TheCharmer8
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Taurus ex acting distant??
another thing.... when we hangout, I feel like shes giving or saying things that make it seem like theres still something there.. like sometimes she'll say something that'll involve us hanging out again but it has to do with the puppy i bought for us when we were in a relationship... idk just feels like shes sending some message..
Uggg, good luck, once we Taurus women have had enough, we ate done
I've had my moments with my current libra bf, he drives me freaking crazy, with his whites lies and people pleasing charm
But I still love him, but uggg libras are crazy, but when he drives me to my last straw it's over, I broke up with him once, then gave him another chance
So far so good, but he drives me nuts
I've had my moments with my current libra bf, he drives me freaking crazy, with his whites lies and people pleasing charm
But I still love him, but uggg libras are crazy, but when he drives me to my last straw it's over, I broke up with him once, then gave him another chance
So far so good, but he drives me nuts
if you don't mind me asking, what did he do or why did you give him a second chance— since hes a libra man like me..
For me it was the white lies that pushed me, by him not just telling me straight about what he wanted, I hate a confused man, and me being puton a string is not an option, so I left, cut all contact, but he kept pushing and pushing for my affections, he started actually doing what he says, by proving hisself, he good at words but not so much with action, so he started getting good with his actions, but I won't ale anymore white lies just cause you can't handle confrontation
I have never dated a Libra...but I heard about their aloofness & indecisiveness. A man like that would drive me up the wall!
The only way you would ever know what went wrong in your relationship would be to ASK HER and communicate with her!
Hold off on the Libra charm when you're doing so, she may see this as BS!
Be honest and real when you communicate with her. Hold nothing back!
The only way you would ever know what went wrong in your relationship would be to ASK HER and communicate with her!
Hold off on the Libra charm when you're doing so, she may see this as BS!
Be honest and real when you communicate with her. Hold nothing back!
Frankly, I have felt that (Taurus guy) if I/she ends a relationship there is little chance of going back. We resent our feelings for some time, we heal and then move on. Why go back or be pestered with something that you have already seen the outcome of?
I dated a Libra once, and it was great, and then suddenly nothing. Also heard all the stories and all the lies and couldn't get a minutes worth of valuable time out of her. So we broke up, initially I was really shocked and it hurt like hell, and did for awhile. Later one we met up and while sitting in the coffee shop I knew, I am so over her it ain't even funny. She tried coming back, but I locked down. Fool me once...
I don't know if Taurus girls are the same, but we are practical. If you don't walk to the right beat, you annoy us and if you persist you are asking for a trampling. If you insist on being the matador then you get what you give, else I think we are really calm and collected. Well, at least I am...
I dated a Libra once, and it was great, and then suddenly nothing. Also heard all the stories and all the lies and couldn't get a minutes worth of valuable time out of her. So we broke up, initially I was really shocked and it hurt like hell, and did for awhile. Later one we met up and while sitting in the coffee shop I knew, I am so over her it ain't even funny. She tried coming back, but I locked down. Fool me once...
I don't know if Taurus girls are the same, but we are practical. If you don't walk to the right beat, you annoy us and if you persist you are asking for a trampling. If you insist on being the matador then you get what you give, else I think we are really calm and collected. Well, at least I am...
I have been working on actually doing what i sat instead of just saying i'll do it...
i just hate how she just ignores me like after everything we've been through. she hates talking about emotions so whenever i bring stuff up like that, she seems irritated.
Whenever we do hangout, i don't wanna ruin the vibe by bringing "us" up. I don't expect to get back with her right away. I just want her to at least give me a chance by still wanting to be involved in my life some how so i can prove to her i've changed andi actually follow through with my actions
i just hate how she just ignores me like after everything we've been through. she hates talking about emotions so whenever i bring stuff up like that, she seems irritated.
Whenever we do hangout, i don't wanna ruin the vibe by bringing "us" up. I don't expect to get back with her right away. I just want her to at least give me a chance by still wanting to be involved in my life some how so i can prove to her i've changed andi actually follow through with my actions
Posted by TaurusNikki
For me it was the white lies that pushed me, by him not just telling me straight about what he wanted, I hate a confused man, and me being puton a string is not an option, so I left, cut all contact, but he kept pushing and pushing for my affections, he started actually doing what he says, by proving hisself, he good at words but not so much with action, so he started getting good with his actions, but I won't ale anymore white lies just cause you can't handle confrontation
how long did it take you to trust him again/ or see he's actually trying?
