little help needed with taurus women...

Hi.. i met this girl at the gym and she was nice and we used to chat about studies initially.. and then i saw on her on facebook and i sent her friend request.. and then after few days she accepted it..

Then, one day i initiated a chat with her on facebook like hi and then followed it up with a ques.. like what are doing these days coz she was not coming to gym... and then she replied she was busy with house shifting.
next day i again started chatting with her and then we had a long conversation on facebook only.. and then i got to know her interests and likes ,dislikes,what kind of music she likes and then she asked me the same questions.. It was really a nice conversation and i enjoyed it...and i think she enjoyed it too.
Then i asked her that when was her birthday.. she said she was born in may..(taurus) and then i replied i am born in nov (scorpio.. ) and then she asked do i read any books and then i gave my reply and she ave her reply.I thought it was a good idea to end the chat coz i did want bore her and then i wrote i really enjoyed talkin to her and would like to have this type of convo over the phone and then i gave my no.. and asked her to call me whenever she is free,(I was HESITANT to ask for her no and thought this was a better way).. then i wished her gud night and she replied ok for the earlier post and then wrote gud night..

I am anxious and confused whether i did the right thing or not... please help..
Thank you..


P.S. - i have posted this on scorpio forum also..

schneaky and MilkySoft: I think you both are right.. after asking her to call me , even i felt a little awkward and was indecisive.. that is why i asked the ques.. by the way thanks for the advice, will keep you posted whatever happens.. 🙂

...i find it VERY HARD to call a man regardless of how much i love or like him....hope that helps...lol

we are just...patiently waiting...if we like you...your job is to pursue while we sit ...watch and observe your behaviour .....

You are a scorpio...it won't be hard for you to win her over...trust me 😉

Hi everyone.. sorry i was out for 3-4 weeks...

So i considered your advice and this is what happened..

After 4-5 days i again initiated the chat with her..(on FACEBOOK) and i did not mention a thing about the convo regarding the phone call... and neither did she and at first i was thinking she would not reply but she replied and we started talking like how was your week.. and what do you do on sunday... etc..i was a good convo i told her a GEEKY joke.. and i think she liked it..(i asked her whether she understood the joke or not she did not reply for 30mins or so.. and then she said she got the joke) and then we ended the convo...

Next day at the gym i met her and she asked about the new TV series like whether i watched it or no...
I told her that i watched it and i found it ok... she said cool and started doing her exercise..


She was doing weights.. and like i asked her what was the time she told me the time and she told me whether i could help her lifting the weights i said ok and helped her.. she said thank u and smiled...
That night again i started the convo.. like what are doing right now... she replied blah! blah!!! she asked me the same... then i changed the topic i asked her whether her fav color is yellow.. she said yes...(P.S. she did not tell me her fav color i guessed it.. SCORPIO trait..) I then gave her a compliment.. like you look pretty in Yellow and she said thank you.. she said that she liked bright color...
We concluded the convo by saying gud night.. etc...

Then again after 1 week i msg her on fb like how r u keeping up.. she did not reply...
Then i told myself to take it slow...


This happened 2 weeks ago and after that i had some training in the office so i was busy.. so did not get time to meet her or talk to her..

Then in the weekend i went to the gym.. i saw her i acted normal she was talking to her friend.. i passed by her and looked she did not reciprocate.. and she went..

Next day, in the gym... she was doing weights and like i was on cardio.. i just started my thing she asked me why i was ignoring her.. the other day... she said i was acting like "just do your thing" and go home type nothing more.. no hi.. no hello...
i laughed.. and like got taken back like wtf happened..(internal dialogue..) i said I looked at you and you did not respond...she did not speak.. and then i only told her that i might be thinking something...and i said chuck it.... then she asked me what i was doing these days.. i replied about my work...

I asked why did she not reply to the msg she said that her internet pack was over and said that she was going to recharge it today...

Then in the night.. she was on fb.. and i asked her whether i answered her question completely or not.. she replied ya..


Then for the comment she passed that i was ignoring her i said i never ignore people i meet.. she replied its good... and convo ended..

Can somebody tell me "WHAT THE HELL IS HAPPENING: and why she giving me confusing signs.. I mean like.. why i was ignoring her.. i did not ignore her.. she ignored me in the first place..(that is what i think..)

Please shed your opinions on this...

Thank you... 🙂