initiating communication. .. passive approach best

I've been having this conversation with a Bullette for the past few days. Want to hear your thoughts. .
What is the best way to communicate with a Bull who is a close friend. Let them initiate or you do it? Also.. how often ise too often?

Thanks.

Posted by shortii
I've been having this conversation with a Bullette for the past few days. Want to hear your thoughts. .
What is the best way to communicate with a Bull who is a close friend. Let them initiate or you do it? Also.. how often ise too often?

Thanks.

You should initiate.
We're very particular about who we allow in our inner circle.
If she appears a bit standoffish, it's just a defense mechanism or a preconceive 'wrong' impression.
We're tough on this inside.
But quite sincere, sweet, and loyal on the inside.

If your intentions for a genuine friendship is honest and sincere.
Then letting you in wouldn't be a problem at all...🙂

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by shortii
I've been having this conversation with a Bullette for the past few days. Want to hear your thoughts. .
What is the best way to communicate with a Bull who is a close friend. Let them initiate or you do it? Also.. how often ise too often?

Thanks.

You should initiate.
We're very particular about who we allow in our inner circle.
If she appears a bit standoffish, it's just a defense mechanism or a preconceive 'wrong' impression.
We're tough on this inside.
But quite sincere, sweet, and loyal on the inside.

If your intentions for a genuine friendship is honest and sincere.
Then letting you in wouldn't be a problem at all...🙂

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And if communication is with a male?

Posted by shortii

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by shortii
I've been having this conversation with a Bullette for the past few days. Want to hear your thoughts. .
What is the best way to communicate with a Bull who is a close friend. Let them initiate or you do it? Also.. how often ise too often?

Thanks.

You should initiate.
We're very particular about who we allow in our inner circle.
If she appears a bit standoffish, it's just a defense mechanism or a preconceive 'wrong' impression.
We're tough on this inside.
But quite sincere, sweet, and loyal on the inside.

If your intentions for a genuine friendship is honest and sincere.
Then letting you in wouldn't be a problem at all...🙂

And if communication is with a male?

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It should be no different. I personally am not much of an initiator, but if the initiation is made by someone else, I keep the ball rolling in the middle. And then there's the tale of 2 Taurus where one has enough fire to initiate, and their power to keep things going, goes until the next phase of life! 🙂 But that's in a fairytale world lol

And how often is too often? Everyday communication is okay with me. So is every other day. But when it starts to get inconsistent saying once every 3-5 days, I lose severe interest and to me shows that you're not interested enough in me and just another disposable number to you, UNLESS they make it clear how busy they are and am able to work with them.