Posted by TheCharmer8Posted by TaurusNikki
For me it was the white lies that pushed me, by him not just telling me straight about what he wanted, I hate a confused man, and me being puton a string is not an option, so I left, cut all contact, but he kept pushing and pushing for my affections, he started actually doing what he says, by proving hisself, he good at words but not so much with action, so he started getting good with his actions, but I won't ale anymore white lies just cause you can't handle confrontation
how long did it take you to trust him again/ or see he's actually trying?click to expand
He still trying, but it took me a few months to actually care to see if it was all talk plus the action that goes with it
Ill hang in there for a while but if i endthe relationships you can be sure that ive been contemplating it for a long time. The way back into my heart is time (usually 1 yr or more), space and positive action (i.e. respecting my space and not pressuring me, civility, change in personality flaws).
Im difficult but if you love me you'll put up with me. Im so worth it.
Im difficult but if you love me you'll put up with me. Im so worth it.
Thats a big reason why she left... I made little white lies but never pulled the trigger... I'm doing better at it now. just hope she realizes it..
Posted by TheCharmer8
Thats a big reason why she left... I made little white lies but never pulled the trigger... I'm doing better at it now. just hope she realizes it..
Trust me, those white lies add up big time
We bulls can only take but so much, we give chance after chance to cover our on guilt, that way we bulls can say at least we try'd to save the relationship, but once we can't take it anymore, ur screwed
I rather my libra tell me straight than keep telling me what I want to hear, then here comes the white lies again, nope, we bulls can only take care of so much, because we want to trust u, but if we can't bring ourselves to trust u, we are gone
Posted by TaurusNikkiPosted by TheCharmer8
Thats a big reason why she left... I made little white lies but never pulled the trigger... I'm doing better at it now. just hope she realizes it..
Trust me, those white lies add up big time
We bulls can only take but so much, we give chance after chance to cover our on guilt, that way we bulls can say at least we try'd to save the relationship, but once we can't take it anymore, ur screwed
I rather my libra tell me straight than keep telling me what I want to hear, then here comes the white lies again, nope, we bulls can only take care of so much, because we want to trust u, but if we can't bring ourselves to trust u, we are goneclick to expand
is it possible to bring that trust back— i mean, as long as i stay true to my word and follow through with my actions
Posted by TheCharmer8Posted by TaurusNikkiPosted by TheCharmer8
Thats a big reason why she left... I made little white lies but never pulled the trigger... I'm doing better at it now. just hope she realizes it..
Trust me, those white lies add up big time
We bulls can only take but so much, we give chance after chance to cover our on guilt, that way we bulls can say at least we try'd to save the relationship, but once we can't take it anymore, ur screwed
I rather my libra tell me straight than keep telling me what I want to hear, then here comes the white lies again, nope, we bulls can only take care of so much, because we want to trust u, but if we can't bring ourselves to trust u, we are gone
is it possible to bring that trust back— i mean, as long as i stay true to my word and follow through with my actionsclick to expand
You in for a ride, but I have to ask, did she try everything to make it work, cause if she did, ur screwed
Honestly i'm not sure. She wasn't a communicator.. one thing she said is that she still has feelings for me but they're not as strong as they once were... i don't help the cause either since i always text her every 5 days or so and never give her chance to miss me or let her cool down with whatever the reason she doesn't text me for... She still has the feelings, i know she does based on the things she does while we hangout sometimes. they're just not as strong anymore... i guess i should just leave her alone... see how long it takes for her to miss me??
Good luck libra, good luck
oh white lies. I did it that to my taurus man. yes we both ended up. then he apologized via email
cuz i didn't contacted him as far as he initiate the "NC". for the first time I heard him all the sorry's and at the end of his email says like 'I wish you well and find someone so soo who can make you happy'. as a scorpio woman, I asked myself... why he emailed me? it's over!! and what's the point? just saying sorry's? and wishing all the lucks? lmao. it's like he was insecure.
i know when we were together, i don't like him that much. i kept listening who he is before i commit
because he wanted me to move in...and that's too early. lol. sounds like i am a rebound after he left
his wife before we met.
I hate the words he uses such as idiot,stupid,asshole and all those negative words...not for me but
for the other people...I know 1 day he's going to tell me that way.
Taurus are I don't know...but he is not honest...
and I find him so bitter person...when we broke up.
I like to go to his home and tell him straight in his eyes... he is nothing but arrogant.
after break up. I was never hurting him again because separating ways means make it as harmonious as
possible as it is... why hurting others over and over again. ?
