It seems my taurus guy came back...

My taurus guy disappeared and now, all of a sudden, he is back. But how should I react? One day he just went silent and for many months I did not hear anything from him. But now he is back, asking how I am doing etc.

Should I tell him how I felt when he went away? I was devastated and very hurt - should I give him this honest feedback. Should I be concrete and ask him why he went silent or would that be a turn off for him? Or should I just react that nothing happened?

I would like to give him a second chance (so I do not want to be too poshy, clingy etc), but I was really hurt when he disappeared and I do not want to go through this second time. Any ideas?

I would love to give you adivice but idk.. How many months did he take? Are you interested in a relationship with him again? I suppose I would take it casual and just chat for a week and see what progress have you both made in your lives.

He was disappeared around 8-9 months. I have actually no clue why he disappeared - there might be cause given by me, because we may have had a slight misunderstanding but I did try to work it out but he did not respond to my reaching to him. I actually feel that this misunderstanding was not the problem, there was something else.

What you mean make him work hard? Should I not talk to him anymore? Should I leave him thinking I am seeing somebody else?

I have actually no idea what I want from him - a lot of months have gone by. But me as an aries would like to know where we stand from his point of view - but how can I ask it politely/should I even ask it?

Wow that's a long time.. I would judt keep it friendly.

I don't think you should take him back. It's bad he disappeared once. It will be worse when he does it again.

I don't know any background here but if you were together in a relationship and he just fucked off for three quarters of a year without a word then that's not good. Communication is key but rather than putting on him how he hurt your feeling etc (raking up the past) I'd first consider what you want and how you feel now, not how you felt then.

This exact thing happened to me with a Taurus ex and I took him back without question and he did it again. So if I had it to do all over again, I'd kick him good. Or ask him what it is he wants and what he thinks he's doing?

Let him know how much it hurt and it p'd you off, or just shove him out the door. When a Taurus is serious about you he'll treat you like a queen and that's what you deserve. If he doesn't, he's just playing with your feelings and who needs that. He's not going to change.

Thank you for your insights. Currently I feel empty, it is hard to explain - I really like this guy but I do not want to go through this second time. When we communicated, then he really treated me as a queen, that I must admit.

We both have been hurt in the past and we are in nature shy, so over time we had some misunderstandings - he was not sure whether I like him and vice versa. Therefore I do not want to come too strong but I have to let him know what this was not acceptable, probably…

Just be honest and don't play games.