Mixed Messages with My Taurus Man

I have been dating for a mere few weeks, but based on these posts it seems like nothing for a taurus man, but we have connected in so many ways. Yes I am scorpio and we are a mature people who understands our boundaries> we bumped heads a little in the first two weeks...mainly over his over committment of expressing that he has no city limits ( Living 4 hours away) and that this will not detour him at all. Yet everytime a plan was in effect he misplaced his phone, and another time we had an argument and his claim was this scared him little, problem being he didn't call until he found his phone about 10 pm. He as no home phone? Anyway he is crazy busy, phd, work, chairing various committees. His claim is I know that God the father would not have brought you into my life if you were not meant to be...I trust and have faith in him?

He says that our timing is perfect no other relationships and he adores me. My birthday has come and passed and his thought is I dont celebrate man made holidays! I dont need an excuse to do something nice for you, but yet he did nothing! Thanksgiving approaching soon asked if he would like to join me and he said I would rather be playing golf. Thank you for the invite and I appreciate it but I dont do holidays! Yet, when I mention that I went out and someone approached me, but I was not interested, his reply was I didn't know you were still on the market! We have never kissed, tree trunked, just held and hugged! He of course wants to make love! OH! and we needed to be tested for any diseases first and foremost. He always calls and texts and he makes sure he calls me at the latest hours and its very selfish of him! I think he is just checking to see if I am home alone..I work a traditional sched he works all night and sleeps in the AM..

Im getting a little tired of this one sided. I have even offered to drive down to see him. He has never extended me an invitation to his home. Although he did come see me once and admired my home and said that our things would mesh well togther? He was divorced 5 years ago and it was over financial so he claims.

He says he has a lot of admires but he does not like to lead people on so he will not encourage! I dont even have his address. I tried to do a backgound check and it was blocked with only his age and the PO box he provided when I told him I wanted to send him a card. I asked his age he told me 47 when I checked it said 57. If he lied about this what else did he lie about

Wow 🙂 Taurus men that have invested a lot in a relationship and got burned tend to be stubborn about entering another. You've only been at this a couple weeks. It's going to take a long time. Especially if she fleeced him of his assets. They don't like that at all.

They do lose things. I got in the habit of just picking up my Taurus things and putting them in my purse. He wouldn't miss them for hours. They suck at directions too. LOL

Don't trust the detective things on the net. You wanna know how old he is? Check his driver's license. It's free and easy.

Relax! If this is meant to be, it will work out. Try to push him and he will dig in. You're a Scorpio, you know all about that. Love up on him and enjoy the ride. 🙂

keep digging, things will be revealed over time. he probably lives underneath a bridge. tauruses are dumb and insecure to the point where they'll contradict or flip flop their own nature, he'll probably slip up eventually.