Love is hard

I had been with my boyfriend for about three and a half years and we finally decided to move out together. Well two months after moving out he decides that this wasn't what he wanted so he moved out. I still love him very much and it was hard for me but I have managed without him. Now he's back and he says he wants to be with me but he still is not sure. I don't know what to do.

sweetheart it either fits or it doesn't - the answer is that "hard". You know in your heart, what the answer is. But, in order to be true to YOUR heart and happiness you must also be brave.

When someone asks this question, I offer this perspective: You could have the BEST seafood restaurant in your area, "Mr.Can't" walks in and doesn't like your food - even though he keeps coming back (sorry, it' the Taurus combination of food, making money & love!) That doesn't mean YOU don't serve good food, it means that his taste hasn't been refined to enjoy the level of quality, service & ambience you offer! When there are so many others that do enjoy what you offer, why focus on the one that evidently doesn't have taste? Open the door!

Love is hard but it teaches us lessons each time we go through a new relationship. I say if he didn't know what he had then he never will and you must only look forward not back. Trust me, once you close the chapter on this one you will allow yourself to start a new chapter, one which hopefully for you will end in happily ever after. You go girl!