement if you can
I appreciate all your responses! Yes I made another thread. I have become obsessed with this Tuarus guy!
I am a 5th House Virgo sun
Taurus Rising
10 house Aqua Moon
And Venus being my chart ruler
Is in 5th House Libra!
Yeah, I'm vain, I can't help it. I collect mirrors and move a lot. So many broken mirrors, I have a lot of bad luck. I just want this Taurus man so bad, but can't help to show off and flirt all the time. I look in the mirror like any chance I get, but I am so faithful. My last relationship he was a Scorpio and so abusive. So I got my eye on the opposit. A Taurus man needs to be my soul mate. I want to dance for him all night long!
I fear my vanity scares him away, but I guess ai should be more aggressive toward him and maybe try not to seek so much attention?
what mak s me so vain. I have my Venus square Jupiter... Is that it.... I don't care, I just want this Taurus man to beg for me, this drives me crazy.
I am a 5th House Virgo sun
Taurus Rising
10 house Aqua Moon
And Venus being my chart ruler
Is in 5th House Libra!
Yeah, I'm vain, I can't help it. I collect mirrors and move a lot. So many broken mirrors, I have a lot of bad luck. I just want this Taurus man so bad, but can't help to show off and flirt all the time. I look in the mirror like any chance I get, but I am so faithful. My last relationship he was a Scorpio and so abusive. So I got my eye on the opposit. A Taurus man needs to be my soul mate. I want to dance for him all night long!
I fear my vanity scares him away, but I guess ai should be more aggressive toward him and maybe try not to seek so much attention?
what mak s me so vain. I have my Venus square Jupiter... Is that it.... I don't care, I just want this Taurus man to beg for me, this drives me crazy.
Don't be aggressive, a taurus man may take his time but he needs to come for you or this is going nowhere fast. He needs to work for it, so that he appreciates it. Taurus moves ridiculously slow, ppl tell me all the time that their biggest complaint with me is that I have no sense of urgency unless it has to do with my work or I'm super passionate about it. So let the man build some passion and excitement about you and he will come for you.
Posted by busyeyes88‚‚‚
Are you a Leo?
You read my mind
But Leo's will rarely blow their own trumpet, they just assume everyone knows how great they are -without prompting †††
I kid, I kid.
Kind of...
Posted by BG2Posted by TaurusinTexasIf tauruses are slow, all the more reason to move in his direction as opposed to waiting for him to move towards OP.
Don't be aggressive, a taurus man may take his time but he needs to come for you or this is going nowhere fast. He needs to work for it, so that he appreciates it. Taurus moves ridiculously slow, ppl tell me all the time that their biggest complaint with me is that I have no sense of urgency unless it has to do with my work or I'm super passionate about it. So let the man build some passion and excitement about you and he will come for you.
I don't agree with being aggressive. Taking charge isn't to be mistaken with aggressiveness.
@ op, you want him to beg for you...just like the other guys?
Could it be that you just want him because he doesn't behave as other men around you do?click to expand
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Hello, I figuring him out, slowly. He is okay. He is just a bit more introverted than most guys I meet. He is happy when I text him. I think he needs to know that he is liked because maybe is afraid to be rejected. I declared my urge for more romance with him the other day, but he didn't respond. Maybe he doesn't like me, nut also he is on a business trip right now. I don't mind expressing how I feel and it is okay to get rejected. Though now I've got this Gemini guy calling me and he is in a hurry for a date with me! So I am seeing the difference. Perhaps I just can't have a relationship with a Taurus.
And I realized that I fell in love with the Fantasy of the Taurus guy, but not really him himself. He may be just too slow and boring for me. My energy is super high!
Posted by daydream_achieverHey, you are so mean! 😢
OP you sound absolutely terrible. Bleh.
I don't criticize people. I love myself and I love other people so much. I am a people person. It is better for people to be in love with themselves and the world, rather than hating how they look, and hating others!
Much rather live in a world of James Browns than Hitlers!
Peace
Posted by busyeyes88Ha ha! You are funny. I guess my vanity is offensive to you. You have Leo Rising and Leo Moon, like James Brown. So Why would someone's vanity bother you? You should FEEL GOOD! No matter how much other people hate or love themselves.Posted by wagtailYou know what—? You are absolutely correct!Posted by busyeyes88‚‚‚
Are you a Leo?
You read my mind
But Leo's will rarely blow their own trumpet, they just assume everyone knows how great they are -without prompting †††
I kid, I kid.
Kind of...
I have a Leo rising and moon and my "vanity" is discrete also like the leos i know..
So the OP vanity is so full in the face like a slap!! Lol lol Blunt and obvious.. Even ugly in its garishness!!! A Leo carries their vanity with more grace and poise.. As you say their presence alone is enough!!
So yeah sorry to insult the leos with making this comparison.. The OP is a virgo who can't keep her vanity under control!!! Lol lol
Her taurus probably wondered if he were to date her, would she be able to fit her ego into the double doors of the restaurant and decided to give "dinner" a miss!! Lolclick to expand
Plus, you don't know my whole chart, and what transits I'm going through, which can cause dramatic expression.
Peace
Posted by BG2Yes, you are right. I will leave this thread here in case I have an update on the Taurus guy, but now I have to do more Gemini research.Posted by 164thDegreeIf you've come to that conclusion, let the taurus go.
And I realized that I fell in love with the Fantasy of the Taurus guy, but not really him himself. He may be just too slow and boring for me. My energy is super high!click to expand
Posted by 164thDegreeI think I read that you have Neptune in 7th house. Is it conjuncting your mars?
And I realized that I fell in love with the Fantasy of the Taurus guy, but not really him himself. He may be just too slow and boring for me. My energy is super high!
