Taurus male Aqua Female

Tell me everything you know about this combo...i'm in one and boy it's tuff and great at the same time.

If it helps...

I'm a taurus male with libra rising
taurus moon and mercury

she's an aqua sun with aries rising
cancer moon.

Thoughts? Primegen i know you will have something to say?

it will be flighty and frustrating...

buckle up for a wild ride.

i'm a taurus female once engaged to an aqua male. oh, what memories...

Yeah i can imagine.

If i didn't have my unlimited patience, i dunno what i would do.

she's an aqua sun with aries rising
cancer moon.

Me too.

What is the update Tauro?

hey lady_m

oh you know...she's cold, detached,dosen't trust ANYONE, flity. unemotional and can live without sex.

Doing my head in...i really love her personality but i really can't see it working? I'm the complete opposite, emotional, warmhearted, loyal, trusting, reliable and love sex (who dosen't). So i dunno, i'm patient and i know she likes me, i just wish she would level with me with some of her feelings and emotions. So cold and i can feel myself getting hurt not by anything she has done but just the interaction we have. you know? 😢

Tell me how you feel in relationships lady_m, you have the exact same positions as her. I did some natal chart compatibilities, they all said it was a bad mix.

oh you know...she's cold, detached,dosen't trust ANYONE, flity. unemotional and can live without sex.

Yeah, pretty much.

I usually feel smothered (It was a cancer and a sag). I enjoy the getting to know you phase though. Like you said, she probably does like you, but you have to waiy, its not that easy. If she spends her time with you, then she ultimately likes you and wants to be with you...if she didnt she would have definitely told you or avoid you as much as possible.

Here's a suggestion be a little assertive, and see what happens.

how do you mean by assertive? thanks for the re-assurance. she definitely makes time to see me and she's very busy with work. maybe it's the nice dinners and hugs she comes back for? she said that i'm the most caring and gentle guy she has ever been with so that must mean something right?

do you think that my taurus and her cancer moon have a connection? or my libra rising and her aquarius sun? maybe...

You shouldnt care too much about astrological compatibility...yeah some sign situations would be much easier to handle, but with any realtionship there are issues and if you want it to work you have to work hard for it and at it.

Sometimes, we want someone to be assertive, we're either shy or scared to get what we want from you. So, be assertive...tell her what you want. Reassure her that you're real. Kiss her when you feel like, she probably wants to too.

ok i'll keep at it. only been together for 2 months, early days yet!
btw she used to be my boss, she hired me and when she left her work and i stayed we kind of stuck together...

she's cold, detached,dosen't trust ANYONE, flity. unemotional and can live without sex.

sounds like my description 😛😛

😛 bloody aquas...where's the love!

sometimes i sing to my girlfriend... "SHE'S AS COLD AS ICE!!!" and she cracks up. i usually do it after she says something really blunt and cold ahhahahaa

'she's cold, detached,dosen't trust ANYONE, flity. unemotional and can live without sex. '

I'm aqua female:
I'm warm,
know how to detach myself when I want/need to,
don't trust easily, a man has to earn my trust and it has to happen gradually
probablt flity
emotional in feelings, but can be unemotional in actions
can live without sex, but like it with the right person. I get seduced through my mind.

I've never had good chemistry with a taurus male. Too stubborn with no logic.

Tauro.. us aquas arent cold.. we're as sensitive as anyone else.. we are just good at hiding our emotions...... we have a heart too 🙂

actually aquas are probably more sensitive than others...it is just they they don't show it, like eliza said...but the emotion is definitely there!!!

unemotional and can live without sex.

Oh my Tauro...my Aquaguy wasn't one to live without sex. He craved it all the time...only half the time it was with me...oh yeah, that's why we never got married.

I keep forgetting that part. LOL

thanks guys, interesting. sometimes when i send her a nice message saying how much she means to me she usually just says "thanks for the message" with no other elaboration on how she feels. doe's this mean she just can't really put her feelings into words or maybe she dosen't feel anything for me yet?

