OK...so I accidentally "rejected" a Taurus. He wanted to see me on a particular day, but I was painting and wasn't prepared for company. The next day, I realized that he might have felt rejected, so I asked him if he could come to me on Friday. He explained that he already had plans. So then I asked him when he could come, and he told me he'd get back to me. He didn't. A few days later, I sent him a neutral text. No response. A few days later, I sent him another neutral text. This time he DID respond, but it was also neutral (with a sarcastic undertone). A few days later, I sent him a third text (this time more direct about wanting to hang out). No response.
Have I lost my bull? How can I gently "lure" him back (for lack of a better word).
If it matters, this relationship was just starting to turn into more than friendship... There was lots of flirting, sexy phone convos, etc. I'm afraid that I "rejected" him at the worst possible time...
From what you have typed he seems like a big titty baby. Has there ever been time you wanted to see him and he couldn't come through? He'll get over it if not screw him.
He's still pretty much doing the same shit. I called him and asked him if I scared him away. He said, "No, no, no...please don't think that. It takes a lot to scare this big guy. Don't think that. I have just been going through some episodes lately and am really busy with family stuff. We'll go out for drinks soon."
I don't know what "episodes" are. —?
Still haven't heard from him (and that was a week ago).
Grrrr...
I would say, "screw him," but sheesh....I really do want to screw his "big titty baby" ass!
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Have I lost my bull? How can I gently "lure" him back (for lack of a better word).
If it matters, this relationship was just starting to turn into more than friendship... There was lots of flirting, sexy phone convos, etc. I'm afraid that I "rejected" him at the worst possible time...
Thanks for any feedback.