Good old libra and Taurus, never gets old to me
Need some advice please 🙂
Posted by LibralulaTaurus
I wonder what's his Venus
@maybecrazyme, I dont even have fb or ig so don't expect him to always talk on social media, for one communication in person is good. He is shy and nervous and gets irritating that people keep bugging what they see with each other better. If he already said nah I don't think this is a good thing, so left.
Just be friends , get to know him, and don't rush
Just be friends , get to know him, and don't rush
How old are you guys?
I have VIT and Cancer rising myself. I am so cautious, shy, and nervous when someone else is interested in, I smile at everyone, I stay friendly, and keep my nose in the books or career. I know what I need out of a relationship and VIS and VIT should be able to make sure you fall in love and it's not just infatuation..
Cap moon could just want fwb, they are detached and sometimes cold. Prefer casual.
I have VIT and Cancer rising myself. I am so cautious, shy, and nervous when someone else is interested in, I smile at everyone, I stay friendly, and keep my nose in the books or career. I know what I need out of a relationship and VIS and VIT should be able to make sure you fall in love and it's not just infatuation..
Cap moon could just want fwb, they are detached and sometimes cold. Prefer casual.
Lol welll when u figure it out please share with me as im in a somewhat same situation with a taurus guy
@poeticlibra1007- So did you learn anything last time you were here from anyone you received advice from?
And what happened now?
And what happened now?
Haha lmao
@OP- If a Taurus is in the right framemind to starting a monogamous relationship, you won't have to ask insecurities about you both. Lol
leave him alone. you speak different languages and i can see you'll probably end up hurting him very badly.
Posted by wickedPosted by wickedIm having a bad day...Posted by MaybecrazymeJust because he used the word No in that sentence doesnt mean he said he doesnt like you. Infact it is soooo freakking obvious he meant yes I like you!!! Even though I wasnt there, I can sense how much this guy likes you. But u need words. What are words—?Posted by wicked
Dont rush
Dont put rhem in a place where they must must answer your Q
Be patient
This is about love. Not war
Savour the moments
Because they do
No one wants to commit or put their feelings in a plate and offer another person right away. This is not food. This is something beautiful for the soul. Soul love
Dont give ultimatums
Once again Dont give them Ultimatums.
Doesnt work that way
Be sweet be tender be yourself
Before you know it, your bull will be leading you in a beautiful dance
Let them lead
Atleast let them believe they are leading....
And for the hundred and one time
Take it sllloooow and sensual
Take your time
You wont get anything not even bread crumbs if you dare to rush them
I don't think I rushed him.. I waited 3 years. I wanted to hear yes or no so I can move on. But after that night I was even more sure he liked me even though the answer was no, but it took him an hour to say it and I have never seen such emotions.. His hands were shaking, his face was red.
But what now? If we can meet in person only if he asks me out
Dammit woman. The guy likes u. Dont mess it up.
Im getting fed up of seeing ppl messing up relationships because of impatience.
Send him a sweet message... a song or something.
Let him know you were thinking of him.click to expand
But it's me always doing something. He knows I like him, I almost sure he likes me too. It's so hard to send a message saying hi, how are you?
Posted by wickedSorry, I didn't understand what you want to say. English it's not my first language🙂
Errr...
*throws the mic and walks away*
Posted by poeticlibra1007Yes, I will.. But I'm starting to thinks that things will never change. Would you like to share your story?
Lol welll when u figure it out please share with me as im in a somewhat same situation with a taurus guy
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I did learn but it seem like he just.....to be honest idk we talked for a bit lastnight and i swear its always a back n forth thing and im to the point where if it happens it happens and if it doesnt then new number and new interests
@poeticlibra1007- So did you learn anything last time you were here from anyone you received advice from?
And what happened now?
Posted by MaybecrazymeSure, ill message u since im sure this taurus forum doesnt wanna read into my story yet again with this one lolPosted by poeticlibra1007Yes, I will.. But I'm starting to thinks that things will never change. Would you like to share your story?
