Taurus jealous of the success of others.

I have a big problem with jealousy. I find that when i'm not satisfied with my life, i start comparing myself to others. I get jealous of the success of others. It makes me feel inadequate and inferior. Sometime i feel physically ill. I've gone as far as distancing myself from friends because it caused me pain to be around the. Anyone experience this?

With the Taurus I knew, I noticed he was jealous of things and certain possessions. I'm not successful lol, but my mother was(who i lived with) and so was his father. Both of them Aqua's btw. Anyway he'd drop me home and make very slick comments nearly everytime. We lived in a gated community but driving up on it was a little rough. Typical ATL in some parts. He'd always say "Your house is nice, too bad its in the middle of the hood." I'd ignore it.

Then we got into it at work when he saw the pics of my mothers BMW on my sisters Facebook page. My mother put some rims on the car and he went on and on about how ugly they were to the point where he was seething and couldn't stop talking. He had a Jag, and his thing was fixing up his car. I knew the root of it was jealousy but I never called him out on it.

I worked with an older Taurus lady like that too. She assumed things about me and my situation based on what I'd come to work in. Always slick comments about everything.

On the flip side, I knew of another Taurus who was NOTHING like these two. And I have a distant Taurus cousin who admires my mother and she's not like that at all either.

Jealousy/envy happens to everyone at some point. I personally feel certain ways about certain things but I always know the root and push myself to be around it to either change my situation or deal with it.

You have all the power to be who/what you want to be.

Yea whats your Moon sign? How you feel inside equates to your Moon sign not your Sun sign usually. The Sun sign is how others view you or your outward appearance.

I have a moon in Sagittarius and Mars in Scorpio retrograde

Posted by ellessque
uggh.

I'm currently dealing with this same thing right now with my taurus brother.

He has a cancer moon.


He just thinks everyone "owes" him something.

This is classic Cancer Moon. I really think some (probably most) of them need to have a "Come to Jesus meeting" with themselves. Either that or medicate themselves and spare the rest of us.

Posted by Theultra79
I do know a taurus who does this. She is always asking me what our old high school friends are up to, what they're driving, are they owning or renting, are the engaged or married yet. I know that if she were in a happier place in her life she wouldn't do this. Although I feel she is obsessive about it. She even tries to subtley ask me how much I earn. I always act like I didn't pick up on it. I feel bad for her. I also had a libra friend who did this when she was feeling low. I just old her you'll never be happy as long as you keep comparing yourself to other people. You will never be them. You'll always be yourself!

My friend would also ask if we were buying or renting.

Seeing a male act like a female is weird. -,-))

I wonder if that Cancer moon explains my sister always playing the victim?!

Possibly I have a Virgo friend who does this as well impossible to grab a chart because he looks at me weird when I ask his time of birth. -.-

Exsample. We are at work and everyone leaves I start saying how there is no way in hell Id waste my gas to get here just to get mad and leave. Dedication is missing and laziness has set in as one person said something then everybody followed that one person out. Me and him were the only ones left so I start rambling about how dedicated we are he starts nodding amd agreeing 2 hours later he comes to me like he's ready to go and my jaw drops. I'm like why I was just talking about this I thought we were staying he goes on to say I manapulated him to stay and I'm always bossy and something or other I just gave him a look. Then a Scorp came in and said you are your own man he was just talking. Then he was stumped. Victim........

I think these people lack the confidence to speak up. So they go along with the flow until it kills them. Then blame everyone around them.

*Taurus sun, Cancer moon* There was a period after I graduated from college, where I was hyper aware of how well my peers were doing. My college friends were mostly business and computer science majors. They were getting job offers left and right. I definitely felt inferior and as if I was being left behind. It took me a couple months longer than them, but I eventually ended up where I want to be. When I reminisced with my friends and told them how I felt back then, they were surprised and thought it was absurd. Maybe you should focus on accomplishing your goals and not worrying about how you compare to others. At the end of the day the only person judging you, is you.

I think a sense of "entitlement" has more to do with upbringing than anything else.

Agreed also grab a brain and recognize that everyone has there own path.

Posted by RoseTheTaurus
I think a sense of "entitlement" has more to do with upbringing than anything else.

Entitlement—??

Posted by ellessque
uggh.

I'm currently dealing with this same thing right now with my taurus brother.

He has a cancer moon.

My brother, not so much. As soon as life is a little bit difficult for him he goes on this rampage with words to pull everyone down, making you feel guilty for what you've accomplished.

Then he pulls out past experiences of where you tried to help him but it was quite "good enough". Now he's on the kick that I let him stay at my house BUT I made him pay rent. This was over a YEAR ago. He thinks his life would be WAY different know if he didn't pay rent to me and was able to save that money. Ummmm....it's been over a YEAR dude, give me a break. He would have pissed that money away anyways on possessions (his current choice is musical instruments) So, his trials right now are all MY fault because I'm twirling thru life at the moment.

What he doesn't realize is I don't have fairies that grace me with good fortune. I work my ass off and I plan.

He just thinks everyone "owes" him something.

Entitlement

K.