I think it means she appreciates the sentiment but perhaps go easy on the gushing lovey dovey stuff. I know that if I'm not in the mood at the time, lots of stuff like that from a boyfriend/lover would just be slightly annoying. But I'd still appreciate the fact that they felt this way about me, I just wouldn't be in the form for being all poetic and slushy so might sound a bit business like and cold.

Don't take it badly or seriously basically.

"doe's this mean she just can't really put her feelings into words or maybe she dosen't feel anything for me yet?"

She probably cant "feel" anything yet. We are called unemotional and detached for a reason. Sometimes we know how were supposed to feel, but we dont actually feel it. Plus mushy stuff sometimes doesnt do it for the average aqua. I think were good at expressing ourselves when we feel like it. Just give it time....i cant stress patience enough for you inquiering minds.

Oh and HP74 isnt this the same fiance that passed away?

hey mellow, yeah i thought that might be the case. this is definitely the most challenging relationship ive ever been in. i guess time will tell as to if it lasts.

yes, Lady M. He passed away.

"doe's this mean she just can't really put her feelings into words or maybe she dosen't feel anything for me yet?"

could be either. I'm quite lousy putting my feelings in words, but you see it more in my actions.
maybe she feels something, but is careful at the beginning until she starts to really trust you.

sad. i don't trust her, she's too flirty with her boss. read some of her text messages, i ain't gettin close for a long time yet.

sad. i don't trust her, she's too flirty with her boss. read some of her text messages, i ain't gettin close for a long time yet.

Were naturally flirty...you need to get used to our interactions with men, because we prefer male friends.

update...

me and my gf were just hangin out chatting on my bed when she got a text message, she got her phone and i had my head rested on her chest and saw the previous message she sent, was kinda raunchy and i said wow what a minute, who was that message too? and she kinda got a little bit panicky and said i can't remember and i said are you hiding anythin from me? and she no you stresshead and kinda tried to change the subject a few times but then she went into her sent items folder in her phone and suprise suprise it was to her boss. then she said you can look through my phone if you want and i said nah i trust you, just don't ever do anything wrong by me or you'll never see me again. kinda had to lay down the rules, (being a serious taurus that i am) so that was pretty interesting. she asked me if i had anything else on my mind that i wanted to talk about and i didn't really but i just went into detail as to how i am in relationships and how i can't take them as just a casual arrangement which she agreed on. i know for a fact that she doe's flirt with her boss, i think the next challenge for me is to accept that and realise at the end of the day that we are still together hugging each other. you know? i told her i get jealous, i can be very open with her which is great.

sometimes when i send her a nice message saying how much she means to me she usually just says "thanks for the message"

and what do you want her to say— i mean i dont understand why are your expectations sooo darn high—

or maybe she dosen't feel anything for me yet?

IMO she doesnt feel anything for you yet... im a very expressive person but only when i have strong feelings for a guy will i express myself freely... Like this Aries that im well 'sort of dating' is expecting tooooooo much from me and i cant help it... hes awesome but i dont have any feelings for him and jeeez why cant you men understand— i told him to just not get too attached and hes silly ..he said ' o please dont kill me... atleast let me dream'.... uuurrrggghhhhh....

men really are frustrating... very frustrating at times... too demanding... relationships are EXHAUSTING...

read some of her text messages, i ain't gettin close for a long time yet.

thats wisdom...i wouldnt ever get too close and attached to someone whose that flirty....

Hey Tauro

I see you've gotten assertive...but dont go all crazy on her, she still has a chance at leaving.

jeeez eliza chill, if you've ever dated a taurus who is actually serious about relationships rather that this crazy aqua i'm seeing then maybe you would understand what i'm going on about. Sorry to hear your boyfriend is in love with you so quickly, poor bastard!

See, i got the patience to be put up with shit, i could wait for grass to grow if i have to.

Sorry to hear your boyfriend is in love with you so quickly, poor bastard!

ur such a loser... stop calling people u know NOTHING about bastards... ur pathetic...

your just as bad throwing me in with the "men are so demanding" stereotype. how's it feel?

Hey Tauro I suggest maybe you be a bit flirty and outrageous with your aqua gf and see how she reacts to your new communication style !

ha! yeah, maybe i should mention my female boss nearly 5 times a week and sending flirty messages...hmmm

NO..that wouldnt work. TRUST ME, you'll definitely get nowhere...

