Need to know what he is up to......

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Daydreamer on Tuesday, February 14, 2006 and has 9 replies.

Interpreting His Intentions with Your Taurus Friend

Based on his actions, he seems interested but not fully committed. He expresses he thinks about you and likes your personality, yet his lack of effort and timing of calls suggest he may be unsure about pursuing a relationship. It is important to communicate directly to clarify his intentions and feelings.

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@Daydreamer
21 Years

I haven?t met up with my Taurus guy friend (whom I?m interested in having a relationship with) for a month a half. When he asked me to come over he noticed my hair cut and said he like it. He mentioned he hasn?t seen for a month a half. He tells me he has been thinking about me. He said, ?I like you?you are funny and witty?. But he doesn?t make an effort to see me more. He always makes excuse he is busy with friends and work and said if he calls there is nothing to really talk about. He calls on the time of what is considering the time of ?booty call?. When he does calls, he calls when he and his friend are done hanging out. Is that all he wants or he hadn?t made up his mind if he want to have a relationship with me?

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@Daydreamer
21 Years

I think it is the other way around. I had stopped calling him or wanting to see him for months. He won?t go away for good. I know I shouldn?t gone over to his house the other night when he asked, but I still care about him and he knows it. How do I tell a Taurus to leave me alone when he isn?t interested in having a relationship?

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@Daydreamer
21 Years

I think I'm going to tell him I'm seeing someone since telling the truth didn't work. I can see that possestivness in him. My son was making noises in the background while I was on the phone with him and demanded to know who that was. Do most men need to be incontrol of everything even when you are just friends?

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@seizeTheDay
21 Years1,000+ Posts

No. If you are just friends a person, and this person needs to be in control of you- or possessive over you, then they are not really a friend. You don't have to pick up the phone when they call, respond to their e-mails, text messages or IMs, or read letters that sent ..and everytime you do you're making the choice (conscious/subconscious) to continue the relationship and any misery that comes with.

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

No,my male friends are perfectly okay even when they see me with my pisces boy,maybe they'd tell us to "get a room" once in awhile but they don't ask what every single things is about or anything.Guy friends are usually better at not doing that then female friends,hence why I say im a tomboy because most of my friends are guys I don't like most women for those reasons.As well as they try to force thier opinions of how women are allowed to treat men like shit but the men aren't allowed to even call them a bitch when they're tired of it.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

"As well as they try to force thier opinions of how women are allowed to treat men like shit but the men aren't allowed to even call them a bitch when they're tired of it."

Then, that what they talk to each other! That was quite enlightening.

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

I don't get past just being polite to lol,theres only a cancer with an aqua moon,a couple libras,a pisces,one scorp with alot of fire in her chart as well,a leo and an aqua that makes up for my female friends.And even a couple of them has gotten on my nerves a bit,the leo is the only one with a real reason to not be too nice to her ex husband and he beat her on a regular basis and tried to control her,tried to get her to stop talking to her family,etc.when they were together.Shes overweight and doesn't have too good of self esteem until now that shes found an actual nice guy and realised her and her kid was more important than her ex.Shes had some success losing weight since she got that stuff together and having an eye opener time right now with it not being weight for no reason and she was doing it to herself by stress eating lol.