Stubborn bull

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Honeybunniie on Wednesday, April 8, 2015 and has 4 replies.

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@Honeybunniie
12 Years

I hate to be called stubborn but I cant help it. Ppl bring it out. If they know I am that way then why provoke that part of my nature? For ex; my crazy ex who happens to be a Virgo, he calls me today and whines about why am I treating horribly and I WILL NEED him in the future. So of course I have to prove to him that I will never need his help or presence ever again. But just to add a back story to this, he has cheat on me with numerous girls for 7.5 years of our almost 9 yr relationship. I finally decided to release myself from this hell now he trying to manipulate me into feeling guilty for my decision. This post is pointless but I thought Itll be a lil amusing... Plus I can't sleep. 😢

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@mangomania
11 Years

I don't think the post is pointless. I just think your venting about how u feel.stand your ground.Of course he is gonna place blame on you because your not caving.

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@AgentP911
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Virgos like to be needed especially venus Virgo. He's probably trying to convince himself you'll need him to make himself feel better. He sounds like a twat. Better off without. Stubborn in this case is helpful to you. Ice him out. Seriously, he'll wonder what's going on. Best revenge is to ignore and cut off. As others have said, he's not offering anything but shit and his shit stinks so you wouldn't want it anyway!

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@taupixie
12 Years

How is it you are stubborn if he was the 1 who treated you bad back then but could not see why you're not being nice to him now?

I never get when others simply call me stubborn when in fact they are the 1 stubbornly not willing to see from my perspective.. A lot of times it is the pot calling the kettle black.

So don't feel guilty.. Your reaction towards him is reasonable & justified