Lol welll when u figure it out please share with me as im in a somewhat same situation with a taurus guyclick to expand
Posted by starwarsI met his friend after I asked him if he likes me or not. And we weren't dating. I didn't even want to kiss him. He told me to close my eyes to show me something and he kissed me. I wasn't expecting that so I didn't know what to do.
you were dating his friend while asking him if he likes you or not? any sane friend would say no. I'm confused to why you're confused.
Posted by ManilaViceI appreciate the honesty€Posted by Maybecrazymei've done similar. nothing will happen. you'll both move on.Posted by ManilaVicePosted by Maybecrazymeyeah that's what he's probably thinking. those judgmental motherfuckers!!Posted by ManilaViceSlut because I kissed someone? After all, his answer was no, we weren't togetherPosted by wickedOMG what a slut! 😛Posted by MaybecrazymeU kissed his friend.Posted by wickedSorry, I didn't understand what you want to say. English it's not my first language🙂
Errr...
*throws the mic and walks away*
He should tell the guy friend that u like him?
Why didn't u tell the friend u like the taurus guy?
Even yr mutual friend kissed u. And u are wondering why he is distant with u?
I don't know what he's thinking, but he seemed even more interested after that. Anyway he did the same thing after a few weeks.. Kissed a girl in front of me and then smiling at me🙂
if u asked him point blank and he said no. that's it.click to expand
Even though we have started talking recently?
Posted by ManilaViceYou are also taurus with taurus venus man?Posted by Maybecrazymeoh yeah you kissed his friend. you'd never bounce back after that with me but that's just me. everyone becomes 1000x easier to leave when they start bringing other people in the picture. so easy.Posted by MaybecrazymePosted by ManilaViceI appreciate the honesty€Posted by Maybecrazymei've done similar. nothing will happen. you'll both move on.Posted by ManilaVicePosted by Maybecrazymeyeah that's what he's probably thinking. those judgmental motherfuckers!!Posted by ManilaViceSlut because I kissed someone? After all, his answer was no, we weren't togetherPosted by wickedOMG what a slut! 😛Posted by MaybecrazymeU kissed his friend.Posted by wickedSorry, I didn't understand what you want to say. English it's not my first language🙂
Errr...
*throws the mic and walks away*
He should tell the guy friend that u like him?
Why didn't u tell the friend u like the taurus guy?
Even yr mutual friend kissed u. And u are wondering why he is distant with u?
I don't know what he's thinking, but he seemed even more interested after that. Anyway he did the same thing after a few weeks.. Kissed a girl in front of me and then smiling at me🙂
if u asked him point blank and he said no. that's it.
Even though we have started talking recently?
When we talked he told me he lied me about something, but he didn't want to tell about what. But I guess about that NO. There was nothing else to lie about
So do you think that even though he likes he will just leave it like this and move on without even trying?click to expand
I unfriended him. Why did he messaged me after if he had made his mind about me? Why didn't he just leave it like that?
Posted by busyeyes88Ok,thanks
I think he sees you just as a friend... Taurus men are lusty creatures and if he saw more sexual chemistry with you he would have made a move... My taurus crush did and even my taurus friend of 27 years who had a crush on Me in our early years made a pass at me a few weeks ago!!
I don't think he sees you anything more than a friend.
But he doesn't treat me like one of his friends. He is very talkative with other girls,but not with me. Or maybe he acts this way because he knows I like him
Posted by busyeyes88I agree. He told me as a joke that he will always post pictures for me to see what he s doing. He never posts, he is very private. If I see one more picture what should I do? Contact him?Posted by MaybecrazymeThis is why I hate scoprio placements... You lot always want to control... You are not the man but yet you are letting your venus in scorpio control you!!Posted by wickedI had a weak moment that night € I was so tired of waiting. I knew he liked me, not love.. We barely know each other. But I don't know what to do now., should I contact him once again?
Not sure if this was your question or not, but the guy kinda liked you! Kinda. He wasnt all in. But yes feelings were definitely there. Not deep love. But something that could have led to deep intimacy and romantic love. But u had to ask him say yes nor no right? Lol! Mood kill :-)
IF the taurus is interested in you HE will let you know... Taurus men are LEADERS. They are born to LEAD... Not the woman ok?!
Keep your hands off the phone, off social networking sites; IG, Badoo or whatever. You have mutual friends. I'd he wants to contact you he will.
