Judge me, because I'm not sure.

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MsKrabz
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Three years ago I met a "Typical Taurus" man on a chat site. Charming, persistent, generous, distant, and had a harem.



Death, and bad financial decisions turned him into this cold blooded being. Most tauro people take the space, and time needed.

Not he.

So your caring NAIVE cancer girl (me) stick around to..care.

During that time he poured his bitter heart into me. He degraded, and disrespected me. Essentially our "situationship" ended with me blocking him.



Recently he finds me on IG. Not sure how. My IG is not even my name. Haven't spoken to him in three years to let him know I have an IG.

He liked four of my pictures. Commented on one saying," You look beautiful."

I deleted all of his comments. Kinda bummed that I can't delete his likes



I really regret how naive I was. Why did I allowed him to be degrading, and disrespectful. Every so often I immaturely go to his IG page, and reflect back on how stupid I was.

Sometimes I want to say something under one of his pictures. Something mean, and possibly uncalled for

Y'know what I'm almost 30. I should really pull my big girl panties up.



But I don't want to. I want to a be a huge bitch to him, I want to catfish him and be an even bigger bitch.. and what does that get me...nothing..

So give me -- a grown person the okay to catfish this guy.. I need somebody to blame it on. Lol

I'm only joking, but man I was a dumbass.















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Three years ago I met a "Typical Taurus" man on a chat site. Charming, persistent, generous, distant, and had a harem.



Death, and bad financial decisions turned him into this cold blooded being. Most tauro people take the space, and time needed.

Not he.

So your caring NAIVE cancer girl (me) stick around to..care.

During that time he poured his bitter heart into me. He degraded, and disrespected me. Essentially our "situationship" ended with me blocking him.



Recently he finds me on IG. Not sure how. My IG is not even my name. Haven't spoken to him in three years to let him know I have an IG.

He liked four of my pictures. Commented on one saying," You look beautiful."

I deleted all of his comments. Kinda bummed that I can't delete his likes



I really regret how naive I was. Why did I allowed him to be degrading, and disrespectful. Every so often I immaturely go to his IG page, and reflect back on how stupid I was.

Sometimes I want to say something under one of his pictures. Something mean, and possibly uncalled for

Y'know what I'm almost 30. I should really pull my big girl panties up.



But I don't want to. I want to a be a huge bitch to him, I want to catfish him and be an even bigger bitch.. and what does that get me...nothing..

So give me -- a grown person the okay to catfish this guy.. I need somebody to blame it on. Lol

I'm only joking, but man I was a dumbass.
















I understand how u feel..maybe u could forgive urself.dont be so hard on urself..u were youn u didnt expect things will happen the way it did and now that u're older.u're no longer that silly person.someone who'll never be involve with him ever again.

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You honestly do give part of yourself to someone when you involve yourself with them. I can't believe I still struggle to allow myself to have the piece.

I will forgive myself.

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Posted by Harukka
Cancer girls :/

Always fall for someone who need help, and need someone to fix him.



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Just ignore him, and u will be fine
Yes. True to our sign that's is what we do.

But

I wasn't trying to "fix him" I was trying to be there for him, but he saw me as a target. Also No-one can fix him..not even himself.

And I've been ignoring him, but the urge to be a bitch is quite strong, but I am a do-"gooder"
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I KEEP EVERYTHING. I am VERY sentimental. Other things I hold onto because it shows growth.

After some thinking..this is what I'd do.

****DARK CANCER THOUGHTS AFTER DARK*****

I want to become his facebook friend. I KNOW he will except . From there I will lurk his page for about a week to find the HEART of his harem.

I will then tag him, and post every bit that I have of him to show how degrading, disrespectful, and inhumane he is.

I want to destroy his flock. I want to shut him down.

But as I've said I am not bitter toward him particularly. I was a fucking idiot, and I'm willing to except that -- though I have so many things I want to say.



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Revenge will only make you more angry/resentful if there's any resistance and if it's not over quickly, imo. I don't think a battle like that is worth it, nor do I think the odds are in your favor. I understand being bitter and wanting revenge, but imo there's better choices you can make to resolve your feelings. I don't have any useful tips to help you explore those other choices, but good luck
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Three years ago I met a "Typical Taurus" man on a chat site. Charming, persistent, generous, distant, and had a harem.



Death, and bad financial decisions turned him into this cold blooded being. Most tauro people take the space, and time needed.

Not he.

So your caring NAIVE cancer girl (me) stick around to..care.

During that time he poured his bitter heart into me. He degraded, and disrespected me. Essentially our "situationship" ended with me blocking him.



Recently he finds me on IG. Not sure how. My IG is not even my name. Haven't spoken to him in three years to let him know I have an IG.

He liked four of my pictures. Commented on one saying," You look beautiful."

I deleted all of his comments. Kinda bummed that I can't delete his likes



I really regret how naive I was. Why did I allowed him to be degrading, and disrespectful. Every so often I immaturely go to his IG page, and reflect back on how stupid I was.

Sometimes I want to say something under one of his pictures. Something mean, and possibly uncalled for

Y'know what I'm almost 30. I should really pull my big girl panties up.



