It was destined to happen..Im dating a Taurus :)

Bit of a messy back story (we both were dating other people when we met) though the attraction was so strong that none of us could resist it. I had to fight for her and now finally persistence paid off 🙂 Virguy and Taurus girl starting a new love story..

What about the Cancer?

She was the one I was dating when I fell for the Taurus..

This is the first time that I experience falling for somebody else while dating someone, usually I dont even care for other girls when Im into someone, I guess it just meant I wasnt as much into the Cancer as I thought, I really care for her though..I just couldnt resist the Taurus

Haha those days are behind me for now 😉 Im into serious relationships as we speak

maybe more like her cap moon is 😛

funny but the cancerian also has cap moon, I attract them cap moon girls like crazy

good to talk to you after a long ass time M btw!

Dude, Taurus Sun and Capricorn Moon? You do realise you're dating Hitler.

Messy!

Hmmm...might explain why the taurus ex and my virgo ex friend are so chummy with each other and why she's sided with him. They're more than welcome to have each other, too.

Why Boomer. I am all amazement. 😛

Posted by CluelessCancer
how did the Cancer respond to it?

Bad, very bad of course. I considered using other reasons for the break up to spare her feelings, but realized afterwards it wouldnt be fair to her, she has always been amazing to me, a great person and obviously therefore it took me a long time to make up my mind, then a couple of weeks ago both the cancerian and the Taurus left abroad for the weekend, I only missed the Taurus, not the cancer, thats when I realized where my heart was, thats when I decided to choose for the Taurus.

Posted by CluelessCancer
You said she's beautiful anyways and has lots of men chasing her right, well hopefully someone better will come along and scoop her up.

She IS beautiful and gets enough male attention, she deserves the best of the best, Im good enough for her and thats why we got together in the first place. Things just evolved in such a way that it was only later on that I realized I cant give her what she was looking for.

Posted by Damnata
Dude, Taurus Sun and Capricorn Moon? You do realise you're dating Hitler.

I dont remember Hitler looking like a hot girl 😉

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Posted by Damnata
Dude, Taurus Sun and Capricorn Moon? You do realise you're dating Hitler.

If she knows about his cancer ex, she might lead him on and then drop him for a cancer 😛

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She knew I was dating someone else from the beginning, like I knew she was seeing another dude from the beginning

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Shit happens, life goes on

It's better to realize now you weren't attracted enough to the Cancer than many years down the road.
I'm a fan of the Virgo M/Taurus F couple lol it seems like a sweet match
Enjoy! 😄

Exactly my philosophy 🙂 These things happen all the time, it just had never happened to me before, a very valuable experience indeed!

Posted by venusianbull
Why Boomer. I am all amazement. 😛

I need your blessing 😄

Not a good way to start.

the best things in life come unexpectedly

lol.

so enjoy while it last...

As with everything in life 🙂

Thanks!

Be happy Boom. Treat her well...or I will take away your loofah. xx 😄

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

Posted by CluelessCancer
You said she's beautiful anyways and has lots of men chasing her right, well hopefully someone better will come along and scoop her up.

She IS beautiful and gets enough male attention, she deserves the best of the best, Im good enough for her and thats why we got together in the first place. Things just evolved in such a way that it was only later on that I realized I cant give her what she was looking for.

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What was she looking for that you cannot give?

Posted by Damnata
Dude, Taurus Sun and Capricorn Moon? You do realise you're dating Hitler.

i have these placements too and i dont come of as Hitler. My sun is in 8th house and moon in 4th, which makes my earth very watery.

I think there is no golden rule as to what can work between two people, or at least its not that easy to predict astrologically. But there is an unexplainable feeling when you meet the person that touches something deep within you.

maybe its the case for boomshaka.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
the best things in life come unexpectedly

Lol it wasn't destiny or unexpected. You saw something you liked and pursued and fought for it. You said so yourself. Don't use fate, destiny, or a cosmic force as an excuse for your actions. You both knew what you were doing. It was planned and executed.

The two of you should do fine.

Virgos are yummy! 😉

Nothing more sweeter than disarming the 'uptight' Virgin...

Let her take care of you 😉

lol, theres nothing uptight about me dahlin, Im full of fire, passion and determination..thats what made me accomplish the impossible..changing a Taurus' mind 😉

I really don't like how you easily discarded the Crab.
I was actually pulling for you two but it's not my life, it's yours and you should go for what you want.

It's better that you didn't drag it out and put up any false pretenses like sneaking around and continuing to date the Crab. I can see why she wouldn't take it well. She meets a guy she likes and he seems to like her too, then this other woman comes alone and now she's voted off the island. LOL

I noticed that trines and opposites tend to dump their squares, conjuncts, sextiles, etc for another trine or opposite. Interesting.

Even though I don't like the idea of someone leaving me because he wanted someone else;
I've noticed that most people are already in some kind of sexual/romantic relationship before they move on to the next thing. And oftentimes these relationships overlap, i.e. fwb, dating or married. People get hurt, become bitter and anger. Some take it in stride. But, that's life, bitter and sweet.

I hear you Lunarmaiden..

It only took a certain random event to..randomly meet the Taurus, hadn't I attended that event, I would most probably still be happy with the cancerian. What Im trying to say here is that the level of attraction there was between the Taurus and moi was absolutely off the charts right from the very first moment we started talking, I couldnt just pretend it was something casual. Like I said before, this is the first time that I truly feel such attraction for someone besides the person Im dating seriously, I usually simply dont care for other women. In a way this was as confusing for me, as it was for the cancerian to hear that I didnt want to keep things going with her. It took me weeks of confusion to finally realize that I HAD to do this, it was the right thing to do considering the circumstances.

BSB, the great thing about you and the Bull is that it's mutual and you are taking action to make it happen. Not sitting back, wondering, waiting and staring for months on end. Did the Bull break up with her boyfriend yet?

BSB,

Don't jump into conclusion. but congratulation to your love life.

Posted by LunarMaiden
BSB, the great thing about you and the Bull is that it's mutual and you are taking action to make it happen. Not sitting back, wondering, waiting and staring for months on end. Did the Bull break up with her boyfriend yet?

She did 🙂

Glad to see you understand things from my point of view too 🙂 It hasnt been easy for me either to come to this decision because I truly liked the crab too.