Love w Taurus has a bf but were close

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lhurocky
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i am 32 and i love this girl who is 22 and a taurus. i have known her for about yr and half. every since i met this girl we have connected. i am a scorpio and you know about our passion. she has a bf, and have dismissed her until a few months ago. when she contacted me. we started talking all day everyday, and have hungout a few times. we have been intimate and everything about us being together is unbelievable and she says the same thing. she does not want to hurt her bf, and will not leave him. they have been together for about a yr. i am taking this slow because i do not want to make her hate me later. when she calls me or needs me i drop everything for her and she knows this. what can i do to win her over completely and make her mine? if you know us scorpios then you know how frustrated i could be at this point and dont want to let on to her more than i already have...
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i am 32 and i love this girl who is 22 and a taurus. i have known her for about yr and half. every since i met this girl we have connected. i am a scorpio and you know about our passion. she has a bf, and have dismissed her until a few months ago. when she contacted me. we started talking all day everyday, and have hungout a few times. we have been intimate and everything about us being together is unbelievable and she says the same thing. she does not want to hurt her bf, and will not leave him. they have been together for about a yr. i am taking this slow because i do not want to make her hate me later. when she calls me or needs me i drop everything for her and she knows this. what can i do to win her over completely and make her mine? if you know us scorpios then you know how frustrated i could be at this point and dont want to let on to her more than i already have...oh the other thing is that she says she cant see me anymore because she gets butterflies and caves...she says when she sees me she wants to fall into my arms and me to never let her go...

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"she does not want to hurt her bf, and will not leave him."

So where does that leave you?

outside of a real relationship

The fact that she is sleeping with you,behind her boyfriend's back...and only thinks leaving him will hurt him,really says quite a bit about her if you'd step back and open your eyes.


I can totally see why you'd want to be her boyfriend! then she could stay with you and sleep with someone else,and use your feelings as an excuse not to leave and be with him.
who knows,she may be falling in to a third guy's arms right now,that you,b/> don't know about....

I know you Scorp's hate when I get real with you,but ffs.....someone has to wake you effer's up.

And I'm disappointed in a lot of the stories I hear in here about young Tau chicks....😢
I guess I need to be more proud of myself,because by God I had my shit together at a very young age and did not play the kind of games it seems some play.

You're 32 dude....do you really need a girl that you have to take from another guy,on top of her already cheating on him?
Your a Scorpio.....you would NEVER trust her,and ALWAYS be in a state of upset.
You don't need that crap.


PS
I'm not saying you both don't feel something....but let common sense prevail.
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lhurocky
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ya i gotcha...i have stepped back from the situation and am trying to distance myself from it. i know if she did leave him or they broke up cause he found out about us then she would resent me for this and wouldnt work anyhow. i know about the trust that you speak of cause i even told her before the 1st time that i wouldnt want her doing that to me if ithe shoe was on the other foot...but you know how things can change...
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BellatheBull
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You know,I was actually concerned for your emotional well being,until I read some more of your posts ...

"I know this, this is y i have doubt, however ppl that know her say she has never cheatd before and cant imagine her doing, but then again did it once... I have been the other guy so many times, and have cheated or got bored in almost every relationship ever...oh i wuld not stand for it if i was the other guy and i am sure he now knows or an idea cause his boy was questioning my bro last week! I dont kmow how to get her out of my head tho...i was married for 3 years and w my wife for6...however i cheated with 6 dif girls during that time! I tell myself i wuld not if i was with her cause we are sooo good together, but actually being together may pose a dif story"


sounds like you'd make a great couple.