I'm a Taurus infatuated with a Cancer help!

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Brittfuzz
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I dated my ex for 10 months, (she's 17 and I'm 18) but she broke it off almost a month ago, this being her first relationship she told me she has nothing to compare her feelings to. I knew how I felt because I had dated a fair few people in my past.
So anyway a month has passed, we both attend college and see each other daily apart from weekends, but she still acts close to me, she told me she wants to be close friends yet acts like we are still an item?

So I am asking what another Taurus should do in my situation? I am extremely patient although I hate waiting, and trying to be quite calm about the situation but I tend to over think to much should I just go with it and move on? or will creating a friendship blossom to create a new relationship? since we didn't have a friendship to begin with or move on?

I wouldn't mind if someone with some knowledge dating a cancer and being a Taurus could help? cancers seemed to be so closed up and very indecisive, she has never opened up to anyone in her life and she did gradually to me before we broke things.
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I didn't realize you both were women and teens when I posted in the Cancer thread.
This actually makes this easier, at that age there is a lot of confusion; she doesn't know what she wants. Understandably.
I think she is being honest with you when she says she can't compare you to anyone; because it means she wants someone to compare you too. Keep in mind that those are thoughts and feelings. She may feel crowded too and need space.

It seems that she really likes you but she may want to see other people. Or perhaps she just needs some time alone.

Perhaps friendship is best.
You can cover the necessary step that you both missed and find your way back to each other.
Good Luck.

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Brittfuzz
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Torro: I agree with the friendship thing I wish I got to know her to begin with but I guess some mistakes can't be helped thankyou 😛

LunarMaiden: Thankyou that helped alot! I thought she would be confused it's not fair to challenge her for an answer since cancers don't really like confrontation from what I gather she is very sensitive and hides away every emotion possibly. she doesn't seem to discuss her problems to other people, she doesn't confide in anyone and I guess I am worried but I know she needs space to figure out herself what she wants.
do cancers seem to get jealous easily? since making a new friend in this situation who happens to be bisexual my cancer ex has been on high alert and tagged along and become suddenly very buddy buddy with my friend who happens to be an aries.

haha the conflict amused me, we are sttuborn to be fair my mum is an aries and we are in the same household...we clash alot if we argue we can go without talking for days usually I give in though 😱
and cancers can be clingy but I find it cute, I dated a virgo I have to say they are both quite similar I seem to fall for quite shy, closed up signs I guess being a bull Im quite confident and out going so I attract alot of attention so I want a challenge 😛
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Posted by hartnetj
Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by hartnetj
Be wary of the clingy trait. It's cute at first but becomes *grating* after awhile...



Like stubborn.........



ha ha

There is a difference between clingy and overly clingy. All couples need a little space, separate hobbies, and common hobbies. It is good for the relationship.
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Cancers "cling" when they really like someone. We have lives and hobbies of our own but when we like someone we make them the center of attention. The attenton levels off as we do go back to our routines after a while. We just like to be near our loves. Then we back off and people start making threads asking what happened why did we go MIA after they tell us we cling too much. 😛