Scorpio will walk away without crying and begging and pleading.. We will try to work it out during
confrontation but if said 'no'. We will just leave you and we expect not to contact us again.
Tauruses your opinion is much appreciated.
Do you have her whole chart?
I don't know if I'm the only one, but I think that she's not completely done with you. When a Taurus is done, than it's completely over. She still hangs out with you and sleeps over, that's a very good sign. Bulls are generally not in for the whole "staying friends after breakup" thing, unless Aquarius/11th house is involved. It would be good if the breakup wasn't all that heavy either. I'm guessing that no chairs were flying if you two are still seeing each other in some way.
If her Venus is in Gemini, she might vary between partners often. Not necessarily sexually, but her romantic life would need new stimulation more often than not. In this case, offering something new to the plate would be interesting. If it's Aries, she should come after you if and when she's ready. If it's in Taurus, the best thing is to leave her alone for a while, let her miss your life together, than call out of the blue after a while if you really want her back. But really, based on Sun sign alone folks can only guess randomly.
I don't know if I'm the only one, but I think that she's not completely done with you. When a Taurus is done, than it's completely over. She still hangs out with you and sleeps over, that's a very good sign. Bulls are generally not in for the whole "staying friends after breakup" thing, unless Aquarius/11th house is involved. It would be good if the breakup wasn't all that heavy either. I'm guessing that no chairs were flying if you two are still seeing each other in some way.
If her Venus is in Gemini, she might vary between partners often. Not necessarily sexually, but her romantic life would need new stimulation more often than not. In this case, offering something new to the plate would be interesting. If it's Aries, she should come after you if and when she's ready. If it's in Taurus, the best thing is to leave her alone for a while, let her miss your life together, than call out of the blue after a while if you really want her back. But really, based on Sun sign alone folks can only guess randomly.
My Venus is in Gemini, but I only want to be involved with one person at a time. Also, I would hope that should I ever be in a relationship and God forbid it end, but if it should, that it be amicable. As long as it's on good terms, I don't think I'd take issue remaining friends, though I do have great difficulty getting along with people who have rejected me.
Posted by Theatrum
Do you have her whole chart?
I don't know if I'm the only one, but I think that she's not completely done with you. When a Taurus is done, than it's completely over. She still hangs out with you and sleeps over, that's a very good sign. Bulls are generally not in for the whole "staying friends after breakup" thing, unless Aquarius/11th house is involved. It would be good if the breakup wasn't all that heavy either. I'm guessing that no chairs were flying if you two are still seeing each other in some way.
If her Venus is in Gemini, she might vary between partners often. Not necessarily sexually, but her romantic life would need new stimulation more often than not. In this case, offering something new to the plate would be interesting. If it's Aries, she should come after you if and when she's ready. If it's in Taurus, the best thing is to leave her alone for a while, let her miss your life together, than call out of the blue after a while if you really want her back. But really, based on Sun sign alone folks can only guess randomly.
honestly, i'm kinda new to the zodiac chart stuff... i know alot about the zodiacs but not the rulling planets and stuff like that... how do i find that out?
There are websites for that. Google "birth charts", pick one or three, and put in the info they ask you for if you know it.
Dear TheCharmer8...
Doing the math... I guess you are approaching 8 weeks now. I think it time to change your game... what you are doing is not working.
You lived together because of HER family problems... I will come back to that.
Let me show you some things that you might be doing wrong... I say 'might' because it is merely my speculation from what I have read.
Your breaking point to send her an sms is 5 days... THIS is not long enough... she broke with you... which says that she needs time alone... this mostly means WITHOUT YOU. She comes over... you talk together... you want her to miss you... but how can she miss you when you are always there ?
I am not sure of the circumstances of her coming over at all... perhaps you make her feel guilty in some way... perhaps it is that she feels pity for you... Taurus can be made to feel weak when it comes to another's suffering. But THIS is not what you WANT ! You want her to WANT to come to you !
YOU have been HER addiction too... but allowing her to see you so readily gives her 'the fix' that she needs. Taurus cannot quit 'cold-turkey' they find it best to ween themselves... nice and slow... which is giving HER the time SHE needs to get over you. Consequently... that leaves you in the same place you have been for almost two months.
I am sure that you will see her again... but decide now that THAT will be the last time... that you will NOT follow up with an sms saying 'thanks for coming over'... 'I have missed you'... et cetera et cetera. The NEXT time... DO NOT CRACK ! This will start the cogs rolling in her head... wondering what YOU are doing and WHY you haven't contacted her. She can wait a long time... but NO ONE can wait forever.
