I'm falling for Mr. Taurus!

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by flirtycancer79 on Sunday, March 18, 2012 and has 21 replies.

Why You Might Be Falling for a Taurus Man

Falling for a Taurus man often involves his dependable, loyal, and sensual nature. These qualities can create strong emotional attraction and stability, making him irresistible. Recognizing these traits can help you understand your feelings better and navigate your relationship with him.

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@flirtycancer79
18 Years

I know i've got the "like him bug" cause I am excited to go to work tomorrow to see him. All the other men don't matter. Mr. Sag, Mr. Gem and Mr. Scorp better step up! Well, in reality none of them can even measure up at this point.

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@BigGirlPanties
15 Years1,000+ Posts

I'm in the early days of knowing a taurus too. What I've gathered is they go at a slow pace. Ask a lot of questions. Not too flirty, kind serious, shy. But, shows interest by talking about me and remembering things Ive shared with him.

He is close to his parents, which come to think of it, so was my taurus brother. I cant say how my brother is in love cus he never married and keeps quiet as hell.

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@flirtycancer79
18 Years

Well, Mr. Taurus is very flirty but is slow. I'd rathet go slow and build a friendship. He's a great guy and i'm excited to get to know him! Haven't had a guy give me butterflies in forever!

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@flirtycancer79
18 Years

True. We hung out last night. He made me dinner and we had 2 bottles of wine. I really enjoy his company and look forward to spending more time with him.

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@OverAnalyticBullhead
15 Years

Posted by flirtycancer79
True. We hung out last night. He made me dinner and we had 2 bottles of wine. I really enjoy his company and look forward to spending more time with him.

*giggling like a little high school girl* I do hope you give him lots of hugs and gratitude. We Taurus treasure people who love thanking us for our efforts. The hug part is just to fill-in the longing physical connection that every Taurus heartfully desires. Dont open up yet for cuddles until you're sure that he deserves one, besides, you'll have one thing that he'll be determine to achieve and I promise you, you'll enjoy doing so, just promise me that you make sure he's also enjoying the ride as well 🙂

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@flirtycancer79
18 Years

He's received lots of hugs and kisses for his wining and dining but not the goodies! I was planting kisses on him while we ate. Hehe!!!

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@flirtycancer79
18 Years

So.....I have a gut feeling. The taurus didn't return my text last night nor invite me to his event today. Its the first time for both. We had a great couple of days together on Tues and Wed. Just don't understand the turn off when I've given him space. Seems strange.

Taurus folks please let me know what you think.

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@flirtycancer79
18 Years

Mr. Taurus is still on cold. During the week I had issues and he was there for advise and a little hand holding. But has not fit me into jis schedule which is baffling me. I feel like I need to give him the cold shoulder this week. I like attention, if he can't give it than maybe I should move on. Just don't know what to think.

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@ALibra
14 Years

Hi there,

I've recently re-kindled with my Taurus ex, and I will say it's like dating a brand new person, but it's still him. After we broke up I think we both realized something's we would've done different to make it work. My issue was I cared too much too soon, and moved extremely fast. I can handle him now better than I did back then.

The number one thing I would suggest you remember when dealing with Taurus is they move really really REALLY slowwww. You have to know how to move at that glacier pace. If he's backed off out of nowhere try not to worry because most likely he's testing you. He may be trying to see just how easily you will let him go, or hard you are willing to go for yours (him). I only say this because my brother, my current Taurus, and my high-school sweetheart were a Taurus. They ALL tested their lovers. I see my brother do it to his current girlfriend, after 2 years of dating and he STILL tests her from time to time. I just sit and shake my head at him. It's crazy, it irritated me once I caught onto it that's my high-school Taurus was doing that to me, but eventually I learned to play along the payoff was at my benefit anyway by the time the tests stopped he was completely in love, talking marriage, and its showing to work on the current Taurus too.

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@LunarMaiden
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by ALibra
Hi there,

I've recently re-kindled with my Taurus ex, and I will say it's like dating a brand new person, but it's still him. After we broke up I think we both realized something's we would've done different to make it work. My issue was I cared too much too soon, and moved extremely fast. I can handle him now better than I did back then.

The number one thing I would suggest you remember when dealing with Taurus is they move really really REALLY slowwww. You have to know how to move at that glacier pace. If he's backed off out of nowhere try not to worry because most likely he's testing you. He may be trying to see just how easily you will let him go, or hard you are willing to go for yours (him). I only say this because my brother, my current Taurus, and my high-school sweetheart were a Taurus. They ALL tested their lovers. I see my brother do it to his current girlfriend, after 2 years of dating and he STILL tests her from time to time. I just sit and shake my head at him. It's crazy, it irritated me once I caught onto it that's my high-school Taurus was doing that to me, but eventually I learned to play along the payoff was at my benefit anyway by the time the tests stopped he was completely in love, talking marriage, and its showing to work on the current Taurus too.

What kind of tests? Life is short I don't have time for these shenanigans.

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@BigGirlPanties
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Amem sista, me neither. There has to come a time when WE stopped giving into their "Schedule" and move into the mode of THEM giving into ours....or making the choice to move on.

Who the hell wants to wait forever with these slow ass men? I need to get LAID, no mas waiting! 😉

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@flirtycancer79
18 Years

Well, the other day I told him that I missed his face outside of work. That evening he text which I didn't respond. He text again asking if I am being antisocial. The next day he was in my face, I ended up at his place after work. I laid in his bed watching tv while he cleaned and washed clothes. Later, I gave him a neck massage, we cuddled and than he cooked dinner. When he walked me to my car, he told me to stop being antisocial. I guess this cancer lady has to be speak up more often.

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@flirtycancer79
18 Years

Need some insight again. Mr. Taurus and I ended up having sex last week. The thing is that a co-worker told me that he went to see a romantic comedy over the weekend. I asked him if he went to the movies. He said yes. Than I asked who did he go with, he said by himself. I don't believe it for one minute. Question is...did I have sex with him too soon?

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@BigGirlPanties
15 Years1,000+ Posts

1. Stop talking to co-workers and others about what he's doing or not doing. Your digging for trouble.

2. Unless you have an agreed upon, exclusive monogamous committed relationship, who he goes to the movies with isnt your business. Sorry to be blunt, its my style ....

3. And if you have to ask if you slept with him too soon, the answer is probably yes. Sleeping with someone doesnt give you ownership rights or change the status of your relationship with a man.

How about having an mature, open, grown up talk with him about what kind of relationship you both would like to have? Sounds like you are a very jealous, insecure person....? If so, that is your issue to resolve, not his.

I wish you good luck.