Sincere or just being kind?

Hey everyone!

I recently met a Taurus male. Before I go any further, I should mention that this individual is someone that I have been admiring from afar for five months. I would see him out and about all the time, and I was drawn to him immediately and wanted to know his story.

Astro basics: We both share the same Venus (pisces) and Mars (aquarius) placements. I'm an Aries sun, however, with a Capricorn Moon and he with an Aquarius moon.

Anyway, I finally bit the bullet and approached him. The connection seemed pretty instant. It felt like we knew each other already, so naturally I was excited by this.

In cyber land, he engages in conversation with me, but when I elude to getting together, he doesn't respond, however when I mention "oh, I'll be out this weekend. Hope to run into you", and he will respond with "I hope so too!" Why not just make a plan instead of "hoping" to see me?

This past weekend, we ran into each other at the bar and began connecting. Admitedly, we both ended up having one too many drinks, and we both became a bit aggressive on each other- him being more physical and I was more verbal (IE: I'm interested in you)

The next day, I felt the need to apologize for being so forward and his responce was (verbatim)

"I think for now, I want to keep things on a platonic level and build a friendship before anything else. I can already see the references you and I share are very similar, and I see a special bond developing there, but I did get a slight sense of forwardness last night which I wasn't quite ready for. I think for now, we should keep it on a friend level and not ruin what I think could be pretty stellar."

^ Does this sound like a diplomatic way of brushing me off, or does this sound sincere?

I admit that I absolutely allowed my excitement to actually be communicating get the better of me. I'm somewhat embarassed.

I vote sincere

oh my goodness, I love Taurus.

Mine is: is sincere, in fact he uses the word "Sincerely" a lot in conversation when he is expressing himself. "I'm sincerely falling for you, I'm sincerely sorry....."

anyways

as a non Taurus dating a Taurus man ..... with similar happening i might add

id say he is rationalizing in his head. they are very slow to process. they take their time and are very patient people. they don't jump into thing easily.

be yourself by all means, but i would say don't be too pushy.

from what i know by my aries girlfriend, when she wants something she doesn't stop until she gets it. and iv watch her completely suffocated the guy she was interested in. although she treated him amazing, he told her not ready, be casual.... she heard "make me love you"

and Taurus can be very stubborn so if you try to force something they will not budge and then all might be lost for your guys.



sorry if this was too much

also sorry to any Taurus that disagree im going by personal experiences.

good luck xo

Posted by Cameron0417
Hey everyone!

I recently met a Taurus male. Before I go any further, I should mention that this individual is someone that I have been admiring from afar for five months. I would see him out and about all the time, and I was drawn to him immediately and wanted to know his story.

Astro basics: We both share the same Venus (pisces) and Mars (aquarius) placements. I'm an Aries sun, however, with a Capricorn Moon and he with an Aquarius moon.

Anyway, I finally bit the bullet and approached him. The connection seemed pretty instant. It felt like we knew each other already, so naturally I was excited by this.

In cyber land, he engages in conversation with me, but when I elude to getting together, he doesn't respond, however when I mention "oh, I'll be out this weekend. Hope to run into you", and he will respond with "I hope so too!" Why not just make a plan instead of "hoping" to see me?

This past weekend, we ran into each other at the bar and began connecting. Admitedly, we both ended up having one too many drinks, and we both became a bit aggressive on each other- him being more physical and I was more verbal (IE: I'm interested in you)

The next day, I felt the need to apologize for being so forward and his responce was (verbatim)

"I think for now, I want to keep things on a platonic level and build a friendship before anything else. I can already see the references you and I share are very similar, and I see a special bond developing there, but I did get a slight sense of forwardness last night which I wasn't quite ready for. I think for now, we should keep it on a friend level and not ruin what I think could be pretty stellar."

^ Does this sound like a diplomatic way of brushing me off, or does this sound sincere?

I admit that I absolutely allowed my excitement to actually be communicating get the better of me. I'm somewhat embarassed.

THUS THE TURTLE (slow/be patient) I SAW IN MY COFFEE CUP (tea leaves)....thanks little one for the AFFIRMATION!

🤗 🤗 double cyber hugs

Love,

Eva

Posted by sagittariusxo
oh my goodness, I love Taurus.

