Taurus as friends....can't do it anymore

I guess, as a sag, this is expected. And I'm sure there's many wonderful Taurus people out there, guys and girls, including all you guys. But every single one I've run into in my life has been nothing but hell, culminating in tonight where I've realized that they've all been a tremendous waste of time. I had a friend that couldn't decide if she was attracted or not, would lead on for a while but then disappear. Well I was done with that for a while. But she's a cheater, so it's a good thing that never worked out. Then there was another Taurus girl, and over the last couple years we've had an on-again, off-again relationship. When it was good, it was great. When it was bad, it was world war 3. Currently not talking, mostly because she doesn't want to risk cheating on her Taurus BF with me. He's also pretty selfish, and an ass. Finally, one of my current housemates. The guy is funny, sometimes, but he is a class-A asshole. He has no filter, says extremely embarrassing things about others (close friends included) in public, is lazy, irresponsible, and is a loose canon. And that's when sober. When drunk, he smacked his girlfriend around emotionally, mentally, and even physically once. He picks fights, mostly physical. And tonight, he decided to punch a hole through my door, then when I got upset about it decided to attack me physically. As a sag, I can let that stuff brush off on a case-by-case basis. But this is a common occurrence with him, and no one wants to do anything about it. Two of my housemates are Sags too, but they tend to be very introverted and passive, as Sags can be. We're either Type A or B, but extremes either way. I'm definitely Type A, as is this Taurus guy. And it doesn't work well. We can have great conversations about some things, but I cannot stand to be around him for more than an hour, because he invariably starts a fight over nothing, tries to embarrass someone else in the room (or myself), and becomes loud and a bore. It's quite annoying. I feel he has a hard time communicating emotions effectively, and seems to be very emotionally immature. But so do all Taurus people I've met so far. Is this more common? And before you jump to conclusions...my mother is a Taurus. And she displays many of the same traits. It's crazy. I can almost pick a Taurus girl out in a crowd, but I have only met a couple Taurus guys. Others are similar to my housemate. Is this something I have to just deal with?

I don't either! And everything you're saying seems to match up with what I've read. But I must be unlucky haha. It might be that they do...although all of them have a reputation for being this way prior to my knowing them, so that's what surprises me. It is actually crazy that everyone I know is like this. They have all been short-tempered, vulgar, and somewhat loud. Which is fine, as it's entertaining for a while. Until it tuns on me, or embarrasses me. Then, as these have all but one been closer friends (or family members), I try to reason with them and pull them in line. This is when they lose it. I am usually comfortable around them, in fact it seems that I find myself rather drawn to earth signs, which as a Sag is strange. But my housemate is most definitely the extreme example to date. I have actually grown less comfortable around him as time goes on, because he has shown more and more of this "wild side" to me, and it's not really entertaining anymore.