Space

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by emeralddream on Thursday, December 22, 2011 and has 1 replies.

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@emeralddream
14 Years

How are you Taurus with space?

Example: Your fellow earth sign Virgos need their space quite often. They go to a little secluded place and do the Virgonian stuff. Whatever that may be. And there is a huge sign " DO NOT DISTURB"

Are Taurus programmed similarly, or is it acceptable to tread lightly and knock on the door?

Since I am a Cancer I love my space but I also do not mind someone coming in and dragging me out of it.(this may be just me as a Cancer and others may be different)

Reason that I ask, not that it matters, but for the sake of people not reading something into what is not there. I do not like to overstep boundaries, and get into business that is not mine. I tend to give people space, unless I know it is good to drag them out and talk to them. See how they are doing, etc. (they being friends) And as many Tauruses as I know I never have come to a conclusion about such space. It is really kind of humorous imo...

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@transcendentbull
14 Years

I love my space, I hole myself up to recharge. I would never get angry with someone, or resent them, for dragging me out of my room but I do find that if I am not completely in the mood to talk, or go out/do anything social, then I tend to put on an act to make people happy. So I may act like I am fully okay and interested in the conversation but in my head I am thinking about other things/being back in my cozy bed reading a book. That sounds extremely terrible, considering I am the type of person who listens and converses with people when they need me, but there are certain occasions when I truly just want to be left alone.

Some people hole themselves up hoping to be lured out, it isn't crossing a boundary. I don't do that. I don't like to talk about my problems, I am usually a listener. I like to nurture the people around me, but when I need nurturing I like to help myself. Therefore when I lock myself away I truly just want to be alone. Don't bug me!