Mine is: is sincere, in fact he uses the word "Sincerely" a lot in conversation when he is expressing himself. "I'm sincerely falling for you, I'm sincerely sorry....."

anyways

as a non Taurus dating a Taurus man ..... with similar happening i might add

id say he is rationalizing in his head. they are very slow to process. they take their time and are very patient people. they don't jump into thing easily.

be yourself by all means, but i would say don't be too pushy.

from what i know by my aries girlfriend, when she wants something she doesn't stop until she gets it. and iv watch her completely suffocated the guy she was interested in. although she treated him amazing, he told her not ready, be casual.... she heard "make me love you"

and Taurus can be very stubborn so if you try to force something they will not budge and then all might be lost for your guys.



sorry if this was too much

also sorry to any Taurus that disagree im going by personal experiences.

good luck xo

Uh, question, if you say they don't jump too quickly, then can you answer me WHY when he divorced from his FIRST wife after 20 years in December last year (they have a 16 yr old), he MARRIED his high school sweetheart he bumped into on FB (she was a Lesbian; had four different kids from four different fathers; while his friends and family told him NOT to marry her) he married her in April this year, and got his divorce papers filed (quick; online) and yeah, isn't officially divorced yet; did he fall so quickly?? 😕

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by sagittariusxo
oh my goodness, I love Taurus.

Mine is: is sincere, in fact he uses the word "Sincerely" a lot in conversation when he is expressing himself. "I'm sincerely falling for you, I'm sincerely sorry....."

anyways

as a non Taurus dating a Taurus man ..... with similar happening i might add

id say he is rationalizing in his head. they are very slow to process. they take their time and are very patient people. they don't jump into thing easily.

be yourself by all means, but i would say don't be too pushy.

from what i know by my aries girlfriend, when she wants something she doesn't stop until she gets it. and iv watch her completely suffocated the guy she was interested in. although she treated him amazing, he told her not ready, be casual.... she heard "make me love you"

and Taurus can be very stubborn so if you try to force something they will not budge and then all might be lost for your guys.



sorry if this was too much

also sorry to any Taurus that disagree im going by personal experiences.

good luck xo

Uh, question, if you say they don't jump too quickly, then can you answer me WHY when he divorced from his FIRST wife after 20 years in December last year (they have a 16 yr old), he MARRIED his high school sweetheart he bumped into on FB (she was a Lesbian; had four different kids from four different fathers; while his friends and family told him NOT to marry her) he married her in April this year, and got his divorce papers filed (quick; online) and yeah, isn't officially divorced yet; did he fall so quickly?? 😕

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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I mean im no Taurus but

my Taurus was with his ex for 10 years and ended it with her and met me 3 months later. it took 5 months after that until I asked if he would be my boyfriend.

but in the 3 months we did a lot of things that allowed him to get to know me and vice versa

no conversations of commitment ever happened.

we took 3 months to get to know each other until i asked him to exclusively continue to get to know me.

he even made the comment that he hasn't been single for that long but agreed and we are happy

i would say he divorced his last because he couldn't make it work, im sure he tried.

and 20 years of comfortably having a partner might make him quick to fall into another

but that doesn't me he hasn't thought about if he wants to jump in or not.

Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by sagittariusxo
oh my goodness, I love Taurus.

Mine is: is sincere, in fact he uses the word "Sincerely" a lot in conversation when he is expressing himself. "I'm sincerely falling for you, I'm sincerely sorry....."

anyways

as a non Taurus dating a Taurus man ..... with similar happening i might add

id say he is rationalizing in his head. they are very slow to process. they take their time and are very patient people. they don't jump into thing easily.

be yourself by all means, but i would say don't be too pushy.

from what i know by my aries girlfriend, when she wants something she doesn't stop until she gets it. and iv watch her completely suffocated the guy she was interested in. although she treated him amazing, he told her not ready, be casual.... she heard "make me love you"

and Taurus can be very stubborn so if you try to force something they will not budge and then all might be lost for your guys.



sorry if this was too much

also sorry to any Taurus that disagree im going by personal experiences.

