@crabberries
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Taurus attitude
Understanding Taurus Attitude and Decision-Making
Taurus individuals tend to observe and reflect before acting, avoiding confrontation when unsure. This cautious approach can sometimes lead to mistaken judgments, but it helps them maintain stability. Recognizing this trait can improve communication and understanding of Taurus behavior in various situations.
I suggest you confront coz that's the only way you will know. Just watching will only make it worse coz you will constantly be judging and might be the wrong judgement
Posted by Mikell
When in doubt:
I formulate questions as to why I'm in doubt
I observe every details regarding the subject matter
I research and try to get as much information as I can in relation to it
I analyze all gathered information and then link all related data
I have my initial conclusion, list of pros and cons, steps to re-create the linked scenarios and what are the possible actions will one take when they are in that situation(basically I try to think what will I do when I'm on their shoes, how one will hide something given the situation etc)
I asks indirectly about it(if it is a person) and link all his/her answers to the situation
I try to validate his/her answers based on the body language, tone of voice, valid/possible actions etc
I try to chat with people(if it's a person I'm in doubt) you are interacting with and asks indirect questions that will somehow lead to the subject of my doubt
Generally, I'll just observe. Everyone is innocent until proven guilty. Basically I will not say to you that I'm in doubt so you will act on your normal self. I will not also say my judgment. YOU will be the one who will prove to me whether it's right or wrong. So, it will be up to the person whether he/she will upset/lose my trust on him/her.
Thanks
Now I know you don't really confront a person, you just investigate quietly and If you're not yet sure You back off right?... and let the person come to you reveal themselves, that's the easiest way... I get it.
I think this is a common trait amongst human beings and not just taurus
Posted by Vainth
I think this is a common trait amongst human beings and not just taurus
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Posted by crabberries
You don't confront when you're in doubt right? So how would you know? You just watch, so got end up with a wrong judgement sometimes...
I do that a lot !!!!!
Posted by crabberries
You don't confront when you're in doubt right? So how would you know? You just watch, so got end up with a wrong judgement sometimes...I do that a lot !!!!!
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Why are you so afraid to ask directly when you're in doubt? Hmm anyway i believe it has something to do w/ being cautious
Posted by crabberries
You don't confront when you're in doubt right? So how would you know? You just watch, so got end up with a wrong judgement sometimes...I do that a lot !!!!!
Why are you so afraid to ask directly when you're in doubt? Hmm anyway i believe it has something to do w/ being cautious
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Put it this way..i have not heard from my bull since last night and i am extremely worried..anxious...insecure...but i only sent him 1 message hoping to hear from him soon while i'm crying my heart out on the other side of town. I have not even make ONE phone call !!!
Its in my nature... i struggle to make a first move ....it sure has to do with being cautious
Posted by Vainth
I think this is a common trait amongst human beings and not just taurus
Nah, I have to disagree with that unfortunately.
This is not a human being thing it's a taurus thing. My sign confronts first observes later. Typical fire bravado. Taurus does not do this. The more in doubt, the slower they move, the more they pull back, and if they thing you are negative, they will just pull away and move on. They do not like confrontation and really like you if they are going to confront you because it is for a greater good. My Taurus confronts me, even though it's uncomfortable for him, because he wants to make it better. He's invested. But I see him with other people, just pull away. Like he has a lot of confrontation at work for example, and at home...so he "accidentally" left his phone at home when he spent the weekend with me....That was no accident people.
Posted by crabberries
You don't confront when you're in doubt right? So how would you know? You just watch, so got end up with a wrong judgement sometimes...I do that a lot !!!!!
Why are you so afraid to ask directly when you're in doubt? Hmm anyway i believe it has something to do w/ being cautious
Put it this way..i have not heard from my bull since last night and i am extremely worried..anxious...insecure...but i only sent him 1 message hoping to hear from him soon while i'm crying my heart out on the other side of town. I have not even make ONE phone call !!!
Its in my nature... i struggle to make a first move ....it sure has to do with being cautious
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Isn't is just being fearful and scared rather than being cautious? Fearful of rejection, right? If that's it, I think a lot of us can relate to that.
*think not thing
Posted by crabberries
You don't confront when you're in doubt right? So how would you know? You just watch, so got end up with a wrong judgement sometimes...I do that a lot !!!!!
Why are you so afraid to ask directly when you're in doubt? Hmm anyway i believe it has something to do w/ being cautious
Put it this way..i have not heard from my bull since last night and i am extremely worried..anxious...insecure...but i only sent him 1 message hoping to hear from him soon while i'm crying my heart out on the other side of town. I have not even make ONE phone call !!!
Its in my nature... i struggle to make a first move ....it sure has to do with being cautious
Isn't is just being fearful and scared rather than being cautious? Fearful of rejection, right? If that's it, I think a lot of us can relate to that.
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After one night you are crying and feeling insecure? Chill out..
Posted by Mikell
When in doubt:
I formulate questions as to why I'm in doubt
I observe every details regarding the subject matter
I research and try to get as much information as I can in relation to it
I analyze all gathered information and then link all related data
I have my initial conclusion, list of pros and cons, steps to re-create the linked scenarios and what are the possible actions will one take when they are in that situation(basically I try to think what will I do when I'm on their shoes, how one will hide something given the situation etc)
I asks indirectly about it(if it is a person) and link all his/her answers to the situation
I try to validate his/her answers based on the body language, tone of voice, valid/possible actions etc
I try to chat with people(if it's a person I'm in doubt) you are interacting with and asks indirect questions that will somehow lead to the subject of my doubt
Generally, I'll just observe. Everyone is innocent until proven guilty. Basically I will not say to you that I'm in doubt so you will act on your normal self. I will not also say my judgment. YOU will be the one who will prove to me whether it's right or wrong. So, it will be up to the person whether he/she will upset/lose my trust on him/her.
Is that ok for someone to do the same to you? Just wondering.
Posted by Mikell
When in doubt:
I formulate questions as to why I'm in doubt
I observe every details regarding the subject matter
I research and try to get as much information as I can in relation to it
I analyze all gathered information and then link all related data
I have my initial conclusion, list of pros and cons, steps to re-create the linked scenarios and what are the possible actions will one take when they are in that situation(basically I try to think what will I do when I'm on their shoes, how one will hide something given the situation etc)
I asks indirectly about it(if it is a person) and link all his/her answers to the situation
I try to validate his/her answers based on the body language, tone of voice, valid/possible actions etc
I try to chat with people(if it's a person I'm in doubt) you are interacting with and asks indirect questions that will somehow lead to the subject of my doubt
Generally, I'll just observe. Everyone is innocent until proven guilty. Basically I will not say to you that I'm in doubt so you will act on your normal self. I will not also say my judgment. YOU will be the one who will prove to me whether it's right or wrong. So, it will be up to the person whether he/she will upset/lose my trust on him/her.
+1000
Nothing more to add. This describes me in a nutshell.
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You don't confront when you're in doubt right? So how would you know? You just watch, so got end up with a wrong judgement sometimes...