But I don't want to. I want to a be a huge bitch to him, I want to catfish him and be an even bigger bitch.. and what does that get me...nothing..

So give me -- a grown person the okay to catfish this guy.. I need somebody to blame it on. Lol

I'm only joking, but man I was a dumbass.
















Yeah, Taurus have a knack of finding someone who doesn't want them anymore. I changed my number 3 times and he still got mine now, I decided to just let him. It's fun anyway lol

Anw, you don't need to hate yourself or hate him. Things happen for a reason, and he was there in your life to teach you a lesson. Have you ever heard of karmic relationship? A relationship that is so toxic and you could never get yourself out from, but once you do, your heart is ready to call in your soulmate? Maybe he is one of your karmic relationship to prepare you for your soulmate ?

Cry tonight, feel everything and then sleep. Allow yourself to cry, it's a process of healing. If it still hurts cry some more until you feel better.

You need to forgive him for playing you

You need to forgive yourself for letting him play you

And you need to forgive the situation. If you keep blaming the situation it means you're blaming God, Love.

Just forgive ?

Have faith, stay strong and take care! ?
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You have spoke beautifully to my spirit. Thank you for that, and yes, I have heard of that, but I've already found my soulmate, and he'd like to throw a rock at him too ? he's a sweet man just as well though.

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Posted by Scenic
Revenge will only make you more angry/resentful if there's any resistance and if it's not over quickly, imo. I don't think a battle like that is worth it, nor do I think the odds are in your favor. I understand being bitter and wanting revenge, but imo there's better choices you can make to resolve your feelings. I don't have any useful tips to help you explore those other choices, but good luck


Thank you for the luck.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
So you are bitter because your not the main one so revenge is the next step. So you mirroring him is more like it. He did so you do too. Hmm
Oh hell to the no .. be his main one? Ma'am he degraded and disrespected me. Why in Sam Billy hell would I take part in his harem?

In so many ways, and words he is still the same, and sees no wrong in himself.

Wisdom tells me to apply my big girl panties because in all honesty I am only embarrassing myself in the end, but the irrational part of me wants to get my little piece of revenge.

If I sound bitter I need to redo my vibe. I'm happy with my life. I'm actually just venting. It's a surprise me to have people respond and say that they understand.

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Posted by Harukka
Cancer girls :/

Always fall for someone who need help, and need someone to fix him.



.

Just ignore him, and u will be fine
Yes. True to our sign that's is what we do.

But

I wasn't trying to "fix him" I was trying to be there for him, but he saw me as a target. Also No-one can fix him..not even himself.

And I've been ignoring him, but the urge to be a bitch is quite strong, but I am a do-"gooder"
U were young. I got burned by an aqua in my 20s. But by the time I hit my big 30, NEVER again. When you are in your 20s, allow yourself some room for error.

No one is perfect and some of us always want to see the good in others... Especially those with a "dark side".. We hang around to see if we can locate their "good side"... All the partners I attract have a dark side and over the years nothing is different. I firmly believe that they are a reflection of myself when I look introspectively!! ? ?
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This make me reflect over myself. I definitely do go back, and "check" on former friends. I don't say anything, I silently watch. One of which seems to have tapped into that genuine part of their heart.

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So you are bitter because your not the main one so revenge is the next step. So you mirroring him is more like it. He did so you do too. Hmm
Oh hell to the no .. be his main one? Ma'am he degraded and disrespected me. Why in Sam Billy hell would I take part in his harem?

In so many ways, and words he is still the same, and sees no wrong in himself.

Wisdom tells me to apply my big girl panties because in all honesty I am only embarrassing myself in the end, but the irrational part of me wants to get my little piece of revenge.

If I sound bitter I need to redo my vibe. I'm happy with my life. I'm actually just venting. It's a surprise me to have people respond and say that they understand.

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Yeah it does suck. Sorry I do hope you find closure and find someone else who deserve you for who you are as a good person and all. People take advantage of people all the time. It's rude and can't change people who are like this guy. It's all around...

The actions do play a big difference from ones who treat you right from ones that treat you like they have no moral, values or a more better upbringing. And because you've been through this you'll be able to spot it in others once you start dating a new body. Sorta helps you in away for life lessons and experiences.
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what did he do exactly?
One thing he did out of many was exploiting my body publicly.
How did he do that?
There is a picture of my nude body floating around internet that he took, and no I did not give permission for him to take.


With your face as well?
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Yes.
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I kinda have a feeling that we know the same man lol. the story is pretty similar to what I heard from other girl when we were together for 4 years. But dunno :s

His name, does it start with an A? hahahaha ?


Hmmm I know a Taurus that sounds like this whose name starts with A. Lol are you from the states? And if so what state? โ€”

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Uh oh lol

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Posted by Parkourler
I havent read the 4 pages. I sense you are still angry, because you want revenge. You could write him a message, where you tell him everything you feel without insulting him. "I felt hurt and angry, I dont deserve to betreated like, I dont respect you because of your weak behaviour etc you get the picture.
I'm not even angry at him. I am more annoyed with myself for reflecting back.