good luck xo

Uh, question, if you say they don't jump too quickly, then can you answer me WHY when he divorced from his FIRST wife after 20 years in December last year (they have a 16 yr old), he MARRIED his high school sweetheart he bumped into on FB (she was a Lesbian; had four different kids from four different fathers; while his friends and family told him NOT to marry her) he married her in April this year, and got his divorce papers filed (quick; online) and yeah, isn't officially divorced yet; did he fall so quickly?? 😕

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

I mean im no Taurus but

my Taurus was with his ex for 10 years and ended it with her and met me 3 months later. it took 5 months after that until I asked if he would be my boyfriend.

but in the 3 months we did a lot of things that allowed him to get to know me and vice versa

no conversations of commitment ever happened.

we took 3 months to get to know each other until i asked him to exclusively continue to get to know me.

he even made the comment that he hasn't been single for that long but agreed and we are happy

i would say he divorced his last because he couldn't make it work, im sure he tried.

and 20 years of comfortably having a partner might make him quick to fall into another

but that doesn't me he hasn't thought about if he wants to jump in or not.

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Gotcha! Thanks....uh, you have BALLS to ask him to be your bf. I text good morning and/or text, "Hi stranger!" He will respond ASAP, but then nada (zilch!). I feel as if I'm "bothering him" and/or he's not that into me.... 😢

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by sagittariusxo
oh my goodness, I love Taurus.

Mine is: is sincere, in fact he uses the word "Sincerely" a lot in conversation when he is expressing himself. "I'm sincerely falling for you, I'm sincerely sorry....."

anyways

as a non Taurus dating a Taurus man ..... with similar happening i might add

id say he is rationalizing in his head. they are very slow to process. they take their time and are very patient people. they don't jump into thing easily.

be yourself by all means, but i would say don't be too pushy.

from what i know by my aries girlfriend, when she wants something she doesn't stop until she gets it. and iv watch her completely suffocated the guy she was interested in. although she treated him amazing, he told her not ready, be casual.... she heard "make me love you"

and Taurus can be very stubborn so if you try to force something they will not budge and then all might be lost for your guys.



sorry if this was too much

also sorry to any Taurus that disagree im going by personal experiences.

good luck xo

Uh, question, if you say they don't jump too quickly, then can you answer me WHY when he divorced from his FIRST wife after 20 years in December last year (they have a 16 yr old), he MARRIED his high school sweetheart he bumped into on FB (she was a Lesbian; had four different kids from four different fathers; while his friends and family told him NOT to marry her) he married her in April this year, and got his divorce papers filed (quick; online) and yeah, isn't officially divorced yet; did he fall so quickly?? 😕

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

I mean im no Taurus but

my Taurus was with his ex for 10 years and ended it with her and met me 3 months later. it took 5 months after that until I asked if he would be my boyfriend.

but in the 3 months we did a lot of things that allowed him to get to know me and vice versa

no conversations of commitment ever happened.

we took 3 months to get to know each other until i asked him to exclusively continue to get to know me.

he even made the comment that he hasn't been single for that long but agreed and we are happy

i would say he divorced his last because he couldn't make it work, im sure he tried.

and 20 years of comfortably having a partner might make him quick to fall into another

but that doesn't me he hasn't thought about if he wants to jump in or not.

Gotcha! Thanks....uh, you have BALLS to ask him to be your bf. I text good morning and/or text, "Hi stranger!" He will respond ASAP, but then nada (zilch!). I feel as if I'm "bothering him" and/or he's not that into me.... 😢

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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this is true.

for me....when he finally had my attention i would text him hi, hey you or even good morning pretty much everyday. and i would text conversation by asking questions or sending music. and when the conversation got boring, i would send him "would you rather's" (google it, they are pretty funny)

i wouldn't text him everyday tho, obviously i had to know he was also interested in conversing so after 4 good morning texts, i would silence the 5 and wait and see if he would text me.... and he would.

and yes i also noticed that his replays would take 2 hours, 3 hours, sometime to the end of day.... but he would always eventually reply back. and i never sent him multi texts without a reply.

i soon learned that when he is focused on other things his cell phone isn't really on his mind. he is very simple and slow processing.



but don't lie to yourself babe,

if he is not responding and your constantly sending, and sending and sending and not really get much conversation or even reply then that is what it is...... a sure sign he's not interested.

