lovelylibra123
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Taurus guy - should I ask him out?
Sounds like you are doing most of the chasing. Don't. He knows how to find you. Let him.
Posted by Infinite8Posted by EnochtheWiseLol... I think a lot of Taurus males would agree with this advice, but I personally wouldn't do that.
Ask him out. He is trying to lure you. They are often too shy and passive to make the first move. Once they are comfortable, that changes.
Most Taurus males have made the first move on me. When they really want something, they'll do anything to get it.
Just like Scorpios... They too will stalk you, find out EVERYTHING about you, observe you and then come in closer.
It is a VERY LONG process... But, when they make all the moves, they are at their best and will shower you with romantic gestures, gifts, affection and many types of proposals for commitment.
They way you are doing it only allows them to be at their worst - lazy and will just sit back and ALWAYS make you do all the work. You will never feel that emotional security and confirmation that they feel the same about you.
So... It's up to you which route you want for yourself.
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I agree with infinite8. You given him a few "green lights" now. You were the one to first approach him, you were the one to find him on Facebook and friend him.
Don't allow him to be lazy. He has to reciprocate too and no, liking a Facebook post doesn't count.
Thanks for the advice, I guess it wouldn't hurt to send him a friendly message and see where it goes from there....its scary though...and I need to think of something to start the conversation.... :O
Can i just say, in a libra way, you're both right?
My partner has many women approach him and flirt with him, even right in front of me. He doesnt see it. Doesn't notice it. Women ask for his number, send him cute messages, ask him out. Again, he doesn't see their obvious moves.
With me he was very shy. I had to make myself available and after months of flirting, I had to spell it out to him that I was interested in seeing our friendship develop. Then he wouldn't take no for an answer even when I started to change my mind.
With all that said, before that he would reach out to me. He would make contact. Sometimes I would and if I didn't he would and vice versa. I didn't have to do all the work. He was interested from the start but never knew of my feelings but he still would make an effort to be in my life even it meant being platonic.
So I think you are both right. They can be shy, they often need a push but they will keep themselves on the periphery somehow even though it is the start of an incredibly long process.
Just my experience.
My partner has many women approach him and flirt with him, even right in front of me. He doesnt see it. Doesn't notice it. Women ask for his number, send him cute messages, ask him out. Again, he doesn't see their obvious moves.
With me he was very shy. I had to make myself available and after months of flirting, I had to spell it out to him that I was interested in seeing our friendship develop. Then he wouldn't take no for an answer even when I started to change my mind.
With all that said, before that he would reach out to me. He would make contact. Sometimes I would and if I didn't he would and vice versa. I didn't have to do all the work. He was interested from the start but never knew of my feelings but he still would make an effort to be in my life even it meant being platonic.
So I think you are both right. They can be shy, they often need a push but they will keep themselves on the periphery somehow even though it is the start of an incredibly long process.
Just my experience.
Posted by Infinite8This.Posted by EnochtheWiseOMG... "Come deflower me" vibe is the best vibe in the world for this ScorpPosted by Infinite8All she did so far was add him on FB.
OP looks like she is driving all the time without getting a real confirmation from him.
He's eye-stalking her. This is the main shy Taurus move besides emanating a "come deflower me" vibe.
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She's already done two moves:
1. Approached to talk to him
2. Found him on FB
And is about to do two more:
3. Iniciate concersation on FB
4. Ask him out.
"I want to send him a message to get to know him better and maybe ask him out"
All he's done is stare and "like" photos ?
He should at least make the effort to talk to her first before she makes any other moves. Again, that's just me.
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Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by jeaneYou know I have seen this again and again. I go out with my brother all the time. It could be a bar or it could just be a trip to the grocery store. Everywhere we go, the women are swooning, flirting, getting hot and bothered around him. I am extremely aware of the vibes and a lot of times its pretty sexual and flirtatious. He is almost entirely oblivious. I will tell him about everything I saw and he gets embarrassed, but flattered...He's mystified sometimes disbelieving when I tell him what I'm seeing.
Can i just say, in a libra way, you're both right?
My partner has many women approach him and flirt with him, even right in front of me. He doesnt see it. Doesn't notice it. Women ask for his number, send him cute messages, ask him out. Again, he doesn't see their obvious moves.
The only thing I have ever been able to chalk it up to is that he really is that innocent in a way. He is not thinking on that wavelength and just tries to be a gentleman most of the time. And it is that very thing, that I think women notice and like about him, that disarms them and allows them to be more confident and forward around him. Its a very subtle seducing/disarming sort of energy he gives off without noticing it because its not strategic at all. It is intrinsic to his nature.
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You're spot on. Same with my guy. He thinks I am talking like a crazy person when I mention it. Not because I am upset by it and so he is down playing it (in truth, I find it rather amusing) but because he just doesn't see it.
Posted by EnochtheWisePerhaps but if she has the maturity to see something in him that separates him from the rest of the pack, she will bide her time.Posted by Infinite8Libras don't operate in the super slow Taurus time dimension. She'll have other suitors herself probably before this dude initiates, and this is just such a great pairing that I think it would be a shame to pass up the potential.Posted by EnochtheWise?... That's just your Aries bits getting impatient and putting a time limit.Posted by Infinite8I agree with "should" but I'd put my money on won't.
