How do you make a Taurus uninterested in you?

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Hotgal78
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"he has probably ALREADY lost interest in you if you had done all such stuff you mentioned above. he isn't just showing it to you YET."

- This is what I was expecting to happen really, but it has been the total opposite....It is like he is no charging full speed ahead at me like an enraged bull to get me to see things his way...He is not backing down by a long shot...

I have done every thing...I have ignored him for days and he still will text and call me, this is after telling him that I don't want to see him anymore...

Maybe its because he knows he is in the wrong...IDK...I really do like and care for him but I cannot and will not deal with him, which is what I told him...

When I talk it just seems like he hears only his own voice...If I say I do not want to see you, he will follow thru with Why?....Let's got to dinner?....He will even tell me he is coming to my house?..

I think he has come to my house too when I was ignoring him because I have awoke to multiple missed calls or text messages asking Where are you? Come out side...Pick up your phone.etc...

I have never encountered someone so intent on having their way....





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Hotgal78
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Yes he is a Taurus. I am sure of that....Everything was going great between us and bam....I felt as though he lied to me confronted him. I explained my reasoning for my decision and actions and that I couldn't get past the situation so I honestly told him that I did not want to deal/be with/have anything to do with him anymore....

That was like talking to myself because he basically feels like he explained the situation and I should take his word as is and we should continue on our merry way.....I do not think so....

He has pushed me back into my shell, where I am trying to regain some level of peace and comfort but its as though he is trying to crack my shell open although I am pinching his lil ass all up in the face and everything....lol?
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The problem here is your reasoning - he believes that under the circumstances he can change your mind. As long as the issue isn't that you simply don't "like"
him he'll believe he can win you back. You have no choice but to patiently continue ignoring him and if he shows up where you are very bluntly tell him he's not welcome. It will take a while - we are stubborn as hell - but eventually he will give up; but not as long as he believes there is even the tiniest shimmer of hope. We just don't give up, and I don't just mean "easily" I mean we really won't give up..... not until we are 100% there's nothing to keep trying for. You just have to be as stubborn as he is; I'm afraid this one's not going away over night.

[I'm assuming by the way that we are talking about t2]
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Hotgal78
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Taurus guy just won't quit....He texts/calls, not daily anymore...Its more like every 3 days or 5 days if I am lucky....He told me that he still persist because one day I might change my mind....He said he cares for me alot and he had mad love for me....

I have done all things from being outright rude, to telling him to go fuck himself, to ignoring his calls/texts and he still persist....He persist even more so when I do not respond.....If he sends a text and I ignore it I can expect 5 more texts within the next hour, a phone call and maybe more text afterwards, all of which I ignore??_.In a few days, the same??_..

Me and a mutual friend of Taurus and I were talking recently (mutual male friend is one of Taurus male's closest friends)....I figure mutual friend knows Taurus and I used to talk although I never told him...

Mutual friend starts talking generically about how sometimes men make mistakes and they live to regret it and try hard to make right their wrongs, which are a major reason why sometimes they try to correct the wrong by asking for another chance....He says "we are all human, we make mistakes and bad choices. Others should see it in their hearts to forgive and give a second chance becuz you never know if this time maybe the right timing for a chance at a meaningful relationship."...

I laughed and wondered whether mutual friend was trying to see where I stood to go back and tell Taurus....I just listened and responded by saying: Fool me once, shame on you....Fool me twice, shame on me....

Mutual friend then says to me to stop being so difficult...lol...which the same phrase Taurus has been saying to me when I decline him....

I will say this, Taurus?? are fixed alright??_..Once they set their mind on something or someone, nothing/no one will change it unless they are ready to