Taurus ex advice, help!!!

My ex Taurus recently broke up with me one month ago during a heated argument that we had. He expressed that he felt that I didn't care about him or put enough effort into the relationship. Recently before the argument I was very distant because I suspected he was doing things behind my back but never communicated this to him. Neither of us communicated with eachother. Immediately after the argument I told him I wanted to work things out and try again and he was distant and told me he didn't know what he wanted to do. He also cried in front of me when we spoke in person. That week after this we still texted every day and saw each other and acted like a couple but I wanted to know where I stood with him, because he would flirt with other girls on social media (which he knew upset me) and do things to get a reaction. It was difficult to get him to discuss us and what he wanted to do but he finally told me he still wanted to break up, that his feelings for me were the same and he felt I was perfect but he didn't want to be in a relationship anymore because of the effort, and that he still wanted to see me if I was willing. He got choked up again during this conversation but I told him if he wanted to break up I had to respect his decision but I was upset with him to not telling me sooner and stringing me along. After this I proceeded with no contact for one week but it got too hard and I texted him saying "I miss you". He told me he missed me too and after talking I agreed that I would still hang out with him even tho we had broken up. This time he was very distant, texting me back hours later and just very distant with me. After a couple times of us hanging out I went to his house. He held me close and we were cuddling and intimate with eachother but no sex. It seemed like things were okay but when I left I was distant and didn't hug him goodbye. He didn't text me that night or day. The next day I texted him "I miss us. This sucks and I hate it" and he replied hours later "😢" then he wished me a happy thanksgiving with hearts. We kept talking and I told him I was thankful I met him, he told me he's more thankful for me than I am for him. I told him that's not true even tho I know I wasn't good at showing it. He said "don't mind me" and that he knew I cared about him. A couple of days later he posted a picture of two movie tickets (obviously he was with a female) and I liked the picture to acknowledge I saw it and began ignoring his messages because I was upset he would see another girl and be so blatant about it knowing I would see and knowing how I was feelings. So I decided to cut all ties. It's been a week of no contact and he has not tried to contact me, on top of that he's dissapeared and stopped using all of his social media accounts (which I deleted him from) but he hasn't deleted me or deleted the pictures of us from his page.

My question is will he come back? Or has he maybe met someone else and just truly does not care about me or my

*feelings. It's been so hard to not reach out to him this past week but I know if he wanted to talk to me or if he cared he would reach out. I just don't know if he's being stubborn and he feels the same way as me or if he just really doesn't care anymore. I'm so hurt and I miss him. Any insight on the situation is greatly appreciated! Thank you!

Wooow this sounds similar to my situation that I had with a libra hahah. First off, how do you know he is seeing a movie with a girl? How long were you guys dating for pior the break up? You deleted him off social media or he deleted you?

It sucks 😢 Libras are not always good at communicating because we want to keep the peace and don't want to deal with confrontation but we do care deeply. I wish I had expressed to him how much I appreciated him but I had my guard up. We knew eachother for 3 months prior and we had only been dating one month. We clicked so much tho it was like we were best friends. We did everything together. I knew it was with a girl because I did some creeping and some girl he had been interacting with thru social media posted that she was seeing the same movie around the same time lol so I knew it wasn't a coincidence

In your situation what would you suggest the girl do? I want to try harder to show him how much he means to me but I don't want to come off desperate and I feel like I need to put my foot down! His actions have been so hurtful & I deleted him off everything but he still follows me

Wow you guys were only dating for a month and he cried in front of you... I think he likes you a lot.
Yeah, I've experienced that, when you're in the first stages of a relationship, it can be scary, people are afraid to get their hearts broken so they build up a thick exterior which translates to poor communication and/or not communicating true feelings at all, also, when things turn sour so early in a relationship it's hard to tell when to give up or fight. I think he's confused. But I know one thing for sure, he is being stubborn and refusing to contact you. It's not that he doesn't care, he's just stubborn. I did this to a libra once, I broke communication for an entire month. I felt bad about it afterwards and kind of regret it because I'm pretty sure that scarred him.