but if he eventually replays then keep it going 🙂

Posted by jeane
I vote sincere

he's sincere

Is it advisable that I intentionally lay low for a bit, to allow this to breathe? Let's keep it serious. I'm an Aries with a Leo rising. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I'm anything but subtle, but I am on board for going about this in the same way he wants. I'm quite accomodating haha

Posted by Cameron0417
Is it advisable that I intentionally lay low for a bit, to allow this to breathe? Let's keep it serious. I'm an Aries with a Leo rising. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I'm anything but subtle, but I am on board for going about this in the same way he wants. I'm quite accomodating haha

Just be friends. Contact him with the same frequency as you would your other friends. He likes you for how you have been so far (well before the other night), now is not the time to change that.

Let things evolve organically and see where it takes you

Posted by Cameron0417
Is it advisable that I intentionally lay low for a bit, to allow this to breathe? Let's keep it serious. I'm an Aries with a Leo rising. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I'm anything but subtle, but I am on board for going about this in the same way he wants. I'm quite accomodating haha

yes I agree - make sure you stay busy with your own interests and don't smother - just let it breathe and he will come to you if that is what he wants

Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by sagittariusxo
oh my goodness, I love Taurus.

Mine is: is sincere, in fact he uses the word "Sincerely" a lot in conversation when he is expressing himself. "I'm sincerely falling for you, I'm sincerely sorry....."

anyways

as a non Taurus dating a Taurus man ..... with similar happening i might add

id say he is rationalizing in his head. they are very slow to process. they take their time and are very patient people. they don't jump into thing easily.

be yourself by all means, but i would say don't be too pushy.

from what i know by my aries girlfriend, when she wants something she doesn't stop until she gets it. and iv watch her completely suffocated the guy she was interested in. although she treated him amazing, he told her not ready, be casual.... she heard "make me love you"

and Taurus can be very stubborn so if you try to force something they will not budge and then all might be lost for your guys.



sorry if this was too much

also sorry to any Taurus that disagree im going by personal experiences.

good luck xo

Uh, question, if you say they don't jump too quickly, then can you answer me WHY when he divorced from his FIRST wife after 20 years in December last year (they have a 16 yr old), he MARRIED his high school sweetheart he bumped into on FB (she was a Lesbian; had four different kids from four different fathers; while his friends and family told him NOT to marry her) he married her in April this year, and got his divorce papers filed (quick; online) and yeah, isn't officially divorced yet; did he fall so quickly?? 😕

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

I mean im no Taurus but

my Taurus was with his ex for 10 years and ended it with her and met me 3 months later. it took 5 months after that until I asked if he would be my boyfriend.

but in the 3 months we did a lot of things that allowed him to get to know me and vice versa

no conversations of commitment ever happened.

we took 3 months to get to know each other until i asked him to exclusively continue to get to know me.

he even made the comment that he hasn't been single for that long but agreed and we are happy

i would say he divorced his last because he couldn't make it work, im sure he tried.

and 20 years of comfortably having a partner might make him quick to fall into another

but that doesn't me he hasn't thought about if he wants to jump in or not.

Gotcha! Thanks....uh, you have BALLS to ask him to be your bf. I text good morning and/or text, "Hi stranger!" He will respond ASAP, but then nada (zilch!). I feel as if I'm "bothering him" and/or he's not that into me.... 😢

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

this is true.

for me....when he finally had my attention i would text him hi, hey you or even good morning pretty much everyday. and i would text conversation by asking questions or sending music. and when the conversation got boring, i would send him "would you rather's" (google it, they are pretty funny)

i wouldn't text him everyday tho, obviously i had to know he was also interested in conversing so after 4 good morning texts, i would silence the 5 and wait and see if he would text me.... and he would.

and yes i also noticed that his replays would take 2 hours, 3 hours, sometime to the end of day.... but he would always eventually reply back. and i never sent him multi texts without a reply.

i soon learned that when he is focused on other things his cell phone isn't really on his mind. he is very simple and slow processing.



but don't lie to yourself babe,

if he is not responding and your constantly sending, and sending and sending and not really get much conversation or even reply then that is what it is...... a sure sign he's not interested.

but if he eventually replays then keep it going 🙂

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Thanks Doll. We were texting like crazy last night. Why? He sends me Btmoji (images) and they are cool! I told him I liked the images and he said, "Make it". I asked for the program name and sent me Btmoji....so smart (computer literate) that I am I sent him back my image (girl w/jet black straight hair, make up, red lips, etc). THAT caught HIS attention! (LOL!). This morning at 5:07 am he sent a Btmoji of "God morning". I had mine ready to reply back. Taurus men!! LOL You have to SHAKE that tree to allow "apples" to drop!

