Blimey. Lack of punctuation made my brain hurt reading that.
Anyway...
I don't think he loves you, more that he feels exactly as he says - you are his property. Not taking care of you if he is hurting you when you're having sex is just mean in my opinion, and not very "loving" at all.
This sounds like a very strange "relationship". Stay with him if you wish, but you're being treated like a doormat.
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Anyway...
I don't think he loves you, more that he feels exactly as he says - you are his property. Not taking care of you if he is hurting you when you're having sex is just mean in my opinion, and not very "loving" at all.
This sounds like a very strange "relationship". Stay with him if you wish, but you're being treated like a doormat.