Insight on a Taurus girl?

Hi, this is the first time I'm posting here. Just thought it'd be nice if I could get a couple more opinions from other people. Well first off I'm a Cancer guy and she's a Taurus girl. She broke up recently (like a month ago), and I found out that she's been on/off with the guy for a while. She seems to have trouble letting go though (Just like Cancerians :p). Anyway, I had feelings for her but wasn't entirely sure until a few months back.

Last week, we went out with a bunch of mutual friends, and I ended up telling her how I felt about her. Probably not under the best circumstances as she had a bit too much to drink but she'd had some sort of idea (few days before) that I had feelings for her and she came up to me and asked me if there was anything I wanted to tell her, and thats when I told her. Everything went great at first, she was acting all lovey-dovey and stringing me along. Then she just stopped and broke down and told me she "couldn't do this right now" because she just broke up. I told her I understood and to take her time.

Two days later, we went out for lunch together and talked. She just pushed me away and said she couldn't do it, and kept apologizing telling me how she was drunk but she remembered everything we said to each other that night.

I feel so hurt and confused. I'm sure I have feelings for her. She made happy. The happiest I've been. Then it all came crumbling down and I've never felt more hurt. The one time I actually opened up and I got hurt. She lead me on.

I guess I'd just like to know, is it entirely because of her break-up and she's just as confused? Does she even feel anything at all for me? Any insight would be much appreciated. Thanks for reading my long block of text 🙂

Posted by Crabby26
Hi, this is the first time I'm posting here. Just thought it'd be nice if I could get a couple more opinions from other people. Well first off I'm a Cancer guy and she's a Taurus girl. She broke up recently (like a month ago), and I found out that she's been on/off with the guy for a while. She seems to have trouble letting go though (Just like Cancerians :p). Anyway, I had feelings for her but wasn't entirely sure until a few months back.

Last week, we went out with a bunch of mutual friends, and I ended up telling her how I felt about her. Probably not under the best circumstances as she had a bit too much to drink but she'd had some sort of idea (few days before) that I had feelings for her and she came up to me and asked me if there was anything I wanted to tell her, and thats when I told her. Everything went great at first, she was acting all lovey-dovey and stringing me along. Then she just stopped and broke down and told me she "couldn't do this right now" because she just broke up. I told her I understood and to take her time.

Two days later, we went out for lunch together and talked. She just pushed me away and said she couldn't do it, and kept apologizing telling me how she was drunk but she remembered everything we said to each other that night.

I feel so hurt and confused. I'm sure I have feelings for her. She made happy. The happiest I've been. Then it all came crumbling down and I've never felt more hurt. The one time I actually opened up and I got hurt. She lead me on.

I guess I'd just like to know, is it entirely because of her break-up and she's just as confused? Does she even feel anything at all for me? Any insight would be much appreciated. Thanks for reading my long block of text 🙂

I'm sorry sweetie,that sucks. 😢
There is no way of us knowing how she might feel about you.BUT if she loved the other guy,and just broke up...she is hurting badly right now,even if she's the one who ended it.
She really is doing what's best for you and she both....she needs time to heal.
That's not to say in the future you couldn't try to get closer to her,but right now it's not going to happen.

As far as her leading you on...from experience I can say I doubt it was intentional.sometimes we might think "yeah I like this person,time to move forward..." but then reality hits,and we have a hard time letting go of the past.this is a very new break up,so try not to just think of your feelings...think of hers also.
Give it all time,to see where it goes.