As for her problems with her family... those problems will return. Have you ever seen anyone trying to stop smoking by chance ? The longer they go... the more irritable they become... let here keep that irritability on her family front... without YOU being her escape.
I am sorry for all of this... it is NEVER easy. You have probably heard this before, but you need to do YOU now. YOU is all that you can do. Right now, you are trying to prove that you 'have changed'... but whenever a man changes for a woman... the changes are almost never what the woman actually wanted. IF you change... you must only change for YOU ! The man you were when you met her... THAT is the man she fell for... go back to THAT man and start from there.
I wish you well.
Doing the math... I guess you are approaching 8 weeks now. I think it time to change your game... what you are doing is not working.
You lived together because of HER family problems... I will come back to that.
Let me show you some things that you might be doing wrong... I say 'might' because it is merely my speculation from what I have read.
Your breaking point to send her an sms is 5 days... THIS is not long enough... she broke with you... which says that she needs time alone... this mostly means WITHOUT YOU. She comes over... you talk together... you want her to miss you... but how can she miss you when you are always there ?
I am not sure of the circumstances of her coming over at all... perhaps you make her feel guilty in some way... perhaps it is that she feels pity for you... Taurus can be made to feel weak when it comes to another's suffering. But THIS is not what you WANT ! You want her to WANT to come to you !
YOU have been HER addiction too... but allowing her to see you so readily gives her 'the fix' that she needs. Taurus cannot quit 'cold-turkey' they find it best to ween themselves... nice and slow... which is giving HER the time SHE needs to get over you. Consequently... that leaves you in the same place you have been for almost two months.
I am sure that you will see her again... but decide now that THAT will be the last time... that you will NOT follow up with an sms saying 'thanks for coming over'... 'I have missed you'... et cetera et cetera. The NEXT time... DO NOT CRACK ! This will start the cogs rolling in her head... wondering what YOU are doing and WHY you haven't contacted her. She can wait a long time... but NO ONE can wait forever.
As for her problems with her family... those problems will return. Have you ever seen anyone trying to stop smoking by chance ? The longer they go... the more irritable they become... let here keep that irritability on her family front... without YOU being her escape.
I am sorry for all of this... it is NEVER easy. You have probably heard this before, but you need to do YOU now. YOU is all that you can do. Right now, you are trying to prove that you 'have changed'... but whenever a man changes for a woman... the changes are almost never what the woman actually wanted. IF you change... you must only change for YOU ! The man you were when you met her... THAT is the man she fell for... go back to THAT man and start from there.
I wish you well.
Posted by David13
Dear TheCharmer8...
Doing the math... I guess you are approaching 8 weeks now. I think it time to change your game... what you are doing is not working.
You lived together because of HER family problems... I will come back to that.
Let me show you some things that you might be doing wrong... I say 'might' because it is merely my speculation from what I have read.
Your breaking point to send her an sms is 5 days... THIS is not long enough... she broke with you... which says that she needs time alone... this mostly means WITHOUT YOU. She comes over... you talk together... you want her to miss you... but how can she miss you when you are always there ?
I am not sure of the circumstances of her coming over at all... perhaps you make her feel guilty in some way... perhaps it is that she feels pity for you... Taurus can be made to feel weak when it comes to another's suffering. But THIS is not what you WANT ! You want her to WANT to come to you !
YOU have been HER addiction too... but allowing her to see you so readily gives her 'the fix' that she needs. Taurus cannot quit 'cold-turkey' they find it best to ween themselves... nice and slow... which is giving HER the time SHE needs to get over you. Consequently... that leaves you in the same place you have been for almost two months.
I am sure that you will see her again... but decide now that THAT will be the last time... that you will NOT follow up with an sms saying 'thanks for coming over'... 'I have missed you'... et cetera et cetera. The NEXT time... DO NOT CRACK ! This will start the cogs rolling in her head... wondering what YOU are doing and WHY you haven't contacted her. She can wait a long time... but NO ONE can wait forever.
As for her problems with her family... those problems will return. Have you ever seen anyone trying to stop smoking by chance ? The longer they go... the more irritable they become... let here keep that irritability on her family front... without YOU being her escape.
I am sorry for all of this... it is NEVER easy. You have probably heard this before, but you need to do YOU now. YOU is all that you can do. Right now, you are trying to prove that you 'have changed'... but whenever a man changes for a woman... the changes are almost never what the woman actually wanted. IF you change... you must only change for YOU ! The man you were when you met her... THAT is th
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