How to deal

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by spljm on Friday, October 7, 2016 and has 4 replies.

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@spljm
10 Years

Ok, first week of the 3 months I'm away from my Taurus. I have hardly talked to her...problem is she is working on transitioning her store over and is super busy.

We used to text all night however there is a 6 hour time difference so when she gets off work, it is midnight here. When I text her during the day, she either doesn't respond or responds when I'm already asleep.

Me being the anxious me, I feel like she is pulling away and it is only the first week but the rational side of me says it is just because she is busy and nothing personal.

Any advice? How can you be there for a Taurus when they are super busy and you can hardly talk to them?

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@spljm
10 Years

But it doesn't mean that she's lost interest?

It's hard to not feel like it doesn't have to do with me

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@spljm
10 Years

So we she will reply to my text one or two times and then out of the blue I won't hear from her again...I've stopped asking where she went but what is going on? I'm so confused.

She promised before I left that things wouldn't change but I can hardly get her to talk? Does talking to me make her miss me so she'd rather not? Have I done something that I don't know about? It's so strange.

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@zerofromouterspace
9 Years

I wish I could help you out. But this sounds so much like what I would back the hell off of, it's making me just feel sorry for the whole thing.

I know exactly what you are talking about and if you ever figure it out, let me know. It's almost like there's two different people living inside one and you never know which side you're going to land on.

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@spljm
10 Years

The problem is this girl I consider a good friend - not just one I'm interested in romantically.. when I was home she did everything for me - always getting me things and there for me no matter what. We stayed up all night texting and all of it. She assured me a week ago when I left things wouldn't change but it sure feels like it.

It could be because she is very busy but she hardly responds on her days off....I just don't know what's going on so I'd love a viewpoint from a Taurus lady