🤗 🤗 double cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by Cameron0417
Hey everyone!

I recently met a Taurus male. Before I go any further, I should mention that this individual is someone that I have been admiring from afar for five months. I would see him out and about all the time, and I was drawn to him immediately and wanted to know his story.

Astro basics: We both share the same Venus (pisces) and Mars (aquarius) placements. I'm an Aries sun, however, with a Capricorn Moon and he with an Aquarius moon.

Anyway, I finally bit the bullet and approached him. The connection seemed pretty instant. It felt like we knew each other already, so naturally I was excited by this.

In cyber land, he engages in conversation with me, but when I elude to getting together, he doesn't respond, however when I mention "oh, I'll be out this weekend. Hope to run into you", and he will respond with "I hope so too!" Why not just make a plan instead of "hoping" to see me?

This past weekend, we ran into each other at the bar and began connecting. Admitedly, we both ended up having one too many drinks, and we both became a bit aggressive on each other- him being more physical and I was more verbal (IE: I'm interested in you)

The next day, I felt the need to apologize for being so forward and his responce was (verbatim)

"I think for now, I want to keep things on a platonic level and build a friendship before anything else. I can already see the references you and I share are very similar, and I see a special bond developing there, but I did get a slight sense of forwardness last night which I wasn't quite ready for. I think for now, we should keep it on a friend level and not ruin what I think could be pretty stellar."

^ Does this sound like a diplomatic way of brushing me off, or does this sound sincere?

I admit that I absolutely allowed my excitement to actually be communicating get the better of me. I'm somewhat embarassed.

I say he sounds sincere, and he's in the feeling it out process. Like other posters, don't get too caught up with him and try to do your own thing in the mean time. He will approach you if he's interested, but there's a possibility he may never do so.

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by sagittariusxo

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by sagittariusxo
oh my goodness, I love Taurus.

Mine is: is sincere, in fact he uses the word "Sincerely" a lot in conversation when he is expressing himself. "I'm sincerely falling for you, I'm sincerely sorry....."

anyways

as a non Taurus dating a Taurus man ..... with similar happening i might add

id say he is rationalizing in his head. they are very slow to process. they take their time and are very patient people. they don't jump into thing easily.

be yourself by all means, but i would say don't be too pushy.

from what i know by my aries girlfriend, when she wants something she doesn't stop until she gets it. and iv watch her completely suffocated the guy she was interested in. although she treated him amazing, he told her not ready, be casual.... she heard "make me love you"

and Taurus can be very stubborn so if you try to force something they will not budge and then all might be lost for your guys.



sorry if this was too much

also sorry to any Taurus that disagree im going by personal experiences.

good luck xo

Uh, question, if you say they don't jump too quickly, then can you answer me WHY when he divorced from his FIRST wife after 20 years in December last year (they have a 16 yr old), he MARRIED his high school sweetheart he bumped into on FB (she was a Lesbian; had four different kids from four different fathers; while his friends and family told him NOT to marry her) he married her in April this year, and got his divorce papers filed (quick; online) and yeah, isn't officially divorced yet; did he fall so quickly?? 😕

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

I mean im no Taurus but

my Taurus was with his ex for 10 years and ended it with her and met me 3 months later. it took 5 months after that until I asked if he would be my boyfriend.

but in the 3 months we did a lot of things that allowed him to get to know me and vice versa

no conversations of commitment ever happened.

we took 3 months to get to know each other until i asked him to exclusively continue to get to know me.

he even made the comment that he hasn't been single for that long but agreed and we are happy

i would say he divorced his last because he couldn't make it work, im sure he tried.

and 20 years of comfortably having a partner might make him quick to fall into another

but that doesn't me he hasn't thought about if he wants to jump in or not.

