Taurus', and current society's hookup culture.....

I feel it's hard being a Taurus in this generation's views of hooking up with everyone culture, you know like having tons of "options" and different dates, etc. I'm trying so hard to not be that one-itus guy and I know that there are plenty fish in the see. For me it's just I feel like I can only focus on one girl at a time, eventually if she doesn't feel the same way, I'm able to move on, but the thing I noticed with myself is that I can only get attached/attraction/focus to one girl at a time.

Is this weak? Does any other taurus feel this way as well? How can I get over this.

Depending on your age, you might want to start being interested in women instead of girls.

I'm 22, and I don't know about dating older women.

I've dated one girl for like 4 years throughout college, and now I feel like, I need to be un-serious, having fun, and experiencing tons of women.... But I keep getting one-itus....

Posted by Vainth
I'm 22, and I don't know about dating older women.

I've dated one girl for like 4 years throughout college, and now I feel like, I need to be un-serious, having fun, and experiencing tons of women.... But I keep getting one-itus....

Nothing wrong with one-itis. Quality over quantity.
You can always date one and then be friendly with others. Not being romantically involved but just friendly with others.

It's always nice to have support around. Always. Good.

I'm not a guy, but!! There's a woman I'm interested in. However, if she's not interested, there are other women who like me, so there are other people I could possibly be involved with later.

What keeps me away from them though is that I like that one woman, she is my type to a T, and if she reciprocates and I expect to have a serious relationship with her, how can that happen if I don't take it seriously. So no, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you.

Don't over think it, we're old fashioned folks when it comes to romance. 😉

Sometimes short lived rships 'fling' feel fake, just do what feels instintual to you, you will never regret it even if it's unfashionable.

Posted by blackphase
Not weak at all! It's very admirable & sweet. Us gals like that 🙂

Yes we do!

you are just inexperienced

try being handsome attractive and popular

you will have hard time which to focus while you take your time to examine each of them

It's probably that I am still inexperienced.

It's just, I always feel like I want serious (even though I just came off one), when I'm in an era of people wanting to be "have fun, unserious". I have no problem w/ that either really, it's just I get so much of those answers lately lol

Sorry, I'm only rambling, I just like knowing there are other taurus' that can relate. and that I'm not going crazy.

I can't talk about these things with my friends cause they think i sound lame...and most of all they aren't taurus either grr

And just want to say thanks for input everyone. I recently only really discovered zodiacs few weeks ago, so I'm a newbie, but it's amazing how real it is.

My friends (especially dudes), just don't get it lol. And this forum has really relieved me greatly of a lot of social stress.

"Not faithful but loyal" haha that's an interesting way to put it.

how cum?

Disclaimer: Not faithful but loyal.

So basically you'll cheat on the person but wont leave them.
That's pretty selfish but honest.