Sun and Moon Contradictions

I posted this on DXPNET (Under Moon Signs)

Do you often struggle with the contradiction of your Sun Sign & Moon Signs?

All signs are more than welcome to post.

I am a Taurus Sun/Gemini Moon.

This is quite a challenging dual pair. Attempting to maintain a 'fixed' relationship for longevity when your emotions are at a constant fleeting state can be quite testing...especially when you lack the 'conventional' ability for empathy because you're faced with an overwhelming number of distractions. My method of communication? Take a huge dilemma, synthesize, decipher, simplify it, and then communicate. Now I'm able to fix it! For highly emotional charged signs, this can be seen as apathy...when in fact, this is how I express a genuine interest in someone. I can't take care of you if I don't fix it, I can't be there for you if I don't fix it, I can't nurture you or see a solution to your problem if you're not communicating directly. I don't read minds. This creates discrepancies....and eventually for a Gemini Moon, an emotional disconnect....there are other male fishes to fry.

What keeps me emotionally connected? An individual who has a strong sense of self-identity, a certain level of independence, something that is not contingent according to how I'm making them feel at the moment. Someone who owns their 'own' emotions....can process it, and therefore communicate it. Over a period of time, My Taurus traits kick in, open communication may no longer be required. A routine is in order. I'm able to sense when they're unhappy without asking, sense when they need me without asking, and so forth.

But during the initial stages, you will need a magic wand to hold my interest. Good Luck with that one. Not being an @sshole, just keeping it honest!