Give him maybe a couple more weeks then contact him again and tell him how you feel, but in person. Be open and vulnerable.

Posted by Libragirl445
In your situation what would you suggest the girl do? I want to try harder to show him how much he means to me but I don't want to come off desperate and I feel like I need to put my foot down! His actions have been so hurtful & I deleted him off everything but he still follows me

I feel like Tauruses can be reckless sometimes and do things out of anger or impulse. I believe I have done some hurtful things to my libra as well that have left him hurt but unfortunately i didn't realize it hurt him until much later.

Thank you so much for your advice, that sounds doable and I really do appreciate it. It's definitely really upsetting and hurtful that he hasn't tried contacting me especially since he's seen me set aside my pride for him so many times. The only thing is I have so much pride too and it's so hard to be vulnerable again especially since it seems like he's doing everything to push me away. I'm just scared he met someone else or just doesn't feel the same. I'm so confused but I'm definitely taking your advice for giving him more time

Yea you're right, because during the argument he told me he didn't care about me and a bunch of other things on the phone and when we spoke in person he admitted he said it out of anger and that he really did care. Also he had said he didn't want to talk but when we got in person he did want to talk

Posted by Libragirl445
Yea you're right, because during the argument he told me he didn't care about me and a bunch of other things on the phone and when we spoke in person he admitted he said it out of anger and that he really did care. Also he had said he didn't want to talk but when we got in person he did want to talk

Exactly. People say things they don't mean all the time, we're human we make mistakes. Give it two weeks tops and then reach out to him and make an effort to speak with him in person. I think he will come back. He just needs to stop being stubborn and forget about whatever fight you guys had.

You're so right. I was going to go a month without talking to him because christmas is coming and I wanted to see if he would be the one to reach out to me. I guess I just want him to realize I won't keep running back because if he thinks I will I'm afraid he might never actually want to work things out again because he knows I'll always be there. But I'm going to see how I feel two weeks from now. Right now I've just been trying to ignore my feelings in hopes that I'll just get over him

Posted by Libragirl445
You're so right. I was going to go a month without talking to him because christmas is coming and I wanted to see if he would be the one to reach out to me. I guess I just want him to realize I won't keep running back because if he thinks I will I'm afraid he might never actually want to work things out again because he knows I'll always be there. But I'm going to see how I feel two weeks from now. Right now I've just been trying to ignore my feelings in hopes that I'll just get over him

Don't ignore it. If your "ignore it" then that just means you're pretending something isn't there but it really is. Wait two weeks tops and of you're still wanna work things out with him, reach out. I suggest you not be stubborn and wait a month, two stubborn indivuals will never reach success. I know it sucks being the bigger person but someone has to do it, maybe he'll learn from you.

And if you still wanna work things out *

You're right I'm going to take your advice. Either he learns or I risk looking desperate or being played with again 😢 but maybe you're right you never know what can happen. I really hope he doesn't move on.

Update: so I kind of freaked out once I was looking on his page and realized he might have been talking to/going on dates with this girl he used to be friends with. I texted him that I want to see him tomorrow. I decided I want to get it all off my chest before it's too late. I feel stupid and scared though because I feel like I might have ruined everything by contacting him only after a week. Do you think I made the wrong choice 😢 if he's seeing her, do you think his feelings for me are gone?

Posted by Libragirl445
Update: so I kind of freaked out once I was looking on his page and realized he might have been talking to/going on dates with this girl he used to be friends with. I texted him that I want to see him tomorrow. I decided I want to get it all off my chest before it's too late. I feel stupid and scared though because I feel like I might have ruined everything by contacting him only after a week. Do you think I made the wrong choice 😢 if he's seeing her, do you think his feelings for me are gone?

