But I am kinda leary of saying it first. We’ve been seeing each other for 2 years or so. We talk about marriage, and building a future for our “soon to be family” Our families both call us in laws. So i think it’s pretty solid. But he hasnt said it and i asked why, and told me it was too early. He asked me why ive never said i love you. I told him im not sure what love is, because this is both of ours first real relationship. Idk. Any advice?