Scorpio women and Taurus men

I had a great relationship with a Taurus male years ago. I moved to another country and that ended that. Are Scorpio women and Taurus men compatable in the long haul? I have heard they are. I have two Taurus men showing interest in me right now, as I shy away from the Libr men (who have sent me on roller coaster rides - married to one for 6 yrs). I am still in a "getting to know you" phase with the both of them, not really dating just seeing how things pan out. Any advice on this combo?

just enjoy it 😉

I recommend not to bother. The incredible connection is easily shattered when T. anticipates betrayal, to say nothing of the self-centredness of S. If it's like what I have experienced, it will be pain squared. Sorry. The hurt is not worth it! T. male

So, axis, what you are saying is that is a no go? I think Taurus men are soooo sweet. They give scorp girls that comfort and caring we crave... So, no go huh?

What are the clashes?

What are the good points?

For some reason, I can't seem to pick the right ones. People keep telling me other whater signs.

Cancers - too clingy/ Pisces - way too emotional / Scorps - good friends - not good in relationships - probably too much alike...

I must be the weirdest Scorp I know.

whater sign = water signs...

All I can tell you is that when I met this Scorp, it was the closest connection I had ever had with another human being. This scorp still haunts me and I think this will be the case for the rest of my life. But I realize now that it could never work. I read on one board that some f. scorp had married a t. male and after 25 years there were just too many issues and incompatabilities. Life is hard. It is beyond painful in so many ways and I just hope that whatever happens this will not be too painful for you. I think that all things happen for a reason and we are here to learn. This is not even close to heaven. We just must give up trying to find 'bliss' here. It does not exist, or at least, for very long on this 'plane'. I'm shattered, as you can tell and I am beginning to heal. It will just take time for me. (I'm about a quarter of the way, I figure.) I just hope that whatever happens to you, that it doesn't hit you like I've experienced. I think scorp is able to handle much more 'emotional' stuff than, at least, this Taurus. Whether your situation works will be up to so many factors, I can not even to begin to express to you how to make any kind of relationship decision. I am mystified about so many things in life. I just wish you and yours the best. To me, what 'feels' right tends to realize itself and I have learned that I should be intellectualizing more. Live, experience, learn and hope. We all need hope. Thank you for reading this. I haven't been able to express my experience and this helps. Good luck.

Oh... Axis, I am sorry for your pain... I too, although I may not sound like it have been through hell. With a Pisces, not a Bull. Bulls are too loveable to hurt a soul... I have learned alot about myself. Doing some soul searching since the divorce from a Libra... Scorp women, self included can be a trip, sharp, straight to the point and self indulgant at times. I have been working on changes within myself. Funny, most people say I don't seem like a Scorp in so many ways. In some ways though, I couldn't be anything else (the good ways) :-)....

Tauruses also find it so easy to talk to me and I find it a pleasure to listen and even share in their sorrow and be there to help pull them through. This is not so, with ever sign though. It is a connection thing I can'e explain. Similar to the connection with a Libra male, but not quite the same... Strange...

Healing will take time. Stay positive and know you are good and there is good inside you and let it shine through. The Scorp girl lost out, not you... Believe that and accept it...

Here if you need to talk

Your scorp buddy... :-)

Thanks and happy new year...

What are the clashes?
temper
control issue

What are the good points?
intense
passionate
affectionate
great conversation
mutual respect
fantastic sex
there's always good food around

I am talking to a quite a few men at the moment in time..on a friends level..who are clearly showing interest, but mine currently lies with a Taurus male..only met him about a month ago, been speaking here and there..but man he ticks ALL the boxes...

We haven't exchanged numbers just yet..but hmmm..he's nice..

QS, Bull Boys can be very affectionate. Just watch out for their Don Juan-ism. They don't like for you to flirt, but some feels it's OK for them to flirt. Don't pick arguments with them because they will dig their heels in tight and won't budge until you give in. Scorps and Bulls are polar opposites, but what I've read indicates that Scorps and Bulls are the only polar opposites who attract one another and have a chance for something in the long-haul.

I agree with Scorp5 and just enjoy it for now. Let it takes its course. Bull Boys come on strong when they're ready.

I agree with Scorp5 on the clashes and the good traits of us Bulls, except for the food. I hardly ever have food around - I like to dine out. 🙂

Thanks all. I like what I hear scorp5pt0. Keep it coming. What is it about the chemistry between the two that makes it so good?

lol...i meant to say 'there's always good food involved'...we usually dine out also. my fridge is always empty, and he says i should be ashamed of myself! last time he cooked dinner and brought it over, which was really sweet.

the chemistry is not just physical, but mental and emotional as well. something i haven't experienced before.

but all is not rosy QS - our communication sucks, i have to admit that. and he is always very realistic, which is a good thing, however sometimes it rains on my parade. he is also very stubborn, which requires a lot of patience and understanding.

we are only seeing each other casually and i'm trying to decide whether to stay or go. in the meantime, i enjoy every date we have to the fullest, and my attitude towards it is that if it's the last time i see him, then i have no regrets; i enjoyed our time together and would wish him well.

our communication sucks when it comes to discussing emotional stuff...but general conversations about life and everything else is great - interests in common, similar beliefs, wants, goals ...

Got it Scorp5. Thanks. I will keep that in mind and we will see. I do know they are stuborn though.

Taurus, stubborn? Absolutely not!

😛

So are Taurus guys a little shy when it comes to expressing their emotion?. A taurus friend tells me that they usually want the woman to tell them about her feelings towards them. If they feel the same way, then its great and they will take their sweet time about it..not talking years but a few months maybe..Is this true..What if they've hinted at a date..but haven't said outright? damn..but yes the pull is almost magnet like..

LOL ok..