Oh boy, well first things first, stay calm and collective. It is a little too soon to be contacting him right now, but it's alright, you can't 'untext' him, so there's no point in worrying about that. Focus on the present and what already has happened right now, you texted him, and now you have to deal with it and take it from there. How old are you two, teens, 20's, 30's..?
Did he respond? Stop assuming things before you drive yourself nuts! If you really want to know who he went to the movies with just ask him, a simple question can't hurt... And if he questions why you are curious about who we went to the movies with, just state that you would just like to know, or you can put it like this... "are we dating other people now?" If he is mature, he will respond to these questions truthfully.

Posted by Nevermore
You'e an ex for a reason. He's doing his own way since he's single.

their breakup is still pretty recent, and it seems like they didn't really want to break up, they broke up because of circumstances, therefore, it's obvious there is mending that needs to be done, whether it's romantic or platonic.

Posted by wicked
Sometimes when men feel a lot and when women dont reciprocate, they behave like babies especially at the very beginning when they start to feel vulnerable/emotional....so they resort to mind games and tantrums. Dont encourage it. How you handle this now will define your future dealings whether romantic/platonic/non existent with the guy.
U have clearly expressed you miss him. And again your last text. Let it be. Therenis nothing wrong with that. Nobody is going to kill you over an over eager text.
Dont contact him. There is no need for a gal to remind a guy she exists especially after a few days and having been intimate (?)... he is not daft. If he wants you he knows to get in touch.

this person is right, there is only so much you can do. Hang out with him and see how he acts.. and what he says

My opinion... If he's crying in front of you.... And still broke up with you... He is scared of you... hurting him. He must have had a bad break up in the past to cause him to behave this way. Just FYI A Taurus male (per personal experience) will contact you out the blue eventually if you haven't spoken for a minute but he will not contact you again after you have already ignored him or you made him feel insecure or gave him some unsolicited critism (aka said something really mean) in the last convo.

He's 20 and I'm 19, and yes he did respond saying he wants to see me too and that we should meet up after he finished work today. We were both tired and it got too late for us to meet but he is asking me what I'm doing tomorrow I'm assuming so we can meet then.

I'm so nervous just because there's so much I want to say to him but I'm scared he doesn't even want to hear it. How should I approach the topic without coming on too aggressive or pushy? He tends to avoid subjects that get to him or upset him and I'm scared the more I tell him how I feel the further ill push him away

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Posted by wicked
Sometimes when men feel a lot and when women dont reciprocate, they behave like babies especially at the very beginning when they start to feel vulnerable/emotional....so they resort to mind games and tantrums. Dont encourage it. How you handle this now will define your future dealings whether romantic/platonic/non existent with the guy.
U have clearly expressed you miss him. And again your last text. Let it be. Therenis nothing wrong with that. Nobody is going to kill you over an over eager text.
Dont contact him. There is no need for a gal to remind a guy she exists especially after a few days and having been intimate (?)... he is not daft. If he wants you he knows to get in touch.

this person is right, there is only so much you can do. Hang out with him and see how he acts.. and what he says

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Yeah I definitely want to feel things out first but I'm not sure how things will be considering we haven't seen each other and now that I assume he's seeing other people. I kind of feel like I'm in competition with those girls and I hate this feeling

Posted by wicked
Sometimes when men feel a lot and when women dont reciprocate, they behave like babies especially at the very beginning when they start to feel vulnerable/emotional....so they resort to mind games and tantrums. Dont encourage it. How you handle this now will define your future dealings whether romantic/platonic/non existent with the guy.
U have clearly expressed you miss him. And again your last text. Let it be. Therenis nothing wrong with that. Nobody is going to kill you over an over eager text.
Dont contact him. There is no need for a gal to remind a guy she exists especially after a few days and having been intimate (?)... he is not daft. If he wants you he knows to get in touch.