Gotcha! Thanks....uh, you have BALLS to ask him to be your bf. I text good morning and/or text, "Hi stranger!" He will respond ASAP, but then nada (zilch!). I feel as if I'm "bothering him" and/or he's not that into me.... 😢

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

this is true.

for me....when he finally had my attention i would text him hi, hey you or even good morning pretty much everyday. and i would text conversation by asking questions or sending music. and when the conversation got boring, i would send him "would you rather's" (google it, they are pretty funny)

i wouldn't text him everyday tho, obviously i had to know he was also interested in conversing so after 4 good morning texts, i would silence the 5 and wait and see if he would text me.... and he would.

and yes i also noticed that his replays would take 2 hours, 3 hours, sometime to the end of day.... but he would always eventually reply back. and i never sent him multi texts without a reply.

i soon learned that when he is focused on other things his cell phone isn't really on his mind. he is very simple and slow processing.



but don't lie to yourself babe,

if he is not responding and your constantly sending, and sending and sending and not really get much conversation or even reply then that is what it is...... a sure sign he's not interested.

but if he eventually replays then keep it going 🙂

Thanks Doll. We were texting like crazy last night. Why? He sends me Btmoji (images) and they are cool! I told him I liked the images and he said, "Make it". I asked for the program name and sent me Btmoji....so smart (computer literate) that I am I sent him back my image (girl w/jet black straight hair, make up, red lips, etc). THAT caught HIS attention! (LOL!). This morning at 5:07 am he sent a Btmoji of "God morning". I had mine ready to reply back. Taurus men!! LOL You have to SHAKE that tree to allow "apples" to drop!

🤗 🤗 double cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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i love bitmojis.

🙂

Posted by Cameron0417
Hey everyone!

I recently met a Taurus male. Before I go any further, I should mention that this individual is someone that I have been admiring from afar for five months. I would see him out and about all the time, and I was drawn to him immediately and wanted to know his story.

Astro basics: We both share the same Venus (pisces) and Mars (aquarius) placements. I'm an Aries sun, however, with a Capricorn Moon and he with an Aquarius moon.

Anyway, I finally bit the bullet and approached him. The connection seemed pretty instant. It felt like we knew each other already, so naturally I was excited by this.

In cyber land, he engages in conversation with me, but when I elude to getting together, he doesn't respond, however when I mention "oh, I'll be out this weekend. Hope to run into you", and he will respond with "I hope so too!" Why not just make a plan instead of "hoping" to see me?

This past weekend, we ran into each other at the bar and began connecting. Admitedly, we both ended up having one too many drinks, and we both became a bit aggressive on each other- him being more physical and I was more verbal (IE: I'm interested in you)

The next day, I felt the need to apologize for being so forward and his responce was (verbatim)

"I think for now, I want to keep things on a platonic level and build a friendship before anything else. I can already see the references you and I share are very similar, and I see a special bond developing there, but I did get a slight sense of forwardness last night which I wasn't quite ready for. I think for now, we should keep it on a friend level and not ruin what I think could be pretty stellar."

^ Does this sound like a diplomatic way of brushing me off, or does this sound sincere?

I admit that I absolutely allowed my excitement to actually be communicating get the better of me. I'm somewhat embarassed.

Sooo any update?

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Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by sagittariusxo
oh my goodness, I love Taurus.

Mine is: is sincere, in fact he uses the word "Sincerely" a lot in conversation when he is expressing himself. "I'm sincerely falling for you, I'm sincerely sorry....."

anyways

as a non Taurus dating a Taurus man ..... with similar happening i might add

id say he is rationalizing in his head. they are very slow to process. they take their time and are very patient people. they don't jump into thing easily.

be yourself by all means, but i would say don't be too pushy.

from what i know by my aries girlfriend, when she wants something she doesn't stop until she gets it. and iv watch her completely suffocated the guy she was interested in. although she treated him amazing, he told her not ready, be casual.... she heard "make me love you"

and Taurus can be very stubborn so if you try to force something they will not budge and then all might be lost for your guys.



sorry if this was too much

also sorry to any Taurus that disagree im going by personal experiences.

