I met this 31 yo Taurus guy online (I'm a Libra) and we immediately hit it off. We began texting daily and would talk non-stop via text (he doesn't like talking on the phone). At the time I started talking with him I was taking a break from my bf of 10 years and deciding whether I was going to break up the relationship or get back with him. I was really upfront with the new guy and he actually was a good listener to my problems. He actually told me that he had broken up with his gf of 7 years 3 months ago. We actually ended up becoming really close with each other and both told each other that we liked each other...he even mentioned how "addicted" he felt towards me. We also went on a few dates and he seemed really interested in me (although nothing physical ever happened). I ended up breaking up with my bf not because of the feelings I was developing for this new guy but because I just felt like the relationship wasn't right and that I need to date around for awhile and be more independent (my 10 yr relationship was the only relationship that I??ve ever had). We would talk about so many things and I asked him if he is ready to settle down and get married and he said yes. I told him I was happy for him but when he asked me if I was ready I told him that I wasn't yet thats why I feel the need to explore my life and be on my own. My new guy revealed that he is guarded (he said he doesn't want to be this way) and doesn't want to run the risk of getting hurt. He said that me rushing into a relationship with someone else wouldn't be wise since he thinks I need to be single for a bit. He said that this is something that is going to have to take a lot of time and that we should be friends for now. I agreed with him. He also said that we are in 2 very different places and I agreed but I said that it doesn't mean that we can't eventually get to the same place and he agreed.Throughout the whole time we've been on 6 dates but slowly he seemed to drift away from me saying that he is really busy with work. And he also started to get really sensitive about things always assuming that I was out on other dates even though I told him that I hadn't been on a date since I saw him! I think I got really attached to him and it almost started to feel like we were bf and gf just before he started to pull away from me. He has left for Europe for 2 weeks and I??ve tried asking him to meetup before he left since I haven't seen him in like a month but he just said he's t