Destiny will decide your fate.... Not YOU!!! Lol
You can't rush a bull!!!click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88Posted by MaybecrazymeThis above ^^^^ is the reason why taurus and libra can't get on.. Libra is too flighty and flirtatious.. You've just kissed any likelihood of you and the taurus developing anything as he can now see how flighty you are and will therefore not be able to build anything solid with you. With you, his foundations will not be strong enough to build anything on...Posted by wickedI think that's what he wants.. To contact him. He had only one pic on facebook and after I said I want to see more of him he posted 2 that week, so I contacted him and spoke for 3 hours. I made a joke about one of the dogs in the picture and then he continued the conversation.Posted by MaybecrazymeYes you can contact unless he specifically asked you not to. Just dont send five texts within a day before he could reply. He might take time to reply even...especially if he is unsure about you.Posted by wickedI had a weak moment that night € I was so tired of waiting. I knew he liked me, not love.. We barely know each other. But I don't know what to do now., should I contact him once again?
Not sure if this was your question or not, but the guy kinda liked you! Kinda. He wasnt all in. But yes feelings were definitely there. Not deep love. But something that could have led to deep intimacy and romantic love. But u had to ask him say yes nor no right? Lol! Mood kill :-)
By asking him yes or no, you were putting pressure on him. Now you are saying you dont know him.all that well. We should never try to force someone to like us. Nobody likes that.
I know u want that one on one dating scene with him. He knows that too. They are not dumb. Because you pushed him, it could take some more time for him to decide. Be patient.
Hey btw did u say u kissed him or his friend? —
I kissed his friend. I didn t want that but it took me surprise. The friend was very friendly with me and one night asked me if I want to take a walk. I have many guy friends and I didn't think he wants something more with me, but he did. I told him that I only want to be friends but he didn't understand that, so he called me every day for 2 months asking me out and my answer was always no. They are good friends and I was surprised that he didn't know anything. they probably talked about me. Why didn' t he told his friend "hey, this girl actually likes me" ?click to expand
I explained that it wasn't my intention to kiss him.. And I explained
Posted by MaybecrazymePosted by busyeyes88Posted by MaybecrazymeThis above ^^^^ is the reason why taurus and libra can't get on.. Libra is too flighty and flirtatious.. You've just kissed any likelihood of you and the taurus developing anything as he can now see how flighty you are and will therefore not be able to build anything solid with you. With you, his foundations will not be strong enough to build aPosted by wickedI think that's what he wants.. To contact him. He had only one pic on facebook and after I said I want to see more of him he posted 2 that week, so I contacted him and spoke for 3 hours. I made a joke about one of the dogs in the picture and then he continued the conversation.Posted by MaybecrazymeYes you can contact unless he specifically asked you not to. Just dont send five texts within a day before he could reply. He might take time to reply even...especially if he is unsure about you.Posted by wickedI had a weak moment that night € I was so tired of waiting. I knew he liked me, not love.. We barely know each other. But I don't know what to do now., should I contact him once again?
Not sure if this was your question or not, but the guy kinda liked you! Kinda. He wasnt all in. But yes feelings were definitely there. Not deep love. But something that could have led to deep intimacy and romantic love. But u had to ask him say yes nor no right? Lol! Mood kill :-)
By asking him yes or no, you were putting pressure on him. Now you are saying you dont know him.all that well. We should never try to force someone to like us. Nobody likes that.
I know u want that one on one dating scene with him. He knows that too. They are not dumb. Because you pushed him, it could take some more time for him to decide. Be patient.
Hey btw did u say u kissed him or his friend? —
I kissed his friend. I didn t want that but it took me surprise. The friend was very friendly with me and one night asked me if I want to take a walk. I have many guy friends and I didn't think he wants something more with me, but he did. I told him that I only want to be friends but he didn't understand that, so he called me every day for 2 months asking me out and my answer was always no. They are good friends and I was surprised that he didn't know anything. they probably talked about me. Why didn' t he told his friend "hey, this girl actually likes me" ?click to expand
At OP: i must say Busy is right about Libras, I am one and I know how we can rush things, and that never ends good.. You simply need to have patience with bulls or simply move away from them... Never ever rush them! He did like you and he might still be interested in you, BUT that kiss was a big mistake.. Dont be so naive.. Noone will kiss you unless you want that.. In some way you gave that guy a green light for the kiss..