He should at least make the effort to talk to her first before she makes any other moves. Again, that's just me.
I'll put the money on my experience and say WILL ... Just, not at the time that you request ?
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Posted by EnochtheWiseJust Venus really. (Uranus and North node too)Posted by jeaneYou have any strong Scorpio placements?Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by jeaneYou know I have seen this again and again. I go out with my brother all the time. It could be a bar or it could just be a trip to the grocery store. Everywhere we go, the women are swooning, flirting, getting hot and bothered around him. I am extremely aware of the vibes and a lot of times its pretty sexual and flirtatious. He is almost entirely oblivious. I will tell him about everything I saw and he gets embarrassed, but flattered...He's mystified sometimes disbelieving when I tell him what I'm seeing.
Can i just say, in a libra way, you're both right?
My partner has many women approach him and flirt with him, even right in front of me. He doesnt see it. Doesn't notice it. Women ask for his number, send him cute messages, ask him out. Again, he doesn't see their obvious moves.
The only thing I have ever been able to chalk it up to is that he really is that innocent in a way. He is not thinking on that wavelength and just tries to be a gentleman most of the time. And it is that very thing, that I think women notice and like about him, that disarms them and allows them to be more confident and forward around him. Its a very subtle seducing/disarming sort of energy he gives off without noticing it because its not strategic at all. It is intrinsic to his nature.
You're spot on. Same with my guy. He thinks I am talking like a crazy person when I mention it. Not because I am upset by it and so he is down playing it (in truth, I find it rather amusing) but because he just doesn't see it.
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Posted by EnochtheWiseAre you vis too?Posted by jeaneI have a lot of Venus in Scorp friends. One thing I've noticed is that they are very sensitive to any sort of sexual chemistry, attraction, or energy wherever they go. They seem to pick up on it very well.
Just Venus really. (Uranus and North node too)
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While Exes tauruses was part of my journey. I experienced the slow mover taurguys and the marathon taurguys. Slow mover - cautious and have current relationship on going but still finding the best candidate. The marathon - most of them are a. $ .s.h.o.l.e.s and have a strong attraction with you they will run after you regardless of the situation.
So my advice. Be his friend. Know him first. Don't do the first move. I believe taurguy once he is sure of himself. he will let you know and you don't have to guess it like" is he into me" question most women asked here. Lol.
So my advice. Be his friend. Know him first. Don't do the first move. I believe taurguy once he is sure of himself. he will let you know and you don't have to guess it like" is he into me" question most women asked here. Lol.
haha what a crazy turn this thread has taken... I just wanted to update on what I decided to do. I sent him a message asking him a question about something in his work, he messaged me back straight away and he has initiated all the conversation from there. He is asking questions all about me and we have been talking constantly for the last two nights. So got the ball rolling still too soon to tell if it will go anywhere but Im glad I took the advice and started the conversation.
Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by jeaneI have a lot of Venus in Scorp friends. One thing I've noticed is that they are very sensitive to any sort of sexual chemistry, attraction, or energy wherever they go. They seem to pick up on it very well.
Just Venus really. (Uranus and North node too)
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This is correct for me. Scorp sun and Venus here.
Posted by DeadpoopMust be a Taurus thing. My fella has a thing for noses. More specifically, my nose! Eyes too, he calls me 'pretty eyes'.Posted by Infinite8Eyes and beautiful noses are my weakness *clutches heart*Posted by DeadpoopThey have eyes that sparkle... Happy eyes. It's definitely a beautiful sight, I love it!!
I got a question tho... Why are libras so damn gorgeous especially in the eyes? Like I've seen this time and time again.
Also, beautiful smiles...?
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Posted by lovelylibra123
haha what a crazy turn this thread has taken... I just wanted to update on what I decided to do. I sent him a message asking him a question about something in his work, he messaged me back straight away and he has initiated all the conversation from there. He is asking questions all about me and we have been talking constantly for the last two nights. So got the ball rolling still too soon to tell if it will go anywhere but Im glad I took the advice and started the conversation.
I don't see a huge issue with having initiated in this instance. Opening the lines of communication and offering a green light isn't chasing. What I would say now is to just let things flow naturally. You have done enough so far so if he's interested then he should be initiating with you (as he has done) and be proactive while you be receptive.
As others have said, he may like to observe for a while and get to know you or he might be more direct if he has more fire placements.
Either way is fine as long as he is leading. Use this time to get to know him without rushing anything. If you force or push him you'll not give him the opportunity to show you how he feels or what he's thinking about. Use this time to be clear with what you're looking for in life and see how his situation is. See if you match. Build a friendship and then what will be will be.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Actually loads of people on the thread told me to initiate contact so thats the advice I decided to take.Posted by lovelylibra123Typical libra. Why does that not surprise me. Why ask us and then do the opposite.. Well be prepared to be the "man" wherever you take this as it Will be you "desperately" (funnily enough most libra females always seem to have a "desperate" energy about them) "leading" him and doing all the work...
haha what a crazy turn this thread has taken... I just wanted to update on what I decided to do. I sent him a message asking him a question about something in his work, he messaged me back straight away and he has initiated all the conversation from there. He is asking questions all about me and we have been talking constantly for the last two nights. So got the ball rolling still too soon to tell if it will go anywhere but Im glad I took the advice and started the conversation.
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