LMAO @ Eliza and Tauro

but come on tauro.. u bulls are VERY demanding and ur posts say it all.... i dated one bull for a while and u guys are darn controlling, possesive and DEMANDING....

nah u got me all wrong. like most aquas do with taurus, misunderstood!

i was implying that i feel sorry for him falling so hard and so fast for you because i can see you have no sympathy for his feelings. hence the "poor bastard" remark. another one bites the dust?

because i can see you have no sympathy for his feelings.

awww tauro.. i hate assumptions.. ofcourse im sympathetic towards him and i dont ever wanna hurt him...but hes like ya DEMANDING with high expectations....i guess the problem with us aquas is that we dont want to hurt our friends and be 'nice' which doesnt help in the long run...

it's tricky i'll say. i think taurus and aquas are on such a different wave length that without really clear and concise communication, the taurus will usuaully end up getting hurt first because i've been the first to invest feelings towards her whereas sure, she likes me, but i think about the future, i rarely live the "now". Me and my gf haven't had one argument yet, i could of snapped about quite a few things and i guess she could of too but i think we both have a mutual respect for one another. i have the taurean patience to put up with her spontanious outbursts but i think the main deep underlying thing i possess in this relationship is the patience to wait for her to realise what i'm really like and vice versa. Without that patience, i don't think i'd still be in the relationship.

and you're right, i did assume alot about your aries guy. perhaps he is confused about what true love really is. maybe he is just so in like with you that he is confused between obsession and love, it happens alot. it's a shame you aquas are so nice rather than hurting your friends and stopping the pain there in then rather than letting the problem fester into a bigger problem over time.

ya i know Tauro.. we, aquas, have our share of weaknesses too...but hey that doesnt mean we dont care about you... i dont know about ur Aqua but i dont play games.... and i make it plain that im not interested in having a relationship, i dont like misunderstandings but still men keep trying until u tell them they suck... and i cant do that 😢.... but lately i did it and lost 2 good friends.. but it was for the best.... now i'll have to do the same with the aries...

we'll see. i think i'll know in another 2 months where this is all going. If i can't feel longevity or a chance for something real or special, then i'll end it. Pretty serious ain't it.

ya it is... i do hope things work out for you though, Tauro....u sure do deserve the best and if ur aqua doesnt appreciate ya, then u better move on.... ya i know its easy said then done but it'll be for your good ( both hers and yours )

all the best....

You know we have a post on the Scorp board of which sign we would like to be other than our own. And you know what people mostly have Aqua's including myself. But you guys are just too damn cold for me. I guess that is a good thing in certain situations. But definitely not all.

Damn!

i agree. they are cold, my gf is cold but deep down i know there is a soul wanting to fall deeply in love! this will be my ultimate test of patience i feel.

Ive got faith in the two of you Tauro. And because you are willing to wait (many people say they will on this board, but they come back 3 days later defeated), I know it'll work out...hopefully

deep down i know there is a soul wanting to fall deeply in love!

ya she really has to trust ya to fall madly and deeply in love with ya...

"ha! yeah, maybe i should mention my female boss nearly 5 times a week and sending flirty messages...hmmm"

I meant maybe you should try being flirty with your girlfriend. Definitely don't be flirty with someone else! That's not gonna achieve anything useful whatsoever. Like saying something ambiguous that has a sexual overtone to it. Being a little bit of tease. And while you're doing this, guage her responses.

Well Tauro I'm kind of in the same situation...Taurus girl with Aquarius guy. Kinda lost as to what to do. I really like the guy, however not sure as to the do's and don'ts.

Please help! Need great advice.

Hang in there amazon, there is hope after all. You will need to use all your taurean patience in this relationship, it will test you. From just 2 months i can tell you this. Don't draw conclusions about their character to early, they are deep but shallow at showing it. They want to have fun and been entertained. Detach for as long as you can and don't commit 100% like i have, i can be painful at times. Sometimes i lose faith in people when i'm with her, i wonder how people can be so cold, detached, machine like but deep deep down i know they want to fall in love, you just have to meet their criteria which is the quest i leave to you.