Think before you do or say something.. If you dont have patience for bulls move along... They are beautifull strong ppl, my fav but it takes time to understand them..
I wish you all the best with that guy.. Patience and no stupid libra shit.. Trust me, you will realize how much shit we can make and destroy beautifull things.. Be smart.. Think twice 😉
Think before you do or say something.. If you dont have patience for bulls move along... They are beautifull strong ppl, my fav but it takes time to understand them..
I wish you all the best with that guy.. Patience and no stupid libra shit.. Trust me, you will realize how much shit we can make and destroy beautifull things.. Be smart.. Think twice 😉
Posted by wickedAs I've said before, our conversation last week was about him not posting anything on social networks because he doesn't like the attention. He then posted 2 pictures. If I will see one more I will give him a message.. that way I have a reason to talk to him, not out of the blue.
Drop him a line now and then
Even if he doesnt reply, taurus men like to hear from their loved ones.
Send him a sweet number
A song dedication
If everything goes well, u could ask him if he would like to catch up sometime.
So yes
Stay in touch
But one day let him know what happened
Things wld have been easier had you done it sooner than later.
I dont rhinkt it is over
U still do have a chance
Just be sure about what you want
Dont be indecisive
And dont maul him will ya rofl
Like I said, let him lead. They know how to.
Thank you🙂
Posted by heraThank you, I will be patient. There's nothing more I can do right now than maybe sending him a message, but that's all. I think he should make an effort also because we have no other chance to see each other again
At OP: i must say Busy is right about Libras, I am one and I know how we can rush things, and that never ends good.. You simply need to have patience with bulls or simply move away from them... Never ever rush them! He did like you and he might still be interested in you, BUT that kiss was a big mistake.. Dont be so naive.. Noone will kiss you unless you want that.. In some way you gave that guy a green light for the kiss..
Think before you do or say something.. If you dont have patience for bulls move along... They are beautifull strong ppl, my fav but it takes time to understand them..
I wish you all the best with that guy.. Patience and no stupid libra shit.. Trust me, you will realize how much shit we can make and destroy beautifull things.. Be smart.. Think twice 😉
Posted by busyeyes88How brutal. LolPosted by MaybecrazymeLEAVE HIM... Do not chase men... If he is interested in more he will be in touch!!Posted by wickedI didn't explain it to him, but I'm sure he knows the story. All of his friends knew what happened.
Why would u put yourself in a place where your potential bf's friend cld kiss you— Isnt it understood we are not to put dirty sticky fingers inside a cookie jar? I really used the word cookie. Not dxps cookie.
If u were unsure of taurus guy's affections, u could have moved on to someone else. But you broke an invisible code by allowing his friend to kiss you. Ok ok your eyes were closed. The point is, why place yourself in that situation? Doesnt look good for u. And he went ahead and kissed another girl.
Did u ever explain to the taurus guy what happened as soon as it happened—
I dont see this working long term.
Anything that starts with drama ends in drama.
Of course you are not kids. Just pretending to be kids. At first I thought you guys were like 16/17. Heck. Kids nowadays would know how to handle this better than you both.
I couldn't write the whole story here because it's too long. But I've been there and seen it with my own eyes and I'm pretty sure I'm not wrong. He is quite shy, he has many female friends but in 4 years of university I haven't seen him having a girlfriend. And even though I asked him that question and went out with his friend it didn't seem for me it made him change his mind about me. He tried to meet me through his friends, when we were together he tried to spend more time with me than with other and everything was going fine until summer when we finished university and everyone left the city to study at home because we had the bar exam in september. I think that if we continued to see eachother something was going to happen. After september they invited us out every week but my friends couldn't go and I didn't go alone.
What I'm trying to say is: I know he likes me, he tried to come closer to me, but only when we were in a large group. Now that group doesn't exist anymore, so 2 weeks ago we started to talk on facebook. So my question is, if I have some reason to send him a message just being friendly should I do so? Hoping that eventually he will ask me out or should I just leave it like this to see if he contacts me?
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