good luck xo

Uh, question, if you say they don't jump too quickly, then can you answer me WHY when he divorced from his FIRST wife after 20 years in December last year (they have a 16 yr old), he MARRIED his high school sweetheart he bumped into on FB (she was a Lesbian; had four different kids from four different fathers; while his friends and family told him NOT to marry her) he married her in April this year, and got his divorce papers filed (quick; online) and yeah, isn't officially divorced yet; did he fall so quickly?? 😕

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

I mean im no Taurus but

my Taurus was with his ex for 10 years and ended it with her and met me 3 months later. it took 5 months after that until I asked if he would be my boyfriend.

but in the 3 months we did a lot of things that allowed him to get to know me and vice versa

no conversations of commitment ever happened.

we took 3 months to get to know each other until i asked him to exclusively continue to get to know me.

he even made the comment that he hasn't been single for that long but agreed and we are happy

i would say he divorced his last because he couldn't make it work, im sure he tried.

and 20 years of comfortably having a partner might make him quick to fall into another

but that doesn't me he hasn't thought about if he wants to jump in or not.

Gotcha! Thanks....uh, you have BALLS to ask him to be your bf. I text good morning and/or text, "Hi stranger!" He will respond ASAP, but then nada (zilch!). I feel as if I'm "bothering him" and/or he's not that into me.... 😢

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

this is true.

for me....when he finally had my attention i would text him hi, hey you or even good morning pretty much everyday. and i would text conversation by asking questions or sending music. and when the conversation got boring, i would send him "would you rather's" (google it, they are pretty funny)

i wouldn't text him everyday tho, obviously i had to know he was also interested in conversing so after 4 good morning texts, i would silence the 5 and wait and see if he would text me.... and he would.

and yes i also noticed that his replays would take 2 hours, 3 hours, sometime to the end of day.... but he would always eventually reply back. and i never sent him multi texts without a reply.

i soon learned that when he is focused on other things his cell phone isn't really on his mind. he is very simple and slow processing.



but don't lie to yourself babe,

if he is not responding and your constantly sending, and sending and sending and not really get much conversation or even reply then that is what it is...... a sure sign he's not interested.

but if he eventually replays then keep it going 🙂

Thanks Doll. We were texting like crazy last night. Why? He sends me Btmoji (images) and they are cool! I told him I liked the images and he said, "Make it". I asked for the program name and sent me Btmoji....so smart (computer literate) that I am I sent him back my image (girl w/jet black straight hair, make up, red lips, etc). THAT caught HIS attention! (LOL!). This morning at 5:07 am he sent a Btmoji of "God morning". I had mine ready to reply back. Taurus men!! LOL You have to SHAKE that tree to allow "apples" to drop!

🤗 🤗 double cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

i love bitmojis.

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Me too!!!! And I have TONS to choose from 😉

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

I didn't plan on talking to him yesterday until I was scrolling through Facebook and I saw his status update. It suggested that he was having a bad day. I texted him and asked if he was okay since I saw his post. He said he was in feeling "blah". I said "okay. just checkin on 'ya" and left it at that.

I asked him today how his day was. Haven't heard anything.

I don't normanlly ever read into delayed responces (or none at all) but of course I'm second guessing everything ever since this weekend. It took me five months to get the courage to say hello to him, and I will be upset with myself I messed up a potentially good friendship already haha.

I read on another Taurus forum that sometimes they don't answer at all as a "test" to see if you are serious enough about them to chase and be persistent. Truth?

Posted by Cameron0417
I didn't plan on talking to him yesterday until I was scrolling through Facebook and I saw his status update. It suggested that he was having a bad day. I texted him and asked if he was okay since I saw his post. He said he was in feeling "blah". I said "okay. just checkin on 'ya" and left it at that.

I asked him today how his day was. Haven't heard anything.

I don't normanlly ever read into delayed responces (or none at all) but of course I'm second guessing everything ever since this weekend. It took me five months to get the courage to say hello to him, and I will be upset with myself I messed up a potentially good friendship already haha.

I read on another Taurus forum that sometimes they don't answer at all as a "test" to see if you are serious enough about them to chase and be persistent. Truth?

Don't overthink a slow or non response. If the world is weighing them down, they can go into their corner for a bit until they feel ready to be part of things again.

Just be patient. Wait it out.

He is already being cautious with you. Don't play into his cautious nature by giving him reason to think that you are too aggressive for him.

Be your regular confident self.