You're totally right and that's what I thought was causing his behavior and this is why I want to keep fighting for him. I feel like I ruined everything by keeping my guard up and not being open with my feelings towards him because it ended up hurting him. He did reply to my text though and now we're trying to meet tomorrow so hopefully that happens. I'm just not really sure how to get into the subject of what I want to tell him or express to him because he tends to avoid touchy subjects that upset him. But him agreeing to meet gives me hope that maybe there is still a chance for us.

Posted by keepitreal4once
My opinion... If he's crying in front of you.... And still broke up with you... He is scared of you... hurting him. He must have had a bad break up in the past to cause him to behave this way. Just FYI A Taurus male (per personal experience) will contact you out the blue eventually if you haven't spoken for a minute but he will not contact you again after you have already ignored him or you made him feel insecure or gave him some unsolicited critism (aka said something really mean) in the last convo.

I agree completely. If he cried in front you, that's a huge deal. It doesn't get any more real than that. Do you mind sharing what made him cry specifically? I also agree that he likes you and cares about you but he's just scared.

He cried when he was talking about how we hadn't spoken in a couple days and he felt like he was acting how he was acting because he had put his guard up and he didn't know how long it would take for him to let it back down. And about how it hurt because he gave me everything he could and he really opened up to me

Posted by Libragirl445
He's 20 and I'm 19, and yes he did respond saying he wants to see me too and that we should meet up after he finished work today. We were both tired and it got too late for us to meet but he is asking me what I'm doing tomorrow I'm assuming so we can meet then.

I'm so nervous just because there's so much I want to say to him but I'm scared he doesn't even want to hear it. How should I approach the topic without coming on too aggressive or pushy? He tends to avoid subjects that get to him or upset him and I'm scared the more I tell him how I feel the further ill push him away

No no, stop thinking like that. You're just being paranoid. If he didn't want to hear what you have to say then he wouldn't have agreed to meet up with you silly.

Be confident in how you feel and what you preach to him, this will make any Taurus feel secure that and they can trust you. Trust me! But also be vulnerable, and 100% honest.

Just because he supposedly went to the movies with another girl, that doesn't mean he's over you, maybe he was just testing you to see if you would react or not. I test people all the time. He doesn't seem like the type to wear his heart on his sleeve, so you have to make him feel secure enough to open up to you, and by doing so you will need to open up to him first.

Well I tried my best to give you good advice, I hope this works!

Posted by Libragirl445
He cried when he was talking about how we hadn't spoken in a couple days and he felt like he was acting how he was acting because he had put his guard up and he didn't know how long it would take for him to let it back down. And about how it hurt because he gave me everything he could and he really opened up to me

Wow!!! So you guys are getting pretty deep and close huh... I have cried in front of my libra many times.

I think you guys can work this out. Just tell him whatever you want him to know and how you feel. Don't think about it too much just let it come natural.

Posted by Libragirl445
He's 20 and I'm 19, and yes he did respond saying he wants to see me too and that we should meet up after he finished work today. We were both tired and it got too late for us to meet but he is asking me what I'm doing tomorrow I'm assuming so we can meet then.

I'm so nervous just because there's so much I want to say to him but I'm scared he doesn't even want to hear it. How should I approach the topic without coming on too aggressive or pushy? He tends to avoid subjects that get to him or upset him and I'm scared the more I tell him how I feel the further ill push him away

Tell him everything. Be honest, libra, he obviously has a wall up and it's not coming down if you don't be 100% with him.

Have you fallen in love with him?