You might want to get to know that neptune in 7th house better. Halle Berry has it. She's always jumping into relationships, all lovey-dovey in the beginning, only for them to end horribly when she takes off her neptune-tinted glasses and reality sets in.
Call him and hold up
Posted by 164thDegreeGirl, why did you talk about the third date yourself??! Sorry I didn't read your whole story but that's him who should ask you. Yu can call randomly but not initiate. We are initiators. If we don't do that, we aren't that interested...or in a pensive mood.Posted by TaurusMarineLike I have to keep him steadily attentive upon me? I text him saying I liked our 2 dates and want a third.... Is he thinking about this for so many days? Is that what Taurus do? Actually take super long to think and decide weather interested or not?
Call him and hold upclick to expand
Yes, Tauruses are slow taking decisions. They play in their mind the future with you and if they like it, they WILL FIND YOU.
I once dated a Taurus man. It took him 3 months to ask me again on a date after the first 2 ones.
We are no hurry. We have to be certain.
Posted by 164thDegreeit doesn't sound like you are very compatible. you might be better off with the gem.Posted by BG2Posted by TaurusinTexasIf tauruses are slow, all the more reason to move in his direction as opposed to waiting for him to move towards OP.
Don't be aggressive, a taurus man may take his time but he needs to come for you or this is going nowhere fast. He needs to work for it, so that he appreciates it. Taurus moves ridiculously slow, ppl tell me all the time that their biggest complaint with me is that I have no sense of urgency unless it has to do with my work or I'm super passionate about it. So let the man build some passion and excitement about you and he will come for you.
I don't agree with being aggressive. Taking charge isn't to be mistaken with aggressiveness.
@ op, you want him to beg for you...just like the other guys?
Could it be that you just want him because he doesn't behave as other men around you do?
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Hello, I figuring him out, slowly. He is okay. He is just a bit more introverted than most guys I meet. He is happy when I text him. I think he needs to know that he is liked because maybe is afraid to be rejected. I declared my urge for more romance with him the other day, but he didn't respond. Maybe he doesn't like me, nut also he is on a business trip right now. I don't mind expressing how I feel and it is okay to get rejected. Though now I've got this Gemini guy calling me and he is in a hurry for a date with me! So I am seeing the difference. Perhaps I just can't have a relationship with a Taurus.click to expand
Posted by 164thDegreeit certainly sounds that way. they like to take their time to make the right decision and certainly don't like to be pushed. they want someone to be by their side while they get comfortable with whatever is happening next. if you are on a time crunch and can't work to someone else's schedule you are going to be very frustrated.
Ha ha! Wow, so then I am too aggressive for a Taurus?! I don't play with rules. When I want something I go and get it. My Mars in Sagitarius forces and ruins all my relationships!! Oh well, I don't want to pretend to be someone I'm not in order to "get" him. If I lost him from my natural behaviors then that is a good thing for me. I don't play games, but I do like to figure people out. I want to find him, grab him by the collar and say, "Hey, am I too aggressive for you?!"
Posted by 164thDegreeOh, ok then. Yup, sorry I just assumed your neptune conjuncts your mars and also falls in your 7th.Posted by letterbox10No my Neptune is in the Eighth conjunction my Jupiter. What may be terrible in my relationships is that I have Mars Conjunction Uranus in the 7th house. Totaly doom right? ;Posted by 164thDegreeI think I read that you have Neptune in 7th house. Is it conjuncting your mars?
And I realized that I fell in love with the Fantasy of the Taurus guy, but not really him himself. He may be just too slow and boring for me. My energy is super high!
You might want to get to know that neptune in 7th house better. Halle Berry has it. She's always jumping into relationships, all lovey-dovey in the beginning, only for them to end horribly when she takes off her neptune-tinted glasses and reality sets in.click to expand
Reading your posts, you sound like a very neptunesque person, especially when it comes to relationships. Very idealistic and as you've acknowledged you tend to build the other person up so much that when reality does not live up to your fantasies, you just get very disappointed.
It could also be attributed to your stellium 5th house planets. It's the house of romance, creativity and children. Again reading your posts, I totally feel your 5th house. I guess that's why some people thought you were a Leo 🙂
It's not total doom. You haven't met the right person for you yet. It could very well be the Taurus. They just move very slow, as you're already noticed. But if his pace is not your comfort level, you might want to look for someone who is more compatible.
Try the Gemini. They're quite scatter-brained, I'm sure you'll be very entertained 🙂
Whatever placements you have make my placements look tense..I be very cautious with you. Would not open up so quickly, eventually but slowly.
Posted by busyeyes88noooo busy, you're wrong. as you can see by the comment of the other libras in this thread, this behaviour doesn't go over well at all. we like grace and decorum and good manner. spouting self promotion and boasting makes us come out in a rash.
For your vanity you may be better off with a libra than a Gemini!!! Geminis like intelligent people not vain airheads ... But libras love looking in mirrors and will give you a run for your money!! You won't get bored competing with him as to whom gets to look in the mirror first!!
Posted by busyeyes88This exactly!!
Taurus people don't like ugly...
I have Taurus rising, and I like people who like themselves so much! I have a great Leo rising friend, and we love dancing in front of the mirrors. She is so happy that I brought her some more mirrors.!
Well this is now getting off topic, Too bad There is so much negativity because I said I was beautiful! That really sucks that it offends some of you. .? Weird. Well, I leave you with one of my fav characters who is so positive! Lol:
Well this is now getting off topic, Too bad There is so much negativity because I said I was beautiful! That really sucks that it offends some of you. .? Weird. Well, I leave you with one of my fav characters who is so positive! Lol:
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