Taureans: 3 Questions for you and HELP!!!!!!!

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by aftershine on Friday, December 13, 2013 and has 9 replies.

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@aftershine
12 Years

1)The longest period of time you loved someone (romantically)?

2)What makes you stop loving someone? (romantically)

3)How would you (a taurean) feel if you fell for someone (person A)and chase them but your object of affection is indifferent towards you then you date someone else (person B) but the relationship (it was only attraction) ends in 3 months then you realize your feelings for person A never left and you regret ever dating? :/ this happened to my brother (taurus) and he is sulking in his room...idk what to do 😢 the person A in the story is my BFF. So can you give me some insight on what he might be feeling?

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@FivebyFive
12 Years

1)The longest period of time you loved someone (romantically)?

When I love I love deep and hard, and it never stops. It may change (as in we break up) but I never stop. My longest relationship was for three years, and I still love him even though he treated me like shit.

2)What makes you stop loving someone? (romantically)

It takes a lot...I hate giving up, and for some odd reason if something comes to easy I think it's not right. However if I'm with you and I see that it's not going anywhere then I have no choice but to leave.

I'm not a cheater! I loath them! I rather have you hate me for being honest today, then hate me forever by lying and tipping out on you.

3)How would you (a taurean) feel if you fell for someone (person A)and chase them but your object of affection is indifferent towards you then you date someone else (person B) but the relationship (it was only attraction) ends in 3 months then you realize your feelings for person A never left and you regret ever dating? :/ this happened to my brother (taurus) and he is sulking in his room...idk what to do the person A in the story is my BFF. So can you give me some insight on what he might be feeling?

Um...give your brother time. We taurus are very prideful and give are all in relationships. I don't know about your brother but I refuse to "date" people for the sake of not being alone. His pride is hurt, and he just needs time and closure. Remember us bulls hate giving up, so it's easier for us to get over it if we understand why it happened.

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@aftershine
12 Years

My bro has liked her (person A/my BFF) since 2010......and my brother has venus gemini and moon libra with sun taurus. He kind of opened up to me he says he wants to move on BUT he likes how she makes him feel and she is all he wants, he feels torn :/

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@FivebyFive
12 Years

He needs to stay away from her. He's still in that persistent bull mode, it's going to take him some time to get out of that mode.

Might help if you talk to him. Be firm & direct. Let him know that he's wasting away on her and she's not worth it.

For me it's easier to get over someone who's wronged me.

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@Taurusgirl3
13 Years

He will be fine. He will sit and stew on his feelings for her because he enjoys those feelings. He may always have a crush on her. We like to fantasize, daydream, and create senerios of our love interests and how great and perfect our lives would be together. He will snap out of it in his own time and when he's ready to move on.

I really done think anything you say or do will make any difference or cause his feelings for her to change.

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@TaurusBull1977
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Posted by aftershine

1)The longest period of time you loved someone (romantically)?

6 years.

Posted by aftershine
2)What makes you stop loving someone? (romantically)

1. Infidelity
2. Felt unappreciated/exploited/non reciprocation
3. Jekyl and Hyde/Fraud/Misrepresentation
4. Lack of affection

Posted by aftershine
3)How would you (a taurean) feel if you fell for someone (person A)and chase them but your object of affection is indifferent towards you then you date someone else (person B) but the relationship (it was only attraction) ends in 3 months then you realize your feelings for person A never left and you regret ever dating?
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I'm not the chasing type, but if I did chase an individual and they showed me indifference, then I would take it as a sign of rejection. Three months of dating based only on attraction would be dating for me. It would not constitute a relationship. If it ended, then it just ended. If the initial feelings were still there for the person I chased. I still wouldn't pursue it. But I would keep communication lines open. However, this individual would have to pursue me. I have PRIDE issues.

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@Vainth
12 Years

3) He prob has some sort of ascendent overpowering, cause Taurus' would be like (Okay, why invest in someone who doesn't love u back, waste of time!!) as fivebyfive said, if he knows why, it'll be way easier.

is he a young bull? as bulls get older, we are able to control our feelings better. we are a zodiac sign of investing.