Thank you guys so much for all of your advice! Mysterioustaurus & wicked; you two have made me feel so much more hopeful about my chances with my Taurus. I don't know if it's love just because we were together for such a short period of time and for most of it I didn't let my guard down. But I care about him so much! He has made me happier than anyone I've ever been with which is something I want to tell him tomorrow too. I guess you both are right in saying that if he didn't want to hear me out he wouldn't agree to meet with me. But my insecurities are telling me he just enjoys my company and doesn't want to give it up but still doesn't want to work things out. I'm going to try being more positive thought and I'm going to just be honest and see what happens, wish me luck!! Thanks again for all of your help and I will keep you guys updated on what happens! 🙂

Did you see him yet

Hey guys, so I did see him last night. I went to his house and we just hung out and watched tv and laughed together for a couple of hours. He started asking me what I've been up to and I told him, and he told me how he's just been focusing on his work and swimming and that he hasn't been speaking to anyone or going anywhere unrelated to work or school. Then he brings up the movie incident. He says he went to see the movie with his mom. Mind you I hadn't said anything about the movies, he brought it up on his own. Later that night when I was leaving he walked me to the train. When we get there I told him that I had come that day to tell him something but that I was unsure if I should say it. Then he told me he knew what I wanted to tell him and that I should wait. When I asked him why, he said because "I didn't have to". I asked him why not and he said because me coming to see him was enough. He said I should wait. Then I told him no, there were certain things I just had to say. But I finally agreed and said maybe I would just text it to him. Later that night at home I sent him a long text basically explaining why I had kept my guard up and how I was sorry, and if we did try again which is what I wanted that I would it down and really be there for him. I told him I understood why he acted how he acted and that I didn't want him to feel pressure to say anything he didn't want to but I wanted to get it off my chest. He replied that he was thankful for me telling him this and me committing to coming to see him and he wasn't sure what he was doing but he wanted to work on himself which he said has nothing to do with me. He said we could still be around eachother because nothing bad happened between us. Then he said he knows it took a lot from me to tell him all of this and that "it will make things better for both of us". And that I am great.


The way I interpreted this was basically he's thanking me for apologizing but he still doesn't want to try again. I'm a little disappointed but still feel better having told him everything. I've put all my cards on the table and maybe this just isn't supposed to happened. I'm not really sure how to reply, I'm a bit confused. I don't think there's much I can say back to that. I don't know if I can still keep spending time with him after this. I don't think it's healthy because part of me will always want to be with him. I think his reply was a way of telling me we don't want the same thing without trying to hurt my feelings.

Thank you so much for the prompt response, I still haven't replied to him and I guess my question here is what's the best way to approach this? I don't know what to say to all of that. I agree that it was a lot at once and he probably is shocked that I even opened up to him because he's not used to this side of me. You're totally right, I figured he wouldn't just go back to 100 but I guess I was hoping for more of a sign that he wanted to keep me around or that he wants to work on things. I'm confused because when he says "it will make things better for both of us" I took it as us in general as individuals not put situation or like in terms of us being together. Him saying he wants to just work on himself is what makes me feel like he is trying to tell me to back down but he is trying to be gentle with my feelings.

You're right I definitely don't want to breathe down his neck or harass him but I don't know if I can keep hanging out with him because I already know what I want. If I try to stick by him and wait for him to sort out what he wants and he doesn't want the same thing in the end I will just be heartbroken again. I don't know what to do.

this is what you should do. be his friend. it might be hard to put your feelings to one side but i'm certain he will appreciate your efforts. give him the time he needs to sort himself out and be a consistent companion.

I thought about that but what if he doesn't really need to sort himself out and he just wanted to let me down easily. I'm scared he wants me to leave him alone but he is trying to spare my feelings

This is what I wrote back:

"I know what you mean and I'm glad you're focusing on yourself because that's honestly what is most important and always good, especially with a new year coming. This is the age where that should be our primary concern regardless so I totally understand that and I respect it. I'm really glad I told you all of this too, you're right it did take a lot from me to do it but I think it was good that I did, & thank you 🙂"

No actually it felt really really good

I felt good after I told him and I think I said it exactly how I meant it. I feel like a weight has been lifted off of my heart I don't feel so sad or full of regret anymore about how things happened. I feel like I've made my peace. The only thing is I do feel a little confused and a tinge of dissapoinrment because part of me did want him to have open arms and say he's been feeling the same way and at least that there's a chance in the future of us trying again

But I am trying to be as realistic as possible and take his words literally to really understand what I need to do or if I should just move on from this

I would appreciate any insight or feedback asap.. I'm very confused

Posted by Libragirl445
I thought about that but what if he doesn't really need to sort himself out and he just wanted to let me down easily. I'm scared he wants me to leave him alone but he is trying to spare my feelings

i think you should give him the benefit of the doubt. he told you how he has been focusing on school and not seeing anyone. he probably went to the cinema with his mother as her way of cheering him up.

and it doesn't harm you to be his friend regardless if he wants you to hang around on not. being his friend doesn't mean being all up in his business though. be there to support and care for him where and when needed.

this whole saying one thing and meaning another to spare their feelings is a libra trait. i don't think it is a taurus one.

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Posted by Libragirl445
I thought about that but what if he doesn't really need to sort himself out and he just wanted to let me down easily. I'm scared he wants me to leave him alone but he is trying to spare my feelings

i think you should give him the benefit of the doubt. he told you how he has been focusing on school and not seeing anyone. he probably went to the cinema with his mother as her way of cheering him up.

and it doesn't harm you to be his friend regardless if he wants you to hang around on not. being his friend doesn't mean being all up in his business though. be there to support and care for him where and when needed.

this whole saying one thing and meaning another to spare their feelings is a libra trait. i don't think it is a taurus one.

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Perhaps you're right and I do try to constantly give him the benefit of the doubt. I honestly do understand him saying he wants to work on himself. I just don't know if I'm strong enough to keep seeing him and keep waiting when I'm unsure of his feelings for me. I don't think it's healthy for me. As far as the movies I don't feel as though he is being honest about the situation because I have seen a lot of proof hinting at who he went to the movies with and if it really was nothing he wouldn't have deleted the picture of the tickets from his page and brought it up without me questioning him. I see what you're saying about being there for him but won't it hurting he decides he doesn't want the same thing I want later? What about when I need him to be there for me? That's not really fair to me

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Posted by jeane

Posted by Libragirl445
I thought about that but what if he doesn't really need to sort himself out and he just wanted to let me down easily. I'm scared he wants me to leave him alone but he is trying to spare my feelings

i think you should give him the benefit of the doubt. he told you how he has been focusing on school and not seeing anyone. he probably went to the cinema with his mother as her way of cheering him up.

and it doesn't harm you to be his friend regardless if he wants you to hang around on not. being his friend doesn't mean being all up in his business though. be there to support and care for him where and when needed.

this whole saying one thing and meaning another to spare their feelings is a libra trait. i don't think it is a taurus one.

Perhaps you're right and I do try to constantly give him the benefit of the doubt. I honestly do understand him saying he wants to work on himself. I just don't know if I'm strong enough to keep seeing him and keep waiting when I'm unsure of his feelings for me. I don't think it's healthy for me. As far as the movies I don't feel as though he is being honest about the situation because I have seen a lot of proof hinting at who he went to the movies with and if it really was nothing he wouldn't have deleted the picture of the tickets from his page and brought it up without me questioning him. I see what you're saying about being there for him but won't it hurting he decides he doesn't want the same thing I want later? What about when I need him to be there for me? That's not really fair to me

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you do it because it is the right thing to do not because of what you can get out of it. i had the same issue with my bull around this time last year. he needed me to be his friend and not his girlfriend while he was dealing with other things in his life. we fought like mad for about 2 days and then in the early morning hours, it dawned on me - he wasn't pushing me away he just wanted me to fulfill a different need; friendship, love, support. he could't think of anything beyond that at that time. in this moment, this what he needed to help him through and no matter how much it hurt me, i knew it would hurt me more to deny him that. i couldn't leave him when he needed it so much.

now granted, my situation was slightly different to yours. we don't live miles apart and we had been in a serious relationship up until then. we also hadn't technically broken up but although my initial instinct was to leave him to it, i couldn't. he was my friend. he was desperate for this and i loved him too much to let him down.

Posted by wicked
I hate to say this.... instead of trying to make it work you are being indecisive and too ready to walk out! Relationships are not build in a day or a few months. The man cried in front of you!! Explained to you abt his expectations. Alleviated your insecurities regarding any imaginary dates, told you you meetings him said a lot to him, replied to your emotional text in a sweet way!! What else do you expect at this point? U must know people cant taken immediate U turns... this will take some time. U need to ask yourself if have the patience and trust to wait... we are some people who can give our opinions on this... but its your life experience. Why he could be the love of your life. What if we were to ask you to walk away? And later you regret it?
So you need to decide what you want.Whether you wanna stick around or not shld be solely decided by you. We didnt see anything.. its all words written ob a website. Based on your experience/instincts/needs you need to decide what u want.
All the best.

I agree that you're right, I guess I'm just confused. I replied cordially to his last message and he never replied to me. Maybe I should just leave him alone for a couple of weeks unless he reaches out to me and see what happens. I think at this point he just needs me to give him space because demanding to see him and being pushy isn't in my character and I can't continue doing it. He has made it clear that he isn't looking for what I want right now. You're right he did handle the situation better than he could have but I still don't know if that means there's hope for us, you're right things don't go back to normal in a day and I wouldn't have a problem waiting if he was to tell me that he at least wants me too but he hasn't.

Posted by wicked
Dont over think it. Take it easy. Its been a month or two right? Like I said in my first post, he cld be taken aback by all the intense emotions.
Go slow. If u wanna be careful, move at his speed. See where it goes.
Its so difficult for me to understand this concept. I mean I fell in love. I know! I know! Heart wants what it wants...

You're so right and maybe it is that. I think I'm just going to step away from the situation for awhile. If he decides he wants to see me or contact me he knows how to get in touch.

If anyone else had any insight on the situation I would really appreciate it!

Posted by busyeyes88
My advice: PLEASE STAY OFF FB or INSTAGRAM!!! They are relationship killers! Do be stalking his page etc!!! Just give him space ; trust your gut; trust his actions not words as people sometimes say things they don't mean and say stuff in that moment; taurus has a hard casing but soft inside; give him space; if he truly love you He will come around; taurus will never let go of true love over a misunderstanding; have faith in him and the relationship you had with him and the true genuine love you both shared that he will have a change of heart; but importantly be a TRUE friend; be there for him; holla at him from time to time and let him know you are there!

Taurus man is not eze. I have carried mine in my heart for almost a year and I feel his presence encasing me. A "presence " which I pray will be with me every day regardless of circumstances ; I will always have his back and fight his corner till eternity... I am his rock as he was mine..

Just be your taurus ' rock OP. God bless and good luck ðŸ€

Thank you for your advice and insight. I guess I'm unsure if reaching out to him is a really good idea at this point because I don't know if he even wants me to stay in his life. Ive tried everything possible to keep my place in his life and it doesn't seem to phase him. I feel a lack of interest and like maybe he met someone else

Do you guys think I should still continue to reach out or leave things as they are?

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Posted by Libragirl445
Do you guys think I should still continue to reach out or leave things as they are?

You saw him; you made 'peace' with him... Now back off and do not become that 'pesky mosquito' that one cant get rid of!!! 😉

Do not contact him or blow up him phone leaving tonnes of messages!! You will only then become a 'thorn in his side' and weak (Taurus hates any kind of weeknesss

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You're right and that's exactly what I wanted to avoid doing but I guess part of me is still hoping in time he will think about what I told him and want to give things another try. My first instinct is to leave him alone and do my own thing but I'm worried he will think I forgot about him. I want him to know I am persistent and I still want him because I know he's wondering if I'm seeing anyone (when we saw eachother he kept hinting at it but I didn't comment or feed into it). Do